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[Jayashiangel]

I am having issues with the delete fairy again well atleast no more little red x's but I really hate it when my pretty little pictures go away........

Hi ya cal dear....please be naughty today I hope to chat with you later....


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[Jayashiangel]

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[Jayashiangel]

 

[Jayashiangel]

GUESS WHAT I AM A NOW A LITEROTICA GURU.......WOW...............
HOWEVER I STILL CAN'T GET MY NAUGHTY PICTURES TO STOP DELETING.......

 

[cal69]

teaching who's boss

 

[Jayashiangel]

DO TO RECENT CENSORSHIP ISSUES I WILL BE ONLY USING ATTACHMENTS.

DAMN THEM CENSORSHIP PEOPLE….

I AM SORRY TO SEE THIS GO THAT WAY
MAYBE I WILL JUST KEEP POSTING THEM IN MY YAHOO PHOTO ALBUM LIKE BEFORE…..

HOWEVER AT SOME POINT….WATCHING FOR THEM NOW.

YAHOO WILL FIND OUT I HAVE DIRTY LITTLE PICTURE AND TAKE THEM AWAY..
BUT YET IN A YAHOO GROUP YOU CAN CREATE YOUR OWN GROUP AND CAN POST DIRTY LITTLE PICTURES….

THINKING ABOUT CREATING ONE……..

 

[cal69]

where's my soap and sponge?

 

[Jayashiangel]

I am back and ready to share more things with you.....Hope some more people start sharing and posting... Cal where the hell are you??????

 

[Jayashiangel]

Question

Is it possible to have too many orgasms or ejaculations? Can a man ever run out of sperm?


Answer
This is a very common myth, but no, there is not a limited amount of sperm in a man's body. He can have all the orgasms he wants without ever running out. While it is true that if a man ejaculates several times in a row, he will have less sperm in each subsequent ejaculation, it will return to normal levels within a day.

The testicles contain a series of small tubes known as the seminiferous tubules. It is within these structures that spermatogenesis (sperm production) takes place. After puberty, a healthy man will produce hundreds of millions of sperm every day.

Infertility occurs when there is some type of malfunction in spermatogenesis or in the sperm reaching the penis. But it never occurs because a man has "run out" of sperm. Indeed, unlike women, men never go through a stage like menopause -- they will continue to produce sperm until they die.

So there is no need to worry. In fact, recent studies have found that frequent ejaculation helps keep the prostate healthy, which is an important part of fertility!

 

[Jayashiangel]

Question

I have been with my boyfriend for four months now. I trust him completely and he trusts me. But there is one thing that he has told me that has bugged me ever since. He told me that he can't wear a condom because it makes him go soft. I know it must seem like a line, but I believe him. I've just never heard of this before. He told me about this the first time we were about to have sex. Then he told me that if I didn't believe him then we didn't have to go through with it. We use other protection when we have sex, but I'm just curious.


Answer

Although some men do use this as a "line," I do think that your boyfriend is quite possibly telling you the truth. Many men do find it difficult to maintain an erection when using condoms. Sometimes this is because of anxiety, other times it is due to loss of sensation. However, most men can also overcome this problem. I do have a couple suggestions that you can try though:

1) Help him put the condom on. Many men find themselves getting anxious about putting the condom on correctly and lose their erection at that point. So, tell him that you will take care of it. Stimulate him any way that he likes and then, in the process, slip the condom (which you have opened and ready) on. If you want to get really advanced, you can even try putting it on using your mouth -- just be careful with your teeth!

2) Put a dab of lubricant in the inside tip of the condom before putting it on him. This can enhance sensation tremendously for the man. Just be careful to avoid getting any on the upper rim or the condom might slip off during sex.

3) Surprise him with a box of novelty condoms. There are many types of condoms that are downright amusing. Glow-in-the-dark, flavored, shaped... treat them as a sex toy! Although some of these are not designed for safer sex, it can help overcome his anxiety.

4) Purchase an erection ring. These bands go around the base of the penis to increase hardness and help maintain an erection. An extra benefit is that they can help keep a condom on if the man becomes partially flaccid.

Most of all, continue doing what you have been doing -- being supportive and talking to him. Assure him that you understand but that you also want to help him overcome this problem. Good luck to both of you.

 

[Jayashiangel]

Question

At what age can a male impregnate a female? Can he ever be too young or too old?


