Aussie's Self Pleasure Study Club

[aussiegeekygal]

I think I've said it before but I like to actually take my senses out of play. Use a blindfold and sound reducing headphones. Using sensory deprivation oh, I found that everything became more Vivid are more intense. I found that there was nothing breaking my immersion when I fantasized. Using that method in no way affected my performance or enjoyment when I was with a partner.

I've been playing around with audio and sensory deprivation and you're right!! It's immersive in a way that I didn't realize was possible. Like, you're making me want to go jump into bed with noise cancelling headphones and find something delicious to listen to...

 

[hotwords229_A]

Oh, I definitely tried you and default on for size

I tell you, the day I see you two make out will be the day I die and go to lit heaven.

How did we fit?

Or maybe it will be the day we get you over your fear of cum?

 

[aussiegeekygal]

Welcome back

Thanks

It's good to see you again

 

[aussiegeekygal]

How did we fit?

Or maybe it will be the day we get you over your fear of cum?

I need a Xanax after watching that

 

[aussiegeekygal]

Oh, and you two fit nicely indeed

 

[Trekka]

Thinking of @Trekka makes us all remember to rub one out.

you are too kind.
really tho.
it's nice to feel well enough to be posting again.

*waves at the gang*

my smile was a mile wide last night!

 

[Trekka]

and on the topic -- and I'm sorry if I am repeating what's already been discussed but I haven't had time to read through the whole thread yet--

i think they're doing a better job of making porn that's more targeted toward the female demographic - which is nice - and also there's more women making, directing, producing porn than ever before - which i also think is nice! there's more attention to detail -- like literally matching the carpet to the drapes. it looks prettier.

and there's some other touches... I think it's a bit more sensual.

ooooh. of note! i've recently noticed way more kissing in porn -- and I find that that turns me on. Which makes me giggle. It's so simple!

But it helps get the slow burn going -- fans the embers a bit. Which I need these days!

It can be tough to get the engine revved if you're starting cold after a long day of child wrangling, household management, working, all the things... sometimes I like my porn to start with a couple glasses of wine and some kissing too! LOL

 

[HoneyMeadows]

I'm at a stage where I want meaningful connections and most porn just isn't that for me anymore. It's too forced and a lot of the time there's no chemistry between the stars of the piece.

I do have some scenarios that I imagine and I do have my favourite partners to think about in those situations. I love the threads on Lit that have a collection of pictures/GIFs where it's easy to imagine myself in that situation.

I find myself needing to be fully alone and undisturbed to enjoy it. If I'm not alone then I best be having sex (or e-boning)! (Doesn't work in reality but that's my thought process).

I have said to my husband "if you're not here to participate, then get out!"

 

[LustfulIntentions2]

and on the topic -- and I'm sorry if I am repeating what's already been discussed but I haven't had time to read through the whole thread yet--

i think they're doing a better job of making porn that's more targeted toward the female demographic - which is nice - and also there's more women making, directing, producing porn than ever before - which i also think is nice! there's more attention to detail -- like literally matching the carpet to the drapes. it looks prettier.

and there's some other touches... I think it's a bit more sensual.

ooooh. of note! i've recently noticed way more kissing in porn -- and I find that that turns me on. Which makes me giggle. It's so simple!

But it helps get the slow burn going -- fans the embers a bit. Which I need these days!

It can be tough to get the engine revved if you're starting cold after a long day of child wrangling, household management, working, all the things... sometimes I like my porn to start with a couple glasses of wine and some kissing too! LOL

What’s interesting is that I’ve noticed the same, and I find myself drawn way more to the stuff that seems to include some sort of sensual build up. It’s probably just holding up a mirror to what I wish I had more of in my life

 

[Joxlrg]

The really good porn has a story line and a build up to the event with both partners actually desiring the other.. Sex is the release of co-inspired passion.. It begins in the minds of both partners. Thoughts become needs.. And needs get passionately expressed !!
And I think that's what we all need in our lives

 

[Mrtenant]

Reading literotica Is better than visual porn for me. Memories and fantasies of prior partners can get me going too. Visual has it's place. The mind is the biggest erogenous zone is what I read long ago. Experience has taught me that is true. I also find that demanding and prolonged physical exercise and/or work also fuel my libido much more so than being sedentary. That's the old mind-body connection thing. Being young and horny is easy. Sex all day, either with a partner or solo was a real thing. Those were good days. My 2 cents, for what it's worth.

