BBW or Fat Women

[ChesterMolester]

Is the creep still here?

Hi to everyone,
Is the asshole still here? I have decided he has a fat ass, and a spare tire for a gut. I will wrap myself in cellophane - don't want to catch anything - and fuck him/her, in a differant roll of ignorance each time, for the next week. Must be plenty there, don't think I'd be able to find the same place twice, the dumb fuck.

Chester

 

[Mike_F]

Agree with vixenshe and others

VixenShe and WildOne,
I have to agree with you. I have seen full figured women standing next to things that could only be considered sticks - so thin that you had to wounder if they had an eating disorder. The person I find attractive was the person who feels comfortable with themselves. If you dress nicely, take care of yourself, and have the right attitude I will take that person before I will consider another who doesn't have any self respect. I don't care if your belly is hanging over the top of your cut-off shorts, with your bottom on display, hell, lets run thru the park naked, just streaking. If you feel good about yourself, then I will want to be around you.

WildOne, you know that I go for you, and I don't mind stating it here. I know you where not refering to me when you made your two post, but hay, there is more than one gut that finds you attractive, and loves you for being you.

Chester, I have to agree with your master, the smile is what does it. If you can't smile, then you don't feel comfortable about yourself, or something, and it shows.

SxyChick - you wrote: "People finally realize weight has NOTHING to do with brains, beauty and sexuality!" I have known that for a long time, and totally agree. I know that I am not here much any more, but can we still chat when we are on at the same time?

So many people have spoken out, and I agree. Woody, nice test, and I think you are right about the results. Devilish1, so nice of you to turn the tables on him. And to all of the other great post.

Mike_F

(Back sooner than wanted to, but some things can't be left alone)

 

[Shadowsong22]

All I have to say is that while everyone may be entitled to their own opinion, there's no need to go around trying to tear other people down. It's a trend I've seen across the net and it sickens me to the bone. More than likely this guy just likes to stir the pot and watch the reaction. And it's completely ignorant to say "I don’t want a bunch of messages bellyaching about your metabolism, thyroid, pregnancy, menopause, hormones, or genetics" because you know what? These are facts of life. If you refuse to acknowledge those things as factors then you're just being hateful. A woman is truly beautiful because of her soul and spirit. I have seen thin women who are "beauties" but beyond that, nothing. They've spent so much time focusing on the outer beauty that there's nothing inside. But this happens with both thin or bbw ladies in my experience. The point is to take into fair consideration a person's inner and outer beauty. </endrant>

 

[Woodmiester]

MissVictoria your right, in a way responding to fools like this one only feeds the immature part of them that gets off on the reactions of others or has no life at all so this is the only way they feel they have to interact with people so we do feed the fire when we should just let it die a fast painfull death, but tossing in our 2 cents worth now and then sure feels good too

 

[DarkkSeduction]

I am a bbw (or so I am told) and i have never had a complaint about the sex i have had with any of the 5 guys I have been with...I think you need to look at your performance and not their size...stop using "shes fat" as an excuse for not being able to please her

 

[YPT]

Words and Actions

As the originator of this thread, I’d like to thank all of you for your thoughtful comments.

Our words are a reflection of our character, perhaps even more then our actions. Our words come after thought, our actions sometimes from impulse. The words you’ve left here are very telling, and are worth reading, and re-reading.

 

[deliciously_naughty]

YPT...to quote you..."our words are a reflection of our character"

Thanks for doing my work for me and essentially calling yourself an asshole.

Your little comment about not bitching about thyroids, glands,etc, was just ignorant. They are real problems, that have very few solutions, and all of them expensive. Those are not issues you can handle with diet and excercise.

Your comments were not about the issues of weight and the effects it can have on health. And even if they had been...WOW I've never heard those comments before in my life! Thanks for saving me!!! Idiot...that's like telling a smoker that smoking can kill you. DUH!!! What, you think we live in little bubbles where that information has NEVER been passed onto the general public? It's only been a major piece of public discourse for YEARS now.

Who are you to preach ANYTHING to anyone? You've claimed to have been with over a thousand women, up to an including someone old enough to be your grandmother. And depending on your own age, someone young enough to possibly be your daughter. People in glass houses shouldn't throw stones....Period.

Your comments were hurtful and rude to many, it seems. As someone who has been called a BBW (I'm 5'4'' and 180lbs, about 30-40 pounds over my healthy sporty weight), I have never had trouble finding, keeping or enjoying a lover (short or long term), male or female, I laugh in your face. You're obviously a bitter bitter person who needs some self esteem and wants to gain it by trying to make others feel bad about themselves. SHAME ON YOU for it, too. You will quickly find on this site, at least, that a supportive and healthy community will quickly shut you down for making comments like those, myself happily among them.