Answer

Obviously, a male is not capable of impregnating a female until he is able to ejaculate. But even for the first year or two after puberty, when boys first begin to be able to have adult-like orgasms and ejaculations, their sperm count is quite low. It is only a couple years after puberty that most boys become fertile.

On the other hand, barring health problems, most men remain fertile for their entire lives. There are several well-documented cases of men well into their 80s and even 90s having children, Picasso being a famous example. This is because men never go through menopause, as women do. Of course, whether a man would want to have a child in his 90s is another matter! Hope that answers your question.

 

[Jayashiangel]

Question

If what you say is true, and there is no way to enlarge a penis except via surgery, how do you account for the size of some porn stars' penises? Some of these guys have 18-inch long ones! Did they have one attached from someone who died or from an animal?


Answer

I am afraid I have never heard of a penis transplant, especially one from an animal to a human (except in the movie Sex & Zen), so that is not the explanation.

Warning: I am about to ruin many people's fantasies in the next paragraph. Stop reading now if watching porn films with well-endowed men is your thing!

There is no such thing as an 18-inch long penis. Yes, I have seen some of the same movies and they look quite authentic, but they are not. Have you ever seen a science fiction movie where someone grows horns, or it looks like they are being stretched, or better yet, an alien is walking around? Well, it is done the same way, only slightly more low-tech.

There are quite a few special-effect prop makers who are only too happy to moonlight on the set of a porn film. Those giant penises you see are prosthetic. Yep, they are fake. Even the semen that comes out is synthetic. Did you ever notice how the stars with REALLY large penises often wear a sort of harness? That is because the artificial penis is so heavy, it can't simply be glued on. Other times, it is glued on with synthetic skin matched to the actor's skin tone, blended in to make it look seamless.

Anything over 11 inches is almost guaranteed to be a fake. Hope I didn't destroy your fantasy.

 

[Jayashiangel]

Question

I've always wondered: Is it possible to "break" your penis?


Answer

Although it occurs very rarely, it actually is possible to break your penis. However, this does not happen in the way you might think.

Normally, when we speak of someone "breaking" a part of their body such as an arm or leg, what we are talking about is a bone breaking. There is no bone in the human penis. When it is in a flaccid state, you can no more break the penis than you could break an ear. With enough tugging, you might cut, rip, or tear it, but it wouldn't really "break."

However, when it is erect, the penis becomes quite hard. Three tubes (known as the corposa cavernosa) fill with blood and become almost as hard as bone. Should a man do something that would exert a great deal of sudden lateral pressure on the penis, one or more of these tubes can break (actually, "rupture" is probably the more appropriate term). The cases in the medical literature which report this are almost invariably caused by a woman trying to jump on top of a man and missing her target. Ouch.

If you are worried that you might have done this, all I can say is: You would know! The event is accompanied by a loud "popping" sound, severe sudden pain and horrible bruising. You would need to seek medical attention immediately. Unfortunately, this damage is difficult to repair, and men to whom it happens often experience some internal leakage whenever they become aroused, preventing full erections. Luckily, it is a very rare occurrence.

 

[Jayashiangel]

Question

Is there any scarring involved in a vasectomy? A man I have been dating tells me that he had one five years ago when he was married, but I obviously have no way of knowing for sure. He is a loving and trustworthy man in every other area, but pregnancy seems like a really big risk to take.


Answer

There is really no way of knowing whether a man had a vasectomy, other than his telling you that he did. Although there might be small scars at the top of the scrotum, they are usually quite hidden by the normal wrinkles of the testicular sac.

I agree that pregnancy is a huge risk to take if you have any concerns. If you have any doubts about his honesty in this regard, then perhaps it might be a good idea for you to be using condoms anyway (even if he can prove he had a vasectomy) for safer sex purposes.

If you really want to find out whether you can stop using birth control without directly confronting him about it (or asking him to produce a medical report), what I would suggest is the following: It is an established fact that in rare cases a vasectomy can reverse itself after a number of years. Perhaps you could suggest to him that he have a sperm count done just to be sure. Of course, if you really don't trust him in this respect, I guess you will have to find a way to get a copy of the report to make sure.

My other piece of advice is to reflect a little on what is going on in this relationship. Although you don't have to love someone to have sex with them (or even necessarily know them that well), you should have some basic trust that they would not knowingly jeopardize your health or safety. Good luck to you.

