Aussie's Self Pleasure Study Club

Hells to the yeah! My headphones are noise cancelling and I'm definitely going to try a blindfold. Good tip!
Thanks. A year or so ago, I had to tone down on the auditory/visual stimulation while DIY. I started having a tough time staying aroused with my partner. Sensory depravation during masturbation, on the other hand, inhanced the excitement during actual sex.
 
So I've been at this consistent masturbation thing for a few weeks now. If it hasn't been three months yet it's certainly close.

I've noticed I'm starting to have  really good sex again. As I learn more about responsive desire and spontaneous desire I am noticing how my body feels in different situations and it's kinda cool to start figuring myself out. I don't necessarily become aroused spontaneously. I lean in to sexual stimulus and use that to build my desire. Masturbation has helped prime me sexually in a way that allows me to almost move past using each other to masturbate and into the "let's  really enjoy each other because we have this moment" sex.

Somehow my husband figured out how to give me a massage that doesn't feel like it needs to lead to sex and because I know I'll get myself off later if needed, I just lean into the pleasure of it all and end up fucking him like a teenaged whore.
And that is a very reasonable reaction to a great non sexual massage 🙂
 
I havent had sex in person with another person, in so long that it has started feeling like it was never real. I may never have sex with anyone else again. Reading your thread has made me wonder if I should spend more money and effort on learning how to have better sex with myself.
 
So I've been at this consistent masturbation thing for a few weeks now. If it hasn't been three months yet it's certainly close.

I've noticed I'm starting to have  really good sex again. As I learn more about responsive desire and spontaneous desire I am noticing how my body feels in different situations and it's kinda cool to start figuring myself out. I don't necessarily become aroused spontaneously. I lean in to sexual stimulus and use that to build my desire. Masturbation has helped prime me sexually in a way that allows me to almost move past using each other to masturbate and into the "let's  really enjoy each other because we have this moment" sex.

Somehow my husband figured out how to give me a massage that doesn't feel like it needs to lead to sex and because I know I'll get myself off later if needed, I just lean into the pleasure of it all and end up fucking him like a teenaged whore.
This vaguely reminds me of that discussion Trekka started on the Litiquette thread. Something along the lines of how increasing the regularity of your orgasms could turn a neglected, overgrown jungle of an orgasm path to a super highway.
 
Hells to the yeah! My headphones are noise cancelling and I'm definitely going to try a blindfold. Good tip!
Thanks. A year or so ago, I had to tone down on the auditory/visual stimulation while DIY. I started having a tough time staying aroused with my partner. Sensory depravation during masturbation, on the other hand, inhanced the excitement during actual sex.
Huh. Super interesting.

It never would have occurred to me on my own*, but I can totally see how the isolation of sensory depravation might heighten the orgasm experience. No distractions, and, presumably, a focusing of the tactile aspects of…errr, self intimacy.


*Because, being the prude I am, I avoid thinking about sex. :p
 
Audio porn.
Have you used it? How the hell did I not know about it? I listened to this last night and I feel like I'm giving away all my secrets sharing it, because it hit every fucking single button I have.

I popped in my headphones, closed my eyes and just experienced being in that library. I knew who that voice belonged to and it was pretty fucking hot to be fucking myself in a way that explored a very real fantasy for me. It was delicious 🤌

I'm curious and also wary to venture off the beaten path with audio porn. I'm not sure why. I have to remind myself I can just listen without the intent to masturbate. And I can touch myself if I feel like it. Whatever makes sense in the moment.

If you do listen to audio, what kinds do you find the best? What's are your audio proclivities?
I discovered audio porn years ago through one person who records them for Lit (BritishFilth). And then I rediscovered him and audio porn in general when I came back to the forums last year. He’s still my favorite because most of his are real - meaning he’s actually getting off while recording & I like hearing that. And he has a great voice & accent. Those don’t hurt.

But I also branched out a bit with the Gone Wild Audio subreddit. There are some good ones there, though I haven’t listened as much since two of my favorites disappeared.
 
Huh. Super interesting.

It never would have occurred to me on my own*, but I can totally see how the isolation of sensory depravation might heighten the orgasm experience. No distractions, and, presumably, a focusing of the tactile aspects of…errr, self intimacy.


*Because, being the prude I am, I avoid thinking about sex. :p
Try it!
Report back. I'll even find you an audio of you'd like. Reddit's r/gonewildaudio is legit!
 
I discovered audio porn years ago through one person who records them for Lit (BritishFilth). And then I rediscovered him and audio porn in general when I came back to the forums last year. He’s still my favorite because most of his are real - meaning he’s actually getting off while recording & I like hearing that. And he has a great voice & accent. Those don’t hurt.

But I also branched out a bit with the Gone Wild Audio subreddit. There are some good ones there, though I haven’t listened as much since two of my favorites disappeared.
I discovered gone wild audio this week

Bliss
 
Reddit thread. I Google "r/gonewildaudio" and it comes right up

Also google "r/chickflixxx" for great porn curated towards our sensibilities, Enny 🤌

I hear you on the ADHD hyperfocus. I'm getting stuck in it a lot of late.
 
Reddit thread. I Google "r/gonewildaudio" and it comes right up

Also google "r/chickflixxx" for great porn curated towards our sensibilities, Enny 🤌

I hear you on the ADHD hyperfocus. I'm getting stuck in it a lot of late.
Ohhhhhhhhh.

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Our sensibilities? *ears perk*

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Oh, man. I am crashing like the titanic. Upping my run time and curating my diet, but I'm a mess. 🤣
 
Bookmark it for when you are in the mood for porn.
Trust me.
So, sooooooo, good
Huh. I have never had any experience with audio, aside from a Lit partner who *ahem* recorded himself reading to me. That was…surprisingly hot, particularly considering the subject matter wasn't even erotic. 🤷‍♀️

Visual porn just leaves me embarrassed. And I spend most of my time wondering why I find the people so unattractive. (I realize I am alone in that thinking. 😂)

Maybe audio would be different?

*ponders*
 
I wil
I discovered audio porn years ago through one person who records them for Lit (BritishFilth). And then I rediscovered him and audio porn in general when I came back to the forums last year. He’s still my favorite because most of his are real - meaning he’s actually getting off while recording & I like hearing that. And he has a great voice & accent. Those don’t hurt.

But I also branched out a bit with the Gone Wild Audio subreddit. There are some good ones there, though I haven’t listened as much since two of my favorites disappeared.
l confess to being a bit of a fan of GWA myself, and an um....occasional contributor...
 
Huh. I have never had any experience with audio, aside from a Lit partner who *ahem* recorded himself reading to me. That was…surprisingly hot, particularly considering the subject matter wasn't even erotic. 🤷‍♀️

Visual porn just leaves me embarrassed. And I spend most of my time wondering why I find the people so unattractive. (I realize I am alone in that thinking. 😂)

Maybe audio would be different?

*ponders*
I love hearing voices 🥰

Dear Enny 🧡
 
Oh! That was divine. :heart:

This is going to sound strange, but your voice fits you EXACTLY.

Even to the surprisingly minimal accent. There will be reciprocation. :cool:

In about a week. Once my voice comes back from this cold. I warn you, it's girly, vaguely southern, and dotted with these odd, breathy pauses that I can't seem to train myself out of.

Believe me, I've tried. 😂


(And yes, I have noise canceling headphones. For work, rather than nefarious erotic forays. :p)
 
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