You wave your sex-a-holic status proudly and gloat that you are free of disease. Perhaps you're even telling the truth. But you became a sex addict to try and validate your own self worth through sex. Now you try to vindicate it through hurting others...sex would be a much better use of your time, if not the other persons. You are not free of disease...you obviously suffer from chronic lack of self worth, a strong desire to spout shit, and miss sex so much you need to hang out on a sex oriented website...not healthy behavior.

You deserve no more of my time, so I'll close with a thought.

Since you're so into sex....go fuck yourself....no one here wants any of it.

 

[Brandy99ta]

YPT...If it makes you feel good to insult someone to justify your low self esteem..you need more help than just for your sexual addiction. I don't see why you are so concerned about BBW...to me it is very simple...If you don't like us don't have sex with us.
Everyone has personal preferences to what turns them on...to each his own...but to insult others for the way they are or what they like just shows that you are a very close minded person. As a BBW myself, I have a great sex life. I have no problem pleasing my partner or him pleasing me. I don't need you to tell me what I need to do to live longer or how I should be more flexible during sex...you have never had sex with me therefore you don't know anything about my clit, flexibility or anything else about me. I could go on and on but it would be pointless to. It's a shame that we (bbw's on this board) had to read a post that did nothing but insult and criticize us.



Brandy

 

[bubblesny]

some men like ypt need to get a clue

Hello everyone, I just found this thread and have not had a chance to read everyting that people have said but from what I have read YPT first off you make me sick to think you have had 1000 partners or more. Ihope your dick dose fall off .......
You made lots ot statements in your post that just don't aply to me or lots of BBW'S out there. I have to go but I have lots more to say !!! I'll be back for

BUBBLESNY

 

[YPT]

Do you want.

I believe the health related comments I made apply to most everyone who has contributed to this post; the self image and sexually oriented comments may not have.

Again I’ll say, “If you and your lover are happy the way you are, more power to you”. If you are not… do something about it.

How do you feel as you think about being naked in front of your lover for the first time? Do you turn the lights off before you enter the room? Or discretely slide off a robe or towel as you climb under the sheets. Perhaps you make sure you’re in bed first, with the covers pulled high enough to hide all but your face. Can you walk up 2 flights of stairs while comfortably talking? Does the tag on your jeans say “GAP”, “Guess”, or “Cherokee”? Does your favorite store still carry your size? Have you moved from the “Rack” to “Elizabeth” when you shop? Do the legs of your pants wear thing where your thighs rub?

Now for the most important question; do you want to make a change?

 

[Ms_Lilith]

Re: Do you want.

How do you feel as you think about being naked in front of your lover for the first time? Do you turn the lights off before you enter the room? Or discretely slide off a robe or towel as you climb under the sheets. Perhaps you make sure you’re in bed first, with the covers pulled high enough to hide all but your face. Can you walk up 2 flights of stairs while comfortably talking? Does the tag on your jeans say “GAP”, “Guess”, or “Cherokee”? Does your favorite store still carry your size? Have you moved from the “Rack” to “Elizabeth” when you shop? Do the legs of your pants wear thing where your thighs rub?

Now for the most important question; do you want to make a change?

Y'know, I was gonna let it die, but I just couldn't. Ohhhhhhhhhhhhhh the things I have to say...

So, let's break it down, shall we?

1)How do I feel as I think about being naked in front of my lover for the first time?
- I feel great! I get excited, and I can't wait to see him! I rarely think about how I'm gonna look, cus he'll either love it, or he'll hate it. If he loves it, then he gets to experience the heaven that is me. If he hates it, then he can go to hell. Simple as that.

2) So I turn off the lights before I enter the room?
- nope. I'm a lights-on type of girl. Candles, full light, lavalamps, whatever. I like to see, and I like to be seen.

3) Or discreetly slide off a robe or towel as I climb under the sheets?
-lemme think.. nope. I'm the one who starts stripping the minute I get in the door, and I leave a trail of clothes to my darling's bed. I walk around nude quite often. I often stand in front of the mirror admiring what I love about me. And my lover often stands behind me, showing me what he loves about me.

4) Perhaps I make sure I'm in bed first with the covers pulled high enough to cover all but my face.
-what would the point in that be? I'd never get laid if I did that! Jesus man, think about your questions before you ask them.

