Aussie's Self Pleasure Study Club

Visual porn just leaves me embarrassed. And I spend most of my time wondering why I find the people so unattractive. (I realize I am alone in that thinking. 😂)
Again... Are we the same person?

This is exactly how i feel about most visual porn. Definitely check out r/chickflixxx 🕵️‍♀️
 
There will be reciprocation. :cool:

In about a week. Once my voice comes back from this cold. I warn you, it's girly, vaguely southern, and dotted with these odd, breathy pauses that I can't seem to train myself out of.

Believe me, I've tried. 😂


(And yes, I have noise canceling headphones. For work, rather than nefarious erotic forays. :p)
I expect to be copied on this PM! 😉
 
Reddit thread. I Google "r/gonewildaudio" and it comes right up

Also google "r/chickflixxx" for great porn curated towards our sensibilities, Enny 🤌

I hear you on the ADHD hyperfocus. I'm getting stuck in it a lot of late.
Alrighty. I have googled and bookmarked.

I haven't perused either yet. Of course.

Because…well, G&B was all I could manage before freezing up. :oops:


But they're there. Bookmarked.

#babysteps

:p
 
I just think lit is the perfect place to chronicle my adventures of being a geriatric millennial that finally decided to rub one out on her own.

Yes.
Yes it is!
THIS IS EXACTLY WHAT LIT IS FOR.
I got here just in time.

*nominates AGG for Litster Sainthood and heads back to page 1 to catch up
 
Yes.
Yes it is!
THIS IS EXACTLY WHAT LIT IS FOR.
I got here just in time.

*nominates AGG for Litster Sainthood and heads back to page 1 to catch up
I'll take a giant clit trophy for my mantle. Or the bust from Fleabag. I'd like that one, too.

Your thread bump is both a welcome surprise (words cannot capture my joy to see you back ☺️) and a jolting reminder that I haven't masturbated in weeks 😬 so much for my habit forming... I've got to get back on this train immediately.

Now this  is sisterhood 😎
 
I'm baaaaaaaaaaaaack!!

Props to @Trekka for reminding me to rub one out. I popped on this delicious vid and found I could get into the visuals of the porn whilst also enjoying the sensations within my body. That's a rarity in my world and it was pretty cool to imagine that video was of me 😎

Are y'all able to fantasize during masturbation?
Why is it such a struggle for me?!?
 
I'm baaaaaaaaaaaaack!!

Props to @Trekka for reminding me to rub one out. I popped on this delicious vid and found I could get into the visuals of the porn whilst also enjoying the sensations within my body. That's a rarity in my world and it was pretty cool to imagine that video was of me 😎

Are y'all able to fantasize during masturbation?
Why is it such a struggle for me?!?
Visuals help sometimes? Dick pic on the way!
 
I'm baaaaaaaaaaaaack!!

Props to @Trekka for reminding me to rub one out. I popped on this delicious vid and found I could get into the visuals of the porn whilst also enjoying the sensations within my body. That's a rarity in my world and it was pretty cool to imagine that video was of me 😎

Are y'all able to fantasize during masturbation?
Why is it such a struggle for me?!?
Welcome back
 
Are y'all able to fantasize during masturbation?
Why is it such a struggle for me?!?
I don't have any problem fantasizing, but it's all in my head. I never watch videos. (Again, why do porn people seem so unattractive?)

That would be back in the day, before I went all chaste. :p
 
I can fantasize with or without porn.
But when watching porn, I totally put myself in the place of the actor.
As Enny said, many porn actors aren’t great in the looks dept. and that is a factor for me. If the guy is hideous, I can’t pretend to be him no matter how hot the girl is.
I imagine myself sexy! 😎
 
I'm baaaaaaaaaaaaack!!

Props to @Trekka for reminding me to rub one out. I popped on this delicious vid and found I could get into the visuals of the porn whilst also enjoying the sensations within my body. That's a rarity in my world and it was pretty cool to imagine that video was of me 😎

Are y'all able to fantasize during masturbation?
Why is it such a struggle for me?!?
Thinking of @Trekka makes us all remember to rub one out. :nana:

Do you think you struggle fantasizing because you are imagining yourself in that video, but the two guys are still the guys in the video? Maybe try replacing them with two guys you know.
I recast all porn with myself and people I know (and from Lit 😉).
 
Thinking of @Trekka makes us all remember to rub one out. :nana:

Do you think you struggle fantasizing because you are imagining yourself in that video, but the two guys are still the guys in the video? Maybe try replacing them with two guys you know.
I recast all porn with myself and people I know (and from Lit 😉).
Oh, I definitely tried you and default on for size 😎

I tell you, the day I see you two make out will be the day I die and go to lit heaven.
 
I can fantasize with or without porn.
But when watching porn, I totally put myself in the place of the actor.
As Enny said, many porn actors aren’t great in the looks dept. and that is a factor for me. If the guy is hideous, I can’t pretend to be him no matter how hot the girl is.
I imagine myself sexy! 😎
I think this is where my lack of ability to visualize at all gets in the way. I have to imagine what sex feels like. Those tingling sensations of new hands on my body. Or knowing hands that touch me in a way that only someone who has spent years exploring my body would know to touch me. I think that is why I find amateur and queer porn to be so relatable. It's not just about the visual production angle, there's legitimate connection and sexiness. That's the reason I have sex so it's what I look for in porn.

I do connect to some videos and can put myself in the "picture", but most of the time I'm enjoying the other people having sex and my just being along for the ride. It's cool to watch how other people do it. And remember when someone did that to me once.
 
I'm baaaaaaaaaaaaack!!

Props to @Trekka for reminding me to rub one out. I popped on this delicious vid and found I could get into the visuals of the porn whilst also enjoying the sensations within my body. That's a rarity in my world and it was pretty cool to imagine that video was of me 😎

Are y'all able to fantasize during masturbation?
Why is it such a struggle for me?!?
I try not to use audio/visual stimulation. I think it limits my imagination and capacity to immerse myself in the fantasy. There have also been instances where I've been with a partner, and clips of videos and whatever would pop in my head. It's gotten to the point where I can no longer enjoy my time with my partner, without thinking about the videos.

I think I've said it before but I like to actually take my senses out of play. Use a blindfold and sound reducing headphones. Using sensory deprivation oh, I found that everything became more Vivid are more intense. I found that there was nothing breaking my immersion when I fantasized. Using that method in no way affected my performance or enjoyment when I was with a partner.
 
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