Bi people in relationships

[alisonwunderlnd]

does your other-half know you're bi? Are they ok with it? Are they also bi?

yes
yes
no

 

[jcguild]

If she loves you, she'll be fine with it and realize it's a part of who you are.

Agreed completely.

 

[sam77077]

Am I bi?

"Mmmph! would be fun to get a guy off and stroke that power in my mouth while she watched"

...I chatted with a woman who said something very much like that...and it has haunted me and drives me ....I simply must experience that moment of "power"...I am not sure if wanting to suck cock makes me bi...after the curiosity is satisfied...then I can ponder that issue

 

[straptnlusty4u]

Does your other-half know you're bi? Yes

Are they ok with it? Yes

Are they also bi? Yes

Both my boyfriend and I are bi, having had as many same-sex relationships as heterosexual. I enjoy being with women, but since my boyfriend and I met 6 years ago (at a time when both of us were convinced we would NEVER be in another hetero relationship... funny how life happens when we've made other plans!) we feel we have found the perfect relationship for us. We are free to enjoy and exercise both sides of our sexuality with each other. We enjoy "role reversal" sex where I will wear a strap-on and take the masculine role and he the submissive, or traditionally feminine. It works for us...but if this relationship were to end, I'm sure I would go back to women, as I doubt I would find another man as comfortable with themselves and their sexuality that would allow him to accept this type of relationship.

 

[lovesbistories]

I'm bi (and also VERY interested in BDSM lifestyle) but my wife does not know about either thing. I know that she would not be remotely accepting of either thing and would likely be very horrified if she learned the truth. I've tried many times to express to her my feelings but every time I get started, her expressions of disgust at the topic pretty much don't give me a very good feeling about continuing.

I'd love to include her in both things but she has no interest. So I've got to find this stuff out and get my experiences behind her back. She no longer has any interest in sex at all and with my overwhelming sexual desire and interests, it's caused a huge rift in our relationship. I don't know where it's going to end up.

Basically, I have a feeling about where you're all coming from. Those who have spouses who aren't accepting.

yes i am in the same boat..my sex drive has increased while my wifes has decreased to all but nil.. i also want to try sex with a man or couple