5) Can I walk up two flights of stairs while comfortably talking?
-yup.. I can do MORE than two flights, too! Aren't you proud?! Fuck, I can jog 4 miles and still talk comfortably. I can do 10 miles on the bike while talking comfortably, or row 5 miles while talking comfortably. I do aerobics and have conversations with my work-out buddy. Fuck off.

6 & 7 & 8) Does the tag on your jeans say “GAP”, “Guess”, or “Cherokee”? Does your favorite store still carry your size? Have you moved from the “Rack” to “Elizabeth” when you shop?
- Even when I was thin, I didn't wear name-brand clothes. And no, I can't wear brands like that, but y'know what? I don't care. I shop at plus-sized stores, and I'm not afraid to admit it. I have a large, round, muscular ass, and I really enjoy it. All my lovers have enjoyed it as well. Plus sized stores DO make nice clothes, y'know. I often have people complimenting me on my taste.

9) Do the legs of your pants wear thin where your thighs rub?
-sometimes. Do you have a hole in the crotch of your jeans like most guys I know do? Do the cuffs of your jeans tear? Do you have holes in the knees of your jeans? So what if the thighs of my pants sometimes wear thin? It just means I get to go shopping again!

You're such a stupid prick, y'know that? I mean, honestly. Just because a woman doesn't fit a popular image of beauty doesn't mean that she's not beautiful. Look at Rubyfruit. She's could never blend in, but she's STUNNING! Everything about her appearance stands out, and yet I'd stop just to watch her move in a crowd. It's women like that, whether thin or overweight who catch my eye. That woman's got an edge to her, and I love that about her, it makes her beautiful. SUch is the way with me, and with many other overweight women. Even though we don't have the tiny waistline, we do have other features which make us absolutely gorgeous.

Love to all us BBW's out there!

 

[Belilica]

Well, it appears you girls have pretty much said everything that came to mind as I was reading this guy's crap. I guess I'll just have to let you guys have him...

Bel

 

[Cipher]

Yeah....what vixenshe said!!!

Seriously though..let the troll be..you know how some people crave attention..and wether it be positive or negative..they bask in it?? well let his ass just think what he wants..he's just mad because we're out here doing the samethings that skinny women do..he needs to get over it already...REALLY.
There is nothing he can do to make us "go away"..so..sounds like he'll just have to stay bitter and salty that we're here.

"Don't hate because we're thick in the waist, and pretty in the face"

*shurgs* trolls..they have no life..they need to try and piss on everyone else's.

's to all the bbw's!!

 

[Guest]

My Girlfriend is 127KG, around the same weight as me. I met her on the internet, and I am truly glad I did. I think she is perfect, in every way possible.

She is also 12 years older than me, and to be honest due to the age difference I doubt if we had met in real life the relationship would have gone this far, but over months of talking to her, and meeting her a few times I asked her out on the 6th of May.

I am glad we met on the internet, as it makes our relationship stronger, it means we love each other for what we are, and not how we look. She looks gorgeous to my eyes and I will always love her, developing the relationship over the internet allowed us to be more open, and get to know each other much quicker and better.

I spose this is just a messege to people to say that looks and age dont count, its what you feel for the person.

 

[Cipher]

My Girlfriend is 127KG, around the same weight as me. I met her on the internet, and I am truly glad I did. I think she is perfect, in every way possible.

She is also 12 years older than me, and to be honest due to the age difference I doubt if we had met in real life the relationship would have gone this far, but over months of talking to her, and meeting her a few times I asked her out on the 6th of May.

I am glad we met on the internet, as it makes our relationship stronger, it means we love each other for what we are, and not how we look. She looks gorgeous to my eyes and I will always love her, developing the relationship over the internet allowed us to be more open, and get to know each other much quicker and better.

I spose this is just a messege to people to say that looks and age dont count, its what you feel for the person.

"Unregistered"..If you're happy with who you are you can be happy with your someone special..i am happy to hear that you've found your someone on the internet. i agree it's all about what you feel for the person.
I believe that if one isn't happy with themselves, they will go the distance to piss on everyone else's parade to make themselves feel better.

Take care!

*just a suggestion* u should register..u'll like it here..i promise

 

[Guest]

"Unregistered"..If you're happy with who you are you can be happy with your someone special..i am happy to hear that you've found your someone on the internet. i agree it's all about what you feel for the person.
I believe that if one isn't happy with themselves, they will go the distance to piss on everyone else's parade to make themselves feel better.

Take care!

*just a suggestion* u should register..u'll like it here..i promise

I am regged, I just cant find my username and pw atm, and tbh I dont really have time to post here activly.