 

[Jayashiangel]

Question

My boyfriend and I have a very large age gap. I am 19 and he is 41. We haven't had sex yet but I've heard that men may have sexual problems over the age of 35. What kinds of things should I expect?


Answer

While many men begin a slow but gradual decline in their 30s, there is no reason, assuming good health, that a man should not be able to perform sexually well into his 70s and beyond. Although a new study revealed that about half of all men over 40 have occasional problems with erections, this is often caused by other factors (whether emotional or physical).

On the other hand, as men age, there are changes that do take place. You will probably notice a difference between your new boyfriend and any previous partners you have had who were closer to your age. First, as men get older, they tend to take longer to get an erection and require more stimulation. Whereas men in their teens and early 20s often can't control how many erections they get, men in their 40s often need direct stimulation to become erect. Another difference is that as men age, they require a longer recovery period between orgasms. While a man in his early 20s can often become erect after just a few minutes, men in their 40s often require several hours between ejaculations.

However, there are also many positives. For one, men your boyfriend's age are less likely to have problems with premature ejaculation and will have more control. Plus, there is some truth that experience counts for a lot when it comes to sex. Men in their 40s are often far more attentive to their partner's needs and how to fulfill them.

So, yes -- there might be some differences, but sex is likely to be as good or even better with older men than with younger ones.

 

[Jayashiangel]

Question

I wanted to know if there is a natural way to enlarge your penis. I heard someone talking about how Zinc makes your penis bigger. Is that true or are there any other natural substances that have that effect?


Answer

Nothing you ingest -- nothing -- will make your penis any larger. The only way to increase your penis size is through surgery, and this is not something I would ever recommend. The reality is that if men spent less time worrying about the size of their penises and more time thinking about how to really enjoy sex and please their partners, both they and their partners would be a lot happier!

 

[Jayashiangel]

Question

Sometimes when ejaculating, I notice blood in my semen. If I then urinate, a small globule of dried blood is emitted with the urine. This doesn't happen all the time, but has happened several times over the years. Is there something I can do or is this a condition that requires medical assistance?


Answer

Yes, this is a condition that requires medical assistance!

I don't want to alarm you, but you should never see blood in your ejaculate or urine. This is indicative that something is wrong.

It could be as simple as a burst capillary, but it is very important that you see a doctor as soon as possible to rule out any more serious conditions. The fact that this has been going on for years does not mean that it is not something you should worry about. You should also be concerned about your partner, since blood can be a symptom of certain sexually transmitted infections.

Don't panic, but please go see a urologist right away. Good luck to you.

 

[Jayashiangel]

Question

I want to know if it is true that a man loses energy and gets older each time he ejaculates. My grandfather told me this was the way he stayed young -- by conserving his semen.


Answer

I am afraid that your quest for the fountain of youth will be about as fruitless as your namesake's. There is no proven medical benefit to "conserving" one's semen.

What your grandfather is referring to probably has its origins in various forms of Eastern mysticism such as Tantra and Taoist sex. These practices emphasize the fact that most men feel tired after they ejaculate. Therefore, it was thought at first that avoiding ejaculation and learning to orgasm "internally" would prevent a man from aging. However, you will note that none of these writers are still alive: They died of old age just like everyone else.

Although Tantra and similar disciplines can enhance your relationships and sexuality (and might have some health benefits), simply avoiding ejaculation probably won't do any good. In fact, infrequent ejaculation has been linked to prostate problems. Even the very notion of refraining from ejaculation is flawed, since those men who do not ejaculate in other ways will usually have nighttime seminal emissions. Not to worry, though -- you are constantly producing more semen.

I wouldn't want to break the news to your grandfather, but good genes and healthy living were probably his secret. His determination not to ejaculate was probably wasted.

 

[Jayashiangel]

Question

I'm a nineteen-year-old year woman and have a boyfriend. A bunch of my friends and I were talking about sex, and we got into the topic of the prostate gland and why gay men enjoy being on the receiving end of anal sex.

I became curious about this so when I was messing around with my boyfriend the next night, I tried to stimulate him in this area. He got very mad at me and told me that only gay guys like being touched here. What did I do wrong? Is it true that only gay guys like this activity?


