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Rowan00 said:
In the long run, again, it's HIS loss. A guy would have to be crazy to throw away something with a girl like you. The less contact you have with him at this point the better. You will move on to a much better guy in time.
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thanks, i cant see that happening
 
BrokenGirl30 said:
Thankyou to everyone for the posts, comments and messages of support. I said in my first post that this may be the wronf thing to do. I can say it has not been already.
I never thought such support could be found here. I thank you all.
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We might seem a bit crude at times, but for the most part quite a few of us have all felt heartbreak at some time in our lives.
Keep looking forward, I promise it will get better as time passes. :rose:
 
Brokengirl30, this is my first and probably my only post I will ever do. Your story has touched me. Ive been through the samething from the other side when my wife did the same thing to me. I promise you it will get better. Call your friends even if its been a while. Talk to family, they love you and it helps. If you read, they a book called "Letting Go". A friend gave it to me when I was hurting and it helped. I can only say that this will pass and even if you dont believe it now, you will meet someone who will treat you like you deserve. Hang in there.
 
BrokenGirl30 said:
Ive got the wine.
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Wine helps:D So does beer. I've been pretty close to where you are. I was lucky in that I had/have a job I love to do and kids that I would happily lay down in front of a bus for. So while I was dying inside there were things that pulled me forward. I will say time helps. Right now you are really raw. It WILL get better, but there is nothing magic (except maybe wine;) that will speed the process.

And I LOVE your pics.:rose:
 
tommyknife said:
Brokengirl30, this is my first and probably my only post I will ever do. Your story has touched me. Ive been through the samething from the other side when my wife did the same thing to me. I promise you it will get better. Call your friends even if its been a while. Talk to family, they love you and it helps. If you read, they a book called "Letting Go". A friend gave it to me when I was hurting and it helped. I can only say that this will pass and even if you dont believe it now, you will meet someone who will treat you like you deserve. Hang in there.
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Thanks tommy very much, that is very sweet of you
 
jre1962 said:
Wine helps:D So does beer. I've been pretty close to where you are. I was lucky in that I had/have a job I love to do and kids that I would happily lay down in front of a bus for. So while I was dying inside there were things that pulled me forward. I will say time helps. Right now you are really raw. It WILL get better, but there is nothing magic (except maybe wine;) that will speed the process.

And I LOVE your pics.:rose:
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Thanks so much for lovely words
 
BrokenGirl30 said:
I want to tell him how much he has hurt me. should i text him?
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As has been said, just cut all contact. It will take a long time to feel joy again, but when you do it will taste like pure oxygen.

Sadly, we are probably talking a year or so, but you will be surprised how quickly that year goes. Yes theres pain but do you notice something underneath the pain? Its like when you turn off some humming device in the background you forgot was even on. The oppression, the trying to please someone so selfish they rarely if ever acknowledged your efforts. Thats gone, over!

You see lots of glimmers of light thus next year. Just please DONT latch on to anyone.

What did you do for fun before this man slowly drug you down, away from your friends...do that.
 
query said:
As has been said, just cut all contact. It will take a long time to feel joy again, but when you do it will taste like pure oxygen.

Sadly, we are probably talking a year or so, but you will be surprised how quickly that year goes. Yes theres pain but do you notice something underneath the pain? Its like when you turn off some humming device in the background you forgot was even on. The oppression, the trying to please someone so selfish they rarely if ever acknowledged your efforts. Thats gone, over!

You see lots of glimmers of light thus next year. Just please DONT latch on to anyone.

What did you do for fun before this man slowly drug you down, away from your friends...do that.
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Thanks so much.

Thanks for the kind, wise words.

