Branding, cutting....marks of possession

[m wisdom]

Well it is definately sore these days, though still not what I would call unbearable. I am impatient for it to heal so we can touch up the gaps that did not take as well as we wanted..and then begin healing all over again. This pic I managed to take after one week of healing....need to do an update one in the next day or so.

Catalina

Looks to be healing nicely
I'm sure it'll be healed enough to fix in a few months

 

[catalina_francisco]

Looks to be healing nicely
I'm sure it'll be healed enough to fix in a few months

LOL, I keep willing it to go quicker as I'm impatient...actually suggested he just do it now straight on top of this one, but he won't.

Catalina

 

[m wisdom]

LOL, I keep willing it to go quicker as I'm impatient...actually suggested he just do it now straight on top of this one, but he won't.

Catalina

What would the fun be in that, waiting will make it'll hurt all over again

 

[catalina_francisco]

What would the fun be in that, waiting will make it'll hurt all over again

LOL, actually given the way I lift sometimes when it is touched or knocked, I am pleased he wouldn't redo it right now.

Catalina

 

[SwanFlight]

A Question for doms and subs

Hi everyone,

Reading through the messages on this board a question rose to
in my mind and I ask it simply out of curiosity and I'm curious about
both sides of view. I am not experienced with brands and such
yet, so forgive me if this seems a rather strange question.

I wondered with something 'pernament' marking a pet to his/her
Master/Mistress, what happens if something were to happen to
that dom/me and one eventually moves on in the lifestyle and
finds a new one? What of the pernament marks from before?
How is it addressed or dealt with and I am most curious about
how the new Master/Mistress would feel about these earlier
brands and marks of previous ownership on the pet that is
now Theirs?

SwanFlight

 

[catalina_francisco]

Hi everyone,

Reading through the messages on this board a question rose to
in my mind and I ask it simply out of curiosity and I'm curious about
both sides of view. I am not experienced with brands and such
yet, so forgive me if this seems a rather strange question.

I wondered with something 'pernament' marking a pet to his/her
Master/Mistress, what happens if something were to happen to
that dom/me and one eventually moves on in the lifestyle and
finds a new one? What of the pernament marks from before?
How is it addressed or dealt with and I am most curious about
how the new Master/Mistress would feel about these earlier
brands and marks of previous ownership on the pet that is
now Theirs?

SwanFlight

Everyone will have a different view on this, but for us something such as a permanent cutting or brand is not something you choose to do on Saturday night with your latest Dom/me, just for something to do. It is meant to be permanent as is the relationship, and therefore a decision not to be taken lightly or without much thought and discussion. We are married as well as Master/slave, so in some ways have made a double commitment. Our commitment is there is only two ways out of this relationship....one is death of one of us, the other is if I committed what he finds unforgiveable at which point he would direct my future, but most likely not with him or pleasant. If it were a matter of his death, I am not to be owned by another but can play, and that should not be hindered by wearing his mark. Even if I were permitted to seek another owner, I would expect they would respect my mark for what it was, and perhaps add their own...if they couldn't, they wouldn't be someone I would consider on the same wavelength as me or of interest.

Catalina

 

[catalina_francisco]

Hmm, after 2 weeks healing....

Catalina

 

[catalina_francisco]

Nostalgic rebump...and maybe there will be more to add soon from either us or anyone who wants to share.

Catalina

 

[chris9]

Nostalgic rebump...and maybe there will be more to add soon from either us or anyone who wants to share.

Catalina

I've been wondering how the branding looks now that it's all healed... Maybe you have a pic you wouldn't mind sharing?

 

[catalina_francisco]

I've been wondering how the branding looks now that it's all healed... Maybe you have a pic you wouldn't mind sharing?

I will see if he is in the mood to try and take one this week...I've tried, but is a little difficult to get it clear when I am twisting around to get it.

Catalina

 

[BiBunny]

Branding...my deep, dark secret fantasy. It scares me to death, but at the same time, I would love to be branded by a life partner. Of course, it's not something I'd ever take lightly. I certainly wouldn't want to have it done NOW. But someday, sometime with the right person...the mark of ownership would make me very happy, indeed.

 

[lil_slave_rose]

thanks for the bump. Master and i have discussed branding as well as cutting His 'mark' into me, and i do find it an awesome fantasy i'm just not sure i could handle it. We do have a tattoo picked out that means alot to us and i've attached it to my post, the tattoo will be just the image minus the words. we both want to get the same one, He wants it put on our chests, over our hearts, i say i think it would hurt too much there, but i guess we'll see....again thanks for the bump, it was a good read

 

[catalina_francisco]

Branding...my deep, dark secret fantasy. It scares me to death, but at the same time, I would love to be branded by a life partner. Of course, it's not something I'd ever take lightly. I certainly wouldn't want to have it done NOW. But someday, sometime with the right person...the mark of ownership would make me very happy, indeed.

It is amazing how good it feels...I just wish it were somewhere where I saw it without having to line my butt up to a mirror!!

Catalina

 

[catalina_francisco]

thanks for the bump. Master and i have discussed branding as well as cutting His 'mark' into me, and i do find it an awesome fantasy i'm just not sure i could handle it. We do have a tattoo picked out that means alot to us and i've attached it to my post, the tattoo will be just the image minus the words. we both want to get the same one, He wants it put on our chests, over our hearts, i say i think it would hurt too much there, but i guess we'll see....again thanks for the bump, it was a good read

Very nice...you'd be surprised how easy branding is compared to the myths, and cutting is scary more from the thought than the doing IMHO.

Catalina

 

[littlegirlslut]

We are doing this soon!!! I'm not if he's choosen branding or cutting, but one. Catalina - what did you use to heat it? I may have missed that.

 

[catalina_francisco]

We are doing this soon!!! I'm not if he's choosen branding or cutting, but one. Catalina - what did you use to heat it? I may have missed that.

LOL, it was an away from the comforts of home thing so we first