Answer

If you are guilty of anything it is of trying to please your partner. The act of stimulating the prostate gland (done by inserting a finger up the anus and slightly pulling the finger forward while it is inserted, using sex toys to stimulate this area, or engaging in anal sex) results in a pleasurable experience for most men.
However, it is common to think that this is a type of sexual activity which only gay men participate in. This is probably because most anal sexual activity is mistakenly associated solely with gay men. The truth is that many heterosexual AND gay men enjoy this type of stimulation.
However, the reality also is that some heterosexual men have homophobia (fears of being gay or being thought of as gay by others) and would rather sacrifice some sexual pleasure than take the chance of being perceived as engaging in sexual activities thought to be gay.

Once again, you did nothing wrong. Other male partners may have had a very different reaction. Given this experience, you may want to ask your boyfriend permission prior to trying new sexual tricks. Talk with your boyfriend about this matter and let him know of your intentions. Who knows, this conversation may lead to spicing up your sex life.

 

[Jayashiangel]

Question

My boyfriend is taking a drug that has the side effect of causing impotence. I'm trying to read up on this to understand his problem more completely, but I am unclear about whether this hinders his ability to become aroused and feel strongly attracted to me or simply to hold the... uh... evidence of that.


Answer

Your question is a highly perceptive one. All too often, women (and men) confuse physical and emotional arousal. Sexual expression encompasses many factors including desire, attraction, physical arousal, ability to orgasm, fantasy, etc. These can all be impacted independently. Just because a man is unable to have an erection does not necessarily mean that he is not "turned on." What most medications do is simply inhibit the ability for blood to remain in the penis at sufficient pressure for a man to maintain an erection. That does not mean he is not attracted to you or is not turned on. In fact, not having an erection doesn't even mean that he cannot enjoy genital stimulation or even have an orgasm.

It is unfortunate that so many men adopt an attitude of "what's the point?" when approaching erection difficulties. Sexuality encompasses so much -- only a small part of which even requires an erection. He should speak to his doctor about various ways of treating his erection difficulties; but even should that not be possible, it needn't mean the loss of highly arousing, enjoyable sexual activities in your lives.

 

[lorddragonwolf]

the first thing my wife ever said to me in a chat room was i dont cyber. go figure we have been together now 4 years.

I thought I better let everyone know a few things...Since a few people seem to be looking for a person to talk dirty to them or camera with them.. WELL I AM NOT THAT PERSON... WILL I CHAT ABOUT SEXUAL TOPICS YES BUT I AM NOT GOING TO TALK DIRTY SO YOU CAN PLAY WITH YOUR COCK AND GET OFF.....

I HOPE A FEW OF YOU MEN CAN GROW UP AND CHAT...U WONDER WHY NO ONE WHAT TO TALK TO U THAT IS WHY........I DON'T CARE TO KNOW EVERY 3 MINS YOUR HORNY OR YOUR COCK IS A SIZE 7... WE JUST WANT TO CHAT... AND MAYBE IF YOU CAN PUT TOGETHER A SENTENCE BESIDES ABOUT YOUR COCK YOU MAY FIND A REAL PERSON TO TALK TO... SO IF YOU ARE LOOKIN FOR A BLONDE WHO IS ALL STUPID AND THINKS YOUR COCK SIZE AND YOUR DICK IS HARD FOR HER...IS A TURN ON...YOU BETTER MOVE ON....QUICKLY ...BECAUSE I AM GOING TO MAKE YOU WORK YOUR MIND......

 

[Jayashiangel]

Thank You for Your Insight.......


Question

When I make love, I often start to laugh in the middle of my orgasm. I can't help it. It is slightly unnerving to my boyfriend though. He has never seen this before. Is this normal or are we doing something wrong?


Answer

No, you are not doing anything wrong. Many women laugh or even cry during or after orgasm. Orgasm can release tremendous emotions during this time of enormous physical release. Orgasm is also a short period of time during which we are often at our most vulnerable. This can lead to all sorts of feelings rushing out. Because men are taught in our society to suppress emotions more than women, it is less common for guys -- but it can happen nonetheless.

It is also possible that you are simply becoming enormously ticklish right after orgasm, which is very common for both men and women. Even the slightest touch can be downright uncomfortable due to this sensitivity.

Basically, you can reassure him by explaining that this is only occurring because you are having such an intense orgasm. If it was a little hiccup you barely noticed, I doubt you would be laughing your head off!

