Bi married Guys, does she know?

[scriptordelecto]

Like all most all of you guys. My wife would freak out and leave. She has no idea I like cock and playing with another guy. As I get older, senior now, I want it more and more. She has no sex drive at all since menopause and I am getting hornier by the day. Would love to meet a guy younger or even my age in my my area that wants to play. I have had many, many bi experiences in my life. Start when I entered high school and ended when I got married. I discussed it with her before marriage, whooooa, not the thing to do. Soooo, here I am , stroking alone. Any one in NW Oregon interested in a sexy senior, PM me.

This makes me incredibly sad. I never have been able to understand how people can proclaim to love someone and not love them in their entirety.

 

[tonethebone]

This makes me incredibly sad. I never have been able to understand how people can proclaim to love someone and not love them in their entirety.

What an awesome outlook on what a relationship should be all about. I also have fantasies that I'm afraid to share with my wife. For fear of rejection. And I have gone behind her back with one close friend to satisfy that urge. I just wish she was more open and not so vanilla.

But I married her for life, and guess I'll have to make the best of it.

 

[scriptordelecto]

What an awesome outlook on what a relationship should be all about. I also have fantasies that I'm afraid to share with my wife. For fear of rejection. And I have gone behind her back with one close friend to satisfy that urge. I just wish she was more open and not so vanilla.

But I married her for life, and guess I'll have to make the best of it.

I'm sorry to hear it. I used to think I was vanilla. When I started opening up my outlook, I shared it all with my husband. I just can't keep anything of myself hidden from him. He's my best friend. When I started opening up, so did he and we're closer for it. Of course, most couples we know don't communicate on that level. Many are afraid to explore themselves any deeper than socially accepted norms. I hate that people miss out on living because of it.

 

[TallOne]

I also couldn't imagine hiding something like that from someone you go as far as marrying. I was open with my wife about curiosities back when we were dating and she was there for my first experience.

But even if I was in that situation, there's no way I could cheat on someone I loved like that. It is astounding how many "straight" guys on swinger's sites hit up our profile looking to get some bi play without their wife. We just can't be party to that.

 

[octroy]

Hi

Just like to ask bi married guys, and guys in a relationship, does your other half know about your bi sexual side and if she does how did she find out and if she doesn't know what is stopping you telling her.

My wife doesn't know I'm bi for the reason that she wouldn't accept it and I would become divorced very quickly.


Thanks

That is exactly my situation as well. I knew second marriage I should have found a women who is sexually open rather than rely on societies more traditional criteria for finding a mate. Well, I'll sure know better the third time around.

 

[Mikijl Dragon]

Before I met my wife I used to have MM fantasies but I suppressed them as I came from a strict catholic upbringing. My wife and I have a very honest relationship. When she asked if I had ever fantasied about gay sex I said yes. She then encouraged me to explore. It was because of her that I am the bi man I am today. That along with all her other awesome traits makes me one lucky guy. I found the perfect woman

 

[bobbyinhouston]

Does she know?

Yes my wife of twenty years knows. I told her in a druken state before we were married. Never really messed around on her allthough I did go to ABS/ adult theathers. Two years ago finally told her I needed to act on my impulses and much to relief she said ok just do not bring anything home.

This has open our marriage up as we started to explore our sex lives by openly swinging. We enjoy sharing with other couples and have had several group scenes, a fantastic time. She also has started to expolore with other women something she swore she would never do.

All in all being honest has worked for us as we enjoy our continueing adventures.

 

[Phun4u2]

Yes

MY wife not only knows, she initiates most of the action that I get. She will take me bar hopping till she finds a likely target, then she decides on the scenario that she wants. She has had me walk up to men and ask them to let me suck their cocks or she may send me out to the car or even back home while she flirts with them and brings then home to have me suck them.

She once invited three young men to join us at our table, then had me get under the table and blow all three.

The most memorable was when she and I waited outside for a guy to come out and then she made me go down on him right there in the parking lot while people where going and coming. the danger of getting caught made it unbelievably exciting.

I never know what she will come up with next and I can't wait to find out.

 

[davion2308]

My wife

She's very vanilla and conservative when it comes to sex. I'm sure if I said I was into guys, she'd divorce me right away and be hurt, pissed, upset, etc etc. I have teased it out a little in the past with strong negative reactions. I would never outright say I'm into guys.

