Bi married Guys, does she know?

[iwp2011]

sadly, the times i've tried to talk to my wife about my bi-curious tendencies she gets very upset and isn't accepting at all. i was hoping that maybe she would at least entertain the idea. i'd be happy to have another guy join us in bed so that she could benefit from having two men pleasure her (and each other) but she is completely not into it. in fact, she's just not into sex at all anymore. it's been a long, long time since we've had sex (over a year and a half) which makes me more and more want to go and play with another man (or woman, for that matter).

 

[PolyLvr]

sadly, the times i've tried to talk to my wife about my bi-curious tendencies she gets very upset and isn't accepting at all. i was hoping that maybe she would at least entertain the idea. i'd be happy to have another guy join us in bed so that she could benefit from having two men pleasure her (and each other) but she is completely not into it. in fact, she's just not into sex at all anymore. it's been a long, long time since we've had sex (over a year and a half) which makes me more and more want to go and play with another man (or woman, for that matter).

You're a better man than I. I'm not sure I could go that long without, unless she had a clear medical reason.

FFS, if a woman is married to you and loves you she should recognize your needs and at least give you blowjobs or handjobs on the regular. What's 10 minutes a coupla times a week to pleasure someone you love?

 

[noob10]

bye bye

 

[PolyLvr]

I just told her less than an hour ago and she has left the house crying and in tears.. Not a good sign. She rambled about how she is having trust issues and now she is in doubt. Not cool

Updates? I hope she's come back by now. Preferably with a fella in tow.

 

[bibethhotwet]

Husband and I have been open and honest since we married. He knew about my bi side and was ok with it when we met. We also have male friends who are bi and have 3somes from time to time. Sometimes I lay back and watch the guys go at it which is intensely erotic to me. While he is not much on getting fucked in the ass he dosen't mind sucking to completion and he and I have shared a deep cum kiss on more than one occasion. Again..very intense.

 

[Mr. Briggs]

Husband and I have been open and honest since we married. He knew about my bi side and was ok with it when we met. We also have male friends who are bi and have 3somes from time to time. Sometimes I lay back and watch the guys go at it which is intensely erotic to me. While he is not much on getting fucked in the ass he dosen't mind sucking to completion and he and I have shared a deep cum kiss on more than one occasion. Again..very intense.

Hot stuff

 

[nightjack]

My wife does not know of my bi tendancies. I have never got up the nerve to tell her. Part of me almost wants to scream out to the world, but then reality bites and keeping schtum seems a better option.

After ten years of marriage it seems too much to lose.

 

[BentSecrets]

My wife does not know of my bi tendancies. I have never got up the nerve to tell her. Part of me almost wants to scream out to the world, but then reality bites and keeping schtum seems a better option.

After ten years of marriage it seems too much to lose.

I know what you mean. I'm a bi guy in a relationship with a very understanding girl, so on occasion we have 3somes with guys. However, I still crave (and occasionally have) my own "secret" encounters.

It's frustrating that we can't be "out" about being bi without all kinds of strange looks from both straight and gay folks (mostly straight though).

I'm bisexual, love both male and female sex...but there are few people I can share that with. Sometimes I find it enfuriating and depressing, but still--coming out might entail more risks than it's worth in today's culture.