I think il go for a walk, i need more wine
 
Know where you're coming from. I got out of a marriage a couple years ago... one of those stupid ones where neither of us had the slightest idea what it really meant. Ultimately, it resulted in us hating and hurting each other by the end of it, and we went out in an toxic blaze of nonsense. Isolating myself from everyone and even my own awareness of who I was, I had no job and no prospects and no friends; I, in return, completely shattered her dreams of a normal, stable life. Bad marriages are violent, ugly, dreadful things to undergo, and I breathed a tentative sigh of relief by the end of it all, because I knew I could at least clean up and move on now.
You can't clean house during a tornado. You had a long, ugly, devastating tornado, where it made no sense that you could do anything of help to yourself. It's over now; asses the damage, mourn the loss, and then figure out how to clean up the mess. Seems you're still in the mourning period, and it seems formidable and unscalable... but just start slowly doing things that bring you closer to happiness and you'll pull out of it. Hopefully, you made the best decisions you knew how to make at the time, though I understand hindsight in these situations is much like being a spectator at a football game versus being the quarterback. You get to replay the whole game and analyze all the movements now, but I advise: please do not hit yourself over the head for this for too long... remember how the decisions made perfect sense in that instant, and then learn what needs to be learned. That's how you get rid of regrets.
Sorry, I've been smoking up and watching Carl Sagan all day, so I'm rambly as shit :D But still though, you'll be alright... just don't stay idle for too long. Besides, you've got an awesome rack, use it well!

One question though... why did you choose THIS forum?
 
Black13 said:
Know where you're coming from. I got out of a marriage a couple years ago... one of those stupid ones where neither of us had the slightest idea what it really meant. Ultimately, it resulted in us hating and hurting each other by the end of it, and we went out in an toxic blaze of nonsense. Isolating myself from everyone and even my own awareness of who I was, I had no job and no prospects and no friends; I, in return, completely shattered her dreams of a normal, stable life. Bad marriages are violent, ugly, dreadful things to undergo, and I breathed a tentative sigh of relief by the end of it all, because I knew I could at least clean up and move on now.
You can't clean house during a tornado. You had a long, ugly, devastating tornado, where it made no sense that you could do anything of help to yourself. It's over now; asses the damage, mourn the loss, and then figure out how to clean up the mess. Seems you're still in the mourning period, and it seems formidable and unscalable... but just start slowly doing things that bring you closer to happiness and you'll pull out of it. Hopefully, you made the best decisions you knew how to make at the time, though I understand hindsight in these situations is much like being a spectator at a football game versus being the quarterback. You get to replay the whole game and analyze all the movements now, but I advise: please do not hit yourself over the head for this for too long... remember how the decisions made perfect sense in that instant, and then learn what needs to be learned. That's how you get rid of regrets.
Sorry, I've been smoking up and watching Carl Sagan all day, so I'm rambly as shit :D But still though, you'll be alright... just don't stay idle for too long. Besides, you've got an awesome rack, use it well!

One question though... why did you choose THIS forum?
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thanks for your message.

I chose this fourm as I have been here once or twice before but not for longer than 5 mins. So thought I would register
 
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I think you need to go back over the events that led to your problems. Not sure if this is the place to be and asking strangers for advise im no expert. It will take time to get over it but if you look deep inside yourself you will find that you made the only viable decisions. Good luck
 
BG30....I'm so sad about what your going thru. As you've already been told and I'm certain you already know yourself, things will get better with time. I've been married for 29 years and unfortunately will not make it to 30. I've found that if you focus on things other than the "other one", and put one foot in front of the other, you will slowly but surely begin to feel better. It will take a while and no one knows how long that will be but eventually you will start enjoying things/people again. I can only say this....go slow and you'll be ok. Be safe.
 
I didn't feel it was right to take a second to compliment you in my previous post on the photos you've posted, so I thought I'd do it in a seperate post. I must say, you are a very sexy lady. I really like the partially open, I think corset, showing just a hint of cleavage. Very nice, very very nice.
 
screw him hes not worth the tears.Scumbags like him do not deserve a beautiful woman like you.Lift your chin up and make him realize just what he has lost.

xoxo Alan
 
BG....hang in there. I know that there are no words to take the sting away from what's happened, but I'm just as sure that there are people who care about you and will support you in the coming days and weeks. Keep your chin up and believe in yourself...you are a wonderful person !!

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Druce
 
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