It just gets to me when people try say that someone is 'fat' there is no such thing as 'fat' we are all just different sizes and a good thing too. I love my Girlfriend for who she is not what she looks like.

If I wanted something that just looked good and had a cardboard personality then I would get a whore. Looks fade with time, personality and friendship does not. I would much rather be with someone whom I love and get on well with than someone who could be a model. In my eyes she is perfect, I only hope she feels the same about me, which I am pretty sure she does

 

[Cipher]

I am regged, I just cant find my username and pw atm, and tbh I dont really have time to post here activly.

It just gets to me when people try say that someone is 'fat' there is no such thing as 'fat' we are all just different sizes and a good thing too. I love my Girlfriend for who she is not what she looks like.

If I wanted something that just looked good and had a cardboard personality then I would get a whore. Looks fade with time, personality and friendship does not. I would much rather be with someone whom I love and get on well with than someone who could be a model. In my eyes she is perfect, I only hope she feels the same about me, which I am pretty sure she does

LMFAO @ the whore comment..damn that was funny..

U have the right attitude..just as long as she's perfect to you, and you to her, then what ignorant trolls have to say is not important, and shouldn't be taken seriously.

I hope you find ur user name, and i hope you come back to visit us again

 

[DragonBabe]

I am regged, I just cant find my username and pw atm, and tbh I dont really have time to post here activly.

It just gets to me when people try say that someone is 'fat' there is no such thing as 'fat' we are all just different sizes and a good thing too. I love my Girlfriend for who she is not what she looks like.

If I wanted something that just looked good and had a cardboard personality then I would get a whore. Looks fade with time, personality and friendship does not. I would much rather be with someone whom I love and get on well with than someone who could be a model. In my eyes she is perfect, I only hope she feels the same about me, which I am pretty sure she does

I do feel the same way about you too :0

And comments to ypt ... i am overweight yes... and i am loosing it slowly cos i want to .. not for anyone else but me .... but being fat does not mean you dont have a great sex life... and oh yes... i do go on top .... as well as every otehr way i can. Just because i am larger than otehrs doesnt mean i cant be flexible.... and get into different positions. CAn you do the splits.. i know i can .. and i am over 50 lb overweight.

I like people to see me for who i am and what i am ... if they dont like wwhat they see.. then they dont have to come near me.

All i hope is that your 100+ partners over the years have amde you as happy as i am with my boyfriend.. but i somehow doubt that, so i consider myself the lucky one.

To all normal board readers .. please excuse the ramblings of a noob here.

 

[Eval_Me]

I do feel the same way about you too :0

And comments to ypt ... i am overweight yes... and i am loosing it slowly cos i want to .. not for anyone else but me .... but being fat does not mean you dont have a great sex life... and oh yes... i do go on top .... as well as every otehr way i can. Just because i am larger than otehrs doesnt mean i cant be flexible.... and get into different positions. CAn you do the splits.. i know i can .. and i am over 50 lb overweight.

I like people to see me for who i am and what i am ... if they dont like wwhat they see.. then they dont have to come near me.

All i hope is that your 100+ partners over the years have amde you as happy as i am with my boyfriend.. but i somehow doubt that, so i consider myself the lucky one.

To all normal board readers .. please excuse the ramblings of a noob here.

I love you lots

 

[Skally]

If YPT hadn't registered, I would suspect a troll..

I'm a large 'gal myself - I've got more important things to worry about than my weight. I eat fairly healthily (although I admit it's not great), admittedly I do no excercise - but that'll be changing soon (I'm taking up Yoga and swimming again).

I've been comfortable with myself for a while and have never had any complaints in the bedroom

In particular, I've been praised more than once about my BJ technique.

IMHO, discrimination against overweight people is just that. Discrimination. The only difference between Homophobia and "Fattist" attitudes is that discriminating against the overweight is socially acceptable.

To answer YPT's questions...

How do you feel as you think about being naked in front of your lover for the first time?

Horny as hell

Do you turn the lights off before you enter the room?

Nope, I'm too busy with other things

Perhaps you make sure you’re in bed first, with the covers pulled high enough to hide all but your face.

What's wrong with fucking on the stairs / in the shower / on a desk / on the floor?

Can you walk up 2 flights of stairs while comfortably talking?

Yeah, kinda, but the swimming and Yoga will help - and soon it will be 5 flights of stairs

Does the tag on your jeans say “GAP”, “Guess”, or “Cherokee”?

I don't wear Jeans

Does your favorite store still carry your size? Have you moved from the “Rack” to “Elizabeth” when you shop?

