Aussie's Self Pleasure Study Club

[Diosax]

Only if the pain killers aren't working

Yes but for like 2 minutes

Yea the effects don't last long. What am I supposed to do? Masturbate all day long to keep cramps at bay lo

No. I think I would if I could completely let go.
But that's a process all in itself

I find men's fascination with it funny

 

[aussiegeekygal]

I find men's fascination with it funny

Me, too

The best lovers I've had focused on my pleasure more than the outcome.

 

[SunnySideOvum]

No. I think I would if I could completely let go.
But that's a process all in itself

Would you say the process is a..."build up"?
I'll see myself out.

 

[aussiegeekygal]

Would you say the process is a..."build up"?
I'll see myself out.

No. It's a let go. A surrendering. I don't need to build up. That's kind of the problem for me.

 

[SunnySideOvum]

No. It's a let go. A surrendering. I don't need to build up. That's kind of the problem for me.

Oh I see. Interesting. Would it be easier to let go if you had a partner you were close with?

 

[Diosax]

Me, too

The best lovers I've had focused on my pleasure more than the outcome.

Agree. Idk if I saw it here or tiktok where a guy was bragging that he can make any woman squirt. It doesn't work like that! Lol

 

[aussiegeekygal]

Oh I see. Interesting. Would it be easier to let go if you had a partner you were close with?

No. It's got nothing to do with my partner and everything to do with how I was socialized.

And my pelvic floor

 

[aussiegeekygal]

Agree. Idk if I saw it here or tiktok where a guy was bragging that he can make any woman squirt. It doesn't work like that! Lol

Ooh
I'll break his ego.

 

[Strixaluco]

I have a legit question about squirting and menstruation..

I'm picturing lava eruptions

Anatomical fact: Squirt doesn't come from vagina.

 

[aussiegeekygal]

Anatomical fact: Squirt doesn't come from vagina.

I know.
Blood doesn't discriminate where it goes as it leaves my body, though.

 

[Strixaluco]

I know.
Blood doesn't discriminate where it goes as it leaves my body, though.

I use a menstrual cup, prevents "lava eruptions" very effectively.

 

[Diosax]

Ooh
I'll break his ego.

Same!!
#squirtstrike

 

[peekingone]

Agree. Idk if I saw it here or tiktok where a guy was bragging that he can make any woman squirt. It doesn't work like that! Lol

the guy is an ass LOL.

 

[aussiegeekygal]

I use a menstrual cup, prevents "lava eruptions" very effectively.

I wish. Mine falls out
This God damned pelvic floor

 

[aussiegeekygal]

the guy is an ass LOL.

I love it when people openly advertise how clueless they are. Saves me time

 

[Diosax]

the guy is an ass LOL.

Yes!!

I love it when people openly advertise how clueless they are. Saves me time

Yes lol tell me you dont know what you're doing without telling me you don't know what you're doing lol

 

[aussiegeekygal]

Do y'all talk to your significant others about your masturbation habits?

 

[Mtnmike]

Do y'all talk to your significant others about your masturbation habits?

Are you kidding, we haven't mentioned anything sex related in this home in over 14 years. True story.

 

[Diosax]

Do y'all talk to your significant others about your masturbation habits?

I haven't in the past. But would in the future.

 

[aussiegeekygal]

I haven't in the past. But would in the future.

I'm in that transition in my marriage and it's so much better to just talk about it.

 

[aussiegeekygal]

Are you kidding, we haven't mentioned anything sex related in this home in over 14 years. True story.

Why not?

 

[Mtnmike]

Why not?

Sexless that long, her choice & it's just quieter around here if I keep

 

[Mtnmike]

Sexless that long, her choice & it's just quieter around here if I keep my mouth shut it's more peaceful.

 

[Lonelywife1205]

Do y'all talk to your significant others about your masturbation habits?

He knows I do, but I would never discuss it with him.

 

[Diosax]

I'm in that transition in my marriage and it's so much better to just talk about it.

I love it. I can't imagine at this point being in a relationship and not talking about it.