Damn shame.

 

[95Defender]

Wife Sharing

What about another approach to this...I have always been interested in sharing my wife with another guy and in the heat of the moment anything can happen. I know from our past every time we try something new it happens naturally in the moment. I would love to talk about sharing my wife and trying new experiences. I think that would be the way to make it happen for me.

 

[Phydeax69]

She's very vanilla and conservative when it comes to sex. I'm sure if I said I was into guys, she'd divorce me right away and be hurt, pissed, upset, etc etc. I have teased it out a little in the past with strong negative reactions. I would never outright say I'm into guys.

Damn shame.

I'min that same sinking boat!!! My wife is VERY vanilla, not into anything weird (or moderately weird) and doesn't have a clue about any of my bi feelings! In fact two years back, she found out I was cybering with someone (female) no physical contact at all and she threatened to kick me out.

It sucks, but what do you do? (and no, I'm not leaving her, otherwise, we have a great relationship...just not in the bedroom)

 

[smj4740]

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[schaum_m]

MY wife not only knows, she initiates most of the action that I get. She will take me bar hopping till she finds a likely target, then she decides on the scenario that she wants. She has had me walk up to men and ask them to let me suck their cocks or she may send me out to the car or even back home while she flirts with them and brings then home to have me suck them.

She once invited three young men to join us at our table, then had me get under the table and blow all three.

The most memorable was when she and I waited outside for a guy to come out and then she made me go down on him right there in the parking lot while people where going and coming. the danger of getting caught made it unbelievably exciting.

I never know what she will come up with next and I can't wait to find out.

mmmmmm where did you find her?

My wife would freak if she knew I was bi

 

[suffolkengland]

Does she know? No, and she's made it quite clear that she doesn't believe in bisexuality. She think a bisexual person is just a gay person who just can't decide.

So it would be the end if she finds out.

 

[krsmaddriver1420]

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[bitxhubby]

Very cool krs! Is she helping you find a play buddy to explore with?

 

[krsmaddriver1420]

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[PolyLvr]

Wifey has known I'm bi for 30 years. In fact I love to suck her boyfriend's cock. I love eating his cum out of her too after watching him fuck her senseless.
Just last weekend, for the first time ever, she laid underneath me sucking my cock while he slid his into my ass. Soooooo good.

 

[noob10]

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Does she know? No, and she's made it quite clear that she doesn't believe in bisexuality. She think a bisexual person is just a gay person who just can't decide.

So it would be the end if she finds out.

I'm in the same boat

 

[PeteofPA]

No way does she know, and no way would she ever find out. She's known over the years that I've had particularly good "friends", other buds. But she's way too conservative generally to be able to deal with my appetites for sex with men.

She can't even enjoy giving a blow job, and for years I tried and tried haha She's liked how I go down on her and fuck her but it must be her upbringing, like she really can't let loose, even though we used to talk about it a lot. She just thinks I'm a letch haha I guess she's a little uptight but overall has never expressed any dissatisfaction with me in the bedroom, it's just not important to her.

I guess it's me that's been dissatisfied, hence my loving getting with dudes- to me they're just better in the sack idk

 

[kinkycaveman]

I've never come right out and told my wife, because frankly at this point it's just curiousity on my part. But maybe after I suck my first cock, I'll let her know about it.

 

[MarionLibrarian]

I've Tried to Tell Her.

I was hoping when I suggested a three way with another man that I could just let the events unfold and it would be a natural progression. I work on the open dialog portion of our our marriage frequently, but when she senses I'm hinting around at my bisexuality she throws up the walls. It's pretty obvious she doesn't want to know.

 

[dluvstoread]

My wife knows I am curious and is accepting, we made a promise to each other that we would only do it together.........she is also curious and is willing to share a man with me....as long as he fucks her after we suck him.....and I get to clean up.......ahhhh.....to find the right person is all we need or a couple so we could both explore our bi-curious side.......

 

[michaelinteas]

I have told my wife, She is accepting of it and even encourages me to explore. But i am very picky and really would love to find just one guy to have a lasting sexual relationship with. Once trust is built up we can then invite other men into our play time