Yes it still carries my size - as for the Rack to Elizabeth reference, it must be an American thing, cause we don't have that here in the UK.

Do the legs of your pants wear thin where your thighs rub?

Nope....
/me sings baggy trousers

I'm quite contented as I am - doesn't seem like you are tho' YPT. Keep up the counselling sessions 'eh? I hope you're not paying for a therapist, as I'd say they're not doing such a great job.

 

[Guest]

Re: YPT is Correct

YPT is the correct user.

Are there any readers who would agree with me, or am I totally alone in this forum?

Oh, I'm gonna get hell for saying this...but as a "chubby girl" 5'4 145lbs I'm gonna have to say that I actually find your workd somewhat encouraging...I don't see that you're have been mean or rude (yet) but honest...Now, my husband likes me how I am, and I don't therefore I'm working on losing my weight, and I think that any girl should only do it for herself.....

 

[Cipher]

Re: Re: YPT is Correct

Oh, I'm gonna get hell for saying this...but as a "chubby girl" 5'4 145lbs I'm gonna have to say that I actually find your workd somewhat encouraging...I don't see that you're have been mean or rude (yet) but honest...Now, my husband likes me how I am, and I don't therefore I'm working on losing my weight, and I think that any girl should only do it for herself.....

He was assuming, that just because we're bigger girls we can't have active sex lives and we must have problems in our life..as i mentioned earlier in this thread, i walk everyday, i eat healthy, and i have no problems with buying name brand clothes in my size, because i have lots of Hilfiger, Esco, and Fubu. And he commented on big girls get complimented because we give good head or something to that effect..once again he was assuming, because i for one..am not a dick sucker, so when i have relationships it's because they accept me for me. And i'm happy to hear you're losing weight for you, and that your hubby loves you for you..wether ur skinny or not. And he thought by voicing his opinion we would all automatically go and lose weight because he thinks so little about us..there's a difference between doing it for yourself and doing it to please shallow people like him.
What he said wasn't fact of anything, I know skinny people that are considered healthy because they are skinny that can't run a block without huffin and puffin you can be healthy at any size..he was being rude and assuming because he saw it fit to do so. And one should NEVER assume anything..especially when he doesn't know anyone of us. Because once again like most women on here, my legs don't rub together, i get on top, i fuck the hell out of my partner, and i am most comfortable with myself in the light as well as dark...so if being stereotypical isn't being rude and is indeed fact..please enlighten me on what you consider being rude and fact is.
And for someone of the likes of him with his 1000 plus women he's slept with..i hope he took the time to practice safe sex with all of them and having himself checked like he took the time to make an ass of himself here with his non factual statements against bbw.
Once again, please enlighten me on what is rude and what isn't.

Cipher.

 

[Guest]

Re: Re: Re: YPT is Correct

And he commented on big girls get complimented because we give good head or something to that effect..once again he was assuming, because i for one..am not a dick sucker, so when i have relationships it's because they accept me for me.
Cipher.

I just went back and reread the posts (all of them this time) and I now see what you mean...he was...not so nice....and I don't see how sucking cock has anything to do with size!!

 

[Cipher]

Re: Re: Re: Re: YPT is Correct

I just went back and reread the posts (all of them this time) and I now see what you mean...he was...not so nice....and I don't see how sucking cock has anything to do with size!!

*looks at crystlmandy*

well..u gotta have a troll in the threads every so often..

 

[YPT]

Re: Re: YPT is Correct

Oh, I'm gonna get hell for saying this...but as a "chubby girl" 5'4 145lbs I'm gonna have to say that I actually find your workd somewhat encouraging...I don't see that you're have been mean or rude (yet) but honest...Now, my husband likes me how I am, and I don't therefore I'm working on losing my weight, and I think that any girl should only do it for herself.....

Thanks for your words, and your insight. The biggest part of my job is to encourage people (men and women) who are trying to make a change, to show them there are alternatives, and what those alternatives are.

Most of the people I’ve worked with have tried time and time again to make meaningful changes in there life. Some have given up, because of the effort required, other because they don’t realize the implications of their condition. In addition there’s a whole group of people I never see; these are the ones who are totally comfortable with who and what they are.

Most motivation comes from within, so if someone is totally comfortable with their size and condition, nothing I can say or do will effect a change. If, however, I can upset their level of comfort, then we’ve taken the first step toward change and improvement.

I hope I’ve made at least one person “uncomfortable” enough to try to change, and encouraged others to continue their efforts. It is worth it.