 

[Jayashiangel]

Sex Bracelets FAQ


1. What are sex bracelets?

2. What do sex bracelet colors mean?

3. Who wears sex bracelets?

4. If a girl wears jelly bracelets, does that mean she has sex?

5. What is the "snap" game?

6. If someone snaps off a bracelet, are they entitled to sex?

7. Where can I buy sex bracelets?

8. People wore those bracelets in the '80s. Why are they popular again?

9. Isn't this whole sex bracelet thing just a bunch of media hype?

10. Are sex bracelets really cock rings?


ANSWERS:

1. What are sex bracelets?

Sex bracelets are inexpensive jelly bracelets, rings of rubbery plastic sold singly or in multi packs. They come in a lot of different colors, many translucent. They often signal willingness to perform certain sex acts, as determined by their color. They may be used in games in which sexual favors are exchanged.

2. What do sex bracelet colors mean?
T
he color code for sex bracelets seems to vary according to location; purple may mean anal sex in one city and holding hands in another. We've listed some of the most common meanings for sex bracelet colors, submitted from sources across the U.S. Possible alternate meanings are listed in parentheses. If you have doubts about what a color means, ask someone who's wearing sex bracelets in your local area.

The one thing that everyone seems to agree upon is that the color black = sexual intercourse
• Black: sexual intercourse
• Blue: blow job (alternate meaning: lap dance)
• Green: cunnilingus (alternate meaning: outdoor sex, hug)
• Clear: whatever you want (alternate meaning: hug)
• Orange: kiss
• Yellow: hug (alternate meaning: analingus)
• Red: lap dance (alternate meaning: French kiss, oral sex)
• Purple: anal sex (alternate meaning: holding hands, doggy style)
• Silver: fisting
• White: flash your tits (alternate meaning: gay kiss, French kiss)
• Pink: flashing
• Gold glitter: make out
• Brown: toss my salad, i.e., analingus
• Glow in the dark: using sex toys, e.g. vibrators, dildos, etc.


3. Who wears sex bracelets?

Jelly bracelets are in fashion and worn by people of all ages, both male and female. They are a casual and trendy style of jewelry. However, it is college students and twentysomethings who wear them as "sex bracelets," not usually younger people.

4. If a girl wears jelly bracelets, does that mean she has sex?

Not necessarily. Many people, especially younger people, wear jelly bracelets as fashionable accessories and are not even aware of the sexual connotations. You can't make assumptions. If you want to know, ask her, but don't be surprised if you get slapped in the face.

5. What is the "snap" game?

One person attempts to break or "snap" a sex bracelet off of another person. The broken bracelet then becomes a "sex coupon" that the snapper can exchange for the sex act signified by the bracelet's color. It is cheating if you simply pull the bracelet off the arm without breaking it, or use a knife or scissors to cut it. The game is rumored to have first been played at college fraternity parties.

6. If someone snaps off a bracelet, are they entitled to sex?

Of course, no one is "entitled" to sex, ever, and no one ever "has" to give somebody sex. However, in some sex games, snapping off a bracelet means, within the rules of the game, that the snappee should engage in a particular sex act. However, a game is just a game, and "no" always means no.

7. Where can I buy sex bracelets?

Sex bracelets or jelly bracelets are available through online stores, on eBay, and in most major discount stores and many mall stores that sell fashions and jewelry for young people.

8. Didn't people wear those bracelets in the '80s?
T
hese type of bracelets were popularized by Madonna, Cyndi Lauper, and other female divas of the '80s. And like a lot of '80s fashions, they've made a comeback.

9. Isn't this whole sex bracelet thing just a bunch of media hype?
T
he media has mistakenly associated sex bracelets with middle and high school students, since these young people sometimes wear jelly bracelets. However, it is college students and twentysomethings who actually ascribe sexual meaning to these bracelets. For the VAST majority of younger people, jelly bracelets are nothing more than a fashion accessory, and have no sexual meaning.

10. Are sex bracelets really cock rings?

Sex bracelets do resemble some cock rings. There is actually some relation, which goes back to the original '80s trend. Decades ago, punk rockers began wearing cock rings as bracelets, as a sign of rebellion and rejection of sexual convention. Some of these were made of studded leather, and some were basically rubber O-rings, usually black. As the style caught on, the origin of the bracelets was forgotten. Now that the style is making a resurgence, maybe the trend will go full circle and gay men will start wearing sex bracelets as cock rings.

 

[cal69]

I am back and ready to share more things with you.....Hope some more people start sharing and posting... Cal where the hell are you??????

sorry been away myself gorgeous

 

[cal69]

feels so soft