Ask Me a Question v 12.26.2021

[Deleted member 3041612]

Is that where you masturbate into a hat with someone?

HYE had bad spelling ruin a question? (sorry, could not resist)

No, I try not to judge. I usually make mistakes and accept others may make them too.

(My question above stands)

 

[bobb_sledd]

It’s not important of what a person looks like to me. It depends on each person’s agenda. I like getting to know people and good honest conversations. Being “eye candy” is a plus, but not a requirement.

What is something you’re working on that is bound to become a big achievement?

I'm working on getting off Lit and doing something constructive. (we'll have to see how that goes.)

What kink were you once really into but not so much anymore?

 

[Deleted member 3041612]

I'm working on getting off Lit and doing something constructive. (we'll have to see how that goes.)

What kink were you once really into but not so much anymore?

Porn. Lots of porn. I saw someone who looked similar to my little cousin on there and a really young boy who was abused. I lost my taste for porn after that.

What is your biggest fear?

 

[F3x0r]

Porn. Lots of porn. I saw someone who looked similar to my little cousin on there and a really young boy who was abused. I lost my taste for porn after that.

What is your biggest fear?

Allowing myself to slide into living my life apathetically and then being dead.

What's your favourite way to travel?

 

[Paul_Chance]

I'm not a big traveler, I prefer STAYcations...

Does anyone else work from home and kind of use/see LIT as a form of social interaction?

When I was working (now retired), I did.

Where were you when you last wished you were somewhere else?

 

[Paul_Chance]

In Chemotherapy...

Who in your life taught you the MOST about sex?

That would have been an older woman was I was 19 (she was in her early thirties). She took the time and showed me specific things and explained them too me. A great education.

Who disappointed you the most when it came to your sexual partners?

 

[BongoGal]

Who disappointed you the most when it came to your sexual partners?

I suppose it was the soon-to-be ex who had his 'true-love' come back into his life, thus leaving me, well, with him as an ex. I wasn't mad at or disappointed with him, but it did kinda hurt at the time. Part of the reason it hurt was that he and I as a couple had a few fun weeks of very regular sex and then a week or two apart from each other. By the time we got back together, I was more than eager to fuck his brains out (figurative speaking). It was only after we spent some time together again, and I was throbbing and ready to rock, that he decided to break the news to me gently. I was, like, "Oh...okay. I understand. No hard feelings." (In retrospect, I have to admit that he a quite gentlemanly about the whole situation. He could have easily dumped me after a rollicking night of welcome-home sex. And to be perfectly frank, he could have easily suggested that we could have one final roll in the hay before parting for good. At this distance, I am glad he didn't ask, because I probably would have jumped at the chance. 2023 would look back at then-me with disappointment.)

Do you think that most women, let's say from the ages of 18-50, have a tendency to check out some guys' crotches?

 

[Paul_Chance]

I suppose it was the soon-to-be ex who had his 'true-love' come back into his life, thus leaving me, well, with him as an ex. I wasn't mad at or disappointed with him, but it did kinda hurt at the time. Part of the reason it hurt was that he and I as a couple had a few fun weeks of very regular sex and then a week or two apart from each other. By the time we got back together, I was more than eager to fuck his brains out (figurative speaking). It was only after we spent some time together again, and I was throbbing and ready to rock, that he decided to break the news to me gently. I was, like, "Oh...okay. I understand. No hard feelings." (In retrospect, I have to admit that he a quite gentlemanly about the whole situation. He could have easily dumped me after a rollicking night of welcome-home sex. And to be perfectly frank, he could have easily suggested that we could have one final roll in the hay before parting for good. At this distance, I am glad he didn't ask, because I probably would have jumped at the chance. 2023 would look back at then-me with disappointment.)

Do you think that most women, let's say from the ages of 18-50, have a tendency to check out some guys' crotches?

Yes. And they don't stop at 50.

What were the circumstances when you last checked someone out in public?

 

[bobb_sledd]

Yes. And they don't stop at 50.

What were the circumstances when you last checked someone out in public?

We had a cute server when we went out to eat a few days ago.

What’s the most consecutive days you’ve worn the same item of clothing?

 

[awired50]

We had a cute server when we went out to eat a few days ago.

What’s the most consecutive days you’ve worn the same item of clothing?

Never.

What is you go to masturbation routine?

 

[BongoGal]

What’s the most consecutive days you’ve worn the same item of clothing?

I've worn the same jacket for weeks on end during the winter.

Do you have any phobias?

 

[lacandy]

I've worn the same jacket for weeks on end during the winter.

Do you have any phobias?

Yep! I am TERRIFIED of snakes. I have nightmares about them.

What’s the best way to deal with a phobia?

 

[BongoGal]

What’s the best way to deal with a phobia?

The best way? I have no idea. I will say that confronting it a little at a time has worked for me.

What is a rather common sexual act that you have never tried and probably never will?

 

[YourSecretSanta]

$75,000 a year and not have to work...

Have you ever promised someone you would NOT do something again, but have...?

Sleep with my ex. So many times.

if you were confined to one sexual position forever, what would it be?

 

[AnnyMouse28]

Sleep with my ex. So many times.

if you were confined to one sexual position forever, what would it be?

Missionary.

What is the one deal break with a new or potential partner?

 

[Hipshot1554]

Missionary.

What is the one deal break with a new or potential partner?

No sense of humor.

What do you lie about?

 

[YourSecretSanta]

My body count.

what body count would be too many for you in a serious partner? (Do not answer unless you have a real number! No vague answers!)

 

[barefootgirl69]

My body count.

what body count would be too many for you in a serious partner? (Do not answer unless you have a real number! No vague answers!)

Do people still do "body count"? What's the purpose if people LIE about it?

 

[AnnyMouse28]

Do people still do "body count"? What's the purpose if people LIE about it?

I know my number and see no reason to lie about it. I just had some be shocked at how low one number was. Guess I am just that good. LMAO.

Do you ask partners for a “body count?”

 

[BongoGal]

Do you ask partners for a “body count?”

I've never asked, but sometimes I find out. I have been #1 for a few.

Are you the first person that someone out there has had sex with?

 

[BongoGal]

Did you grow up in a home where sexuality was discussed openly and honestly?

I'll say no, but it wasn't a repressed and stultifying home for sex stuff, either. I, um, was an autodidact.

Did masturbation ever get discussed in a positive way among your friends at school?

 

[Shenanigans90]

I'll say no, but it wasn't a repressed and stultifying home for sex stuff, either. I, um, was an autodidact.

Did masturbation ever get discussed in a positive way among your friends at school?

No, it was always mentioned in a joking or derogatory manner

Have you ever fulfilled an item on someone’s sexual bucket list?

 

[BongoGal]

Have you ever fulfilled an item on someone’s sexual bucket list?

I don't specifically recall anyone saying that he had a bucket list item I could help him with. Then again, I have no doubt that back in the day, someone's bucket list items were fulfilled just by my being a willing sex partner.

What is the largest number of sex partners you have had in a seven-day period?

 

[HollyS]

What is the largest number of sex partners you have had in a seven-day period?

I was going to say one, but then I remembered an early encounter, so... Four.

What is the longest period you've gone without sex, since you started having sex?

 

[BongoGal]

What is the longest period you've gone without sex, since you started having sex?

Covid put me on a sudden two-plus years diet of solo sex.

What is the longest you've gone between orgasms so far in 2023?