 

[TempSpawn]

I enjoy stories, pictures and video but nothing beats interaction. Chat, swapping pics and fantasies, voice or video... For me, that's the best 'porn'.

 

[aussiegeekygal]

you are too kind.
really tho.
it's nice to feel well enough to be posting again.

*waves at the gang*

my smile was a mile wide last night!

This place is better for your being here

 

[aussiegeekygal]

I think we need another sex Ed lesson on the principles of pleasure, whaddya all think?

 

[Joxlrg]

Show us how it's done AGG

 

[HoneyMeadows]

I think we need another sex Ed lesson on the principles of pleasure, whaddya all think?

*Gets notebook and pen*

 

[Cabooseluvr]

Psst: @Nevyn_Black

Love your voice!

 

[hotwords229_A]

. . . I think they're doing a better job of making porn that's more targeted toward the female demographic - which is nice - and also there's more women making, directing, producing porn than ever before - which i also think is nice! there's more attention to detail -- like literally matching the carpet to the drapes. it looks prettier.

and there's some other touches... I think it's a bit more sensual.

ooooh. of note! i've recently noticed way more kissing in porn -- and I find that that turns me on. Which makes me giggle. It's so simple! . . .

One of the things I’ve stumbled across lately is the interviews before and after the actual porn. I sometimes skip through the sex scenes and just watch the before and after of the actors being themselves and talking about their expectations and then experience afterwards. I wish there was more of that!

 

[Trekka]

First I wanna know more about the Sex Ed lessons #LifelongLearner

One of the things I’ve stumbled across lately is the interviews before and after the actual porn. I sometimes skip through the sex scenes and just watch the before and after of the actors being themselves and talking about their expectations and then experience afterwards. I wish there was more of that!

Funny, this is the one part of the video that creeeeeeeps me out!

I can't watch it; it's too real!

After, I find myself assessing their faces for micro-expressions of pain and guilt and shame. Wondering what their upbringing was like. Do they have access to proper mental health support? The snowball in my mind just goes on from there... !

I need highly produced, slick af porn. Well, that's the ideal anyways. With kissing. Right @LustfulIntentions2 ?? (hi!)

And then sometimes I want a Big Mac. Y'all don't wanna know what that looks like. *runs and hides in my own cesspool of shame*

 

[aussiegeekygal]

One of the things I’ve stumbled across lately is the interviews before and after the actual porn. I sometimes skip through the sex scenes and just watch the before and after of the actors being themselves and talking about their expectations and then experience afterwards. I wish there was more of that!

I freaking love that stuff. Watching friends talk about and end up fucking.

Is that your MO in real life, HW?
#askingforafriend

 

[hotwords229_A]

I freaking love that stuff. Watching friends talk about and end up fucking.

Is that your MO in real life, HW?
#askingforafriend

I mean . . .
The talking, teasing, build-up shouldn’t be overlooked.
Years ago I crowned myself the King of Beforeplay.

 

[hotwords229_A]

First I wanna know more about the Sex Ed lessons #LifelongLearner



Funny, this is the one part of the video that creeeeeeeps me out!

I can't watch it; it's too real!

After, I find myself assessing their faces for micro-expressions of pain and guilt and shame. Wondering what their upbringing was like. Do they have access to proper mental health support? The snowball in my mind just goes on from there... !

I need highly produced, slick af porn. Well, that's the ideal anyways. With kissing. Right @LustfulIntentions2 ?? (hi!)

And then sometimes I want a Big Mac. Y'all don't wanna know what that looks like. *runs and hides in my own cesspool of shame*

Yes, it can ruin it if they seem “troubled” or in some way unhappy, but if they’re really into it—especially if it’s a new experience for someone, I think that’s hot. Especially if it’s a guy trying something new and the
girl/girls are going to have fun with him.

 

[aussiegeekygal]

I mean . . .
The talking, teasing, build-up shouldn’t be overlooked.
Years ago I crowned myself the King of Beforeplay.

I live for beforeplay!
Holy crap, the best sex is with those who can do it right.

The king you say?

 

[Trekka]

I live for beforeplay!
Holy crap, the best sex is with those who can do it right.

Also afterplay.
That's totally a thing!
The sex therapist talked about it!
And it's waaaay more than just sandwiches.

 

[aussiegeekygal]

Afterplay and aftercare.

Both super important