Boyfriend falling asleep before i'm done

[silverwhisper]

VSG: i'm glad that he does, but then again, i think all women in relationships are entitled to at least three good oral orgasms/encounter. although there's a possibility this is a matter of his facility at cunnilingus, some women just can't come that way. do clitoral or vaginal stimulation get you off? is it just having intercourse w/ him that isn't doing the job? maybe it doesn't go on for long enough for you to get where you wanna be?

all sorts of possible things here, VSG.

keep us posted?

ed

 

[jmmitch80]

hmmm

Well, I hope I don't upset anyone, but it sounds to me like he just doesn't care about you. While it may not be true for all guys, I would think that most would defenitely want to reciprocate and make you orgasm if they cared about you. I personally have never left a woman hanging like that and would never think of it, especially since I would obviously want to be intimate with her again. My suggestion would be to tell him your concern, demand that he makes it right, and if he can't/won't then it's time to move on, some people aren't worth the time and effort and life is to short to get stuck with someone who doesn't appreciate your feelings.

 

[VeryShyGirl]

Well, he isn't talking to me right now. So it's over. but thanks for the advice. I'll be sure to keep it in mind for the next time.

 

[Eilan]

Well, he isn't talking to me right now. So it's over. but thanks for the advice. I'll be sure to keep it in mind for the next time.

Sorry to hear that, VeryShyGirl.

 

[TBKahuna123]

Well, he isn't talking to me right now. So it's over. but thanks for the advice. I'll be sure to keep it in mind for the next time.

Well I'm sorry to hear that, but if he's acting this way because you brought up a concern about this, then he's acting very immature about the whole thing. I'm so sorry things didn't work out for you.

 

[VeryShyGirl]

Thanks everyone (huggs)

I'm dealing with it, but him not wanting to talk about it, or talk to me at all right now, is what really bugs the hell outta me

 

[TBKahuna123]

Thanks everyone (huggs)

I'm dealing with it, but him not wanting to talk about it, or talk to me at all right now, is what really bugs the hell outta me

And it should bug you, damnit! Guys, if you're listening, take the advice of an old man. GROW UP! Talking about an issue, especially a sexual issue, isn't the end of the world, it's the key to life. Just talk to your woman, it's actually easier than ignoring it and making it worse!

Sheesh! Boys.

 

[Le Jacquelope]

My boyfriend (depending upon the time) can get quite sleepy after orgasming. So, usually, if we're having sex late at night, its just assumed that we will make sure that I orgasm before he does.

That could possibly be a simple way to fix your problems.

However, if he is not willing to try this - and is unwilling to listen to your concerns regarding your situation - then I think there are bigger problems in your relationship than just sex.

Smartest
advice
I've
EVER SEEN

on Lit.


And damn you for stealing this one. I saw this thread on my subscriptions page and hopped in to say the very same thing...

 

[cusprider]

Change your play time to the morning If you are using and can't limit the recreational substances you consume before hand. If you are staying out until 3am getting wasted thats about all you can expect. If not, make sure you have your turn first.

 

[Guest]

 

[midwestyankee]

Hey TBK, how about if we use the word "experienced" instead of "old"? The word "old" should be banned.

Here! Here!

 

[silverwhisper]

VSG: smile! now maybe you can find someone who'll actually treat you properly in bed. :>

ed

 

[HoldenMcCrank]

Well move on and learn from this experience. Next time if this starts to happen you can nip it in the bud.

Good luck to you. Remember this is your gain and his lose. If he was smart he would still be having sex with you.

Take care,

Holden

 

[TBKahuna123]

Hey TBK, how about if we use the word "experienced" instead of "old"? The word "old" should be banned.

If you knew how old I was you'd probably kick me in the nuts for saying that in the first place. Oh wait! That's Bi's job, I forgot.

 

[phoenix1224]

VSG: smile! now maybe you can find someone who'll actually treat you properly in bed. :>

And out of bed too... This guy's a schmuck.

VSG: x 12

 

[SummerMorning]

Thanks everyone (huggs)

I'm dealing with it, but him not wanting to talk about it, or talk to me at all right now, is what really bugs the hell outta me

Hey, we're here.

Undemanding, semi-virtual people hiding behind clattering keyboards ... but we're here.

You'll get over it.
It'll hurt.
But it'll be better.

And then you can actually get somebody who appreciates you and is actually mature enough to face hisself.

 

[M's girl]

Thanks everyone (huggs)

I'm dealing with it, but him not wanting to talk about it, or talk to me at all right now, is what really bugs the hell outta me

And it should! He is being VERY inmature about it. If you can't even talk about this what does that tell you about other problems you will come across in your relationship? Not a good sign. You deserve better....

 

[Eilan]

Hey TBK, how about if we use the word "experienced" instead of "old"? The word "old" should be banned.

But then what would the geezer fuckers do?

 

[Guest]

 

[TBKahuna123]

But then what would the geezer fuckers do?

Well she has a point.

 

[silverwhisper]

or indeed, she gets the point? :>

ed

 

[Guest]

 

[midwestyankee]

But then what would the geezer fuckers do?

No geezer worth fucking is old; the best ones are experienced.

 

[phoenix1224]

The last few posts reminded me of a t-shirt that I saw in a mail order catalog recently. It read: GEEZER, formerly known as stud muffin.

 

[TBKahuna123]

The last few posts reminded me of a t-shirt that I saw in a mail order catalog recently. It read: GEEZER, formerly known as stud muffin.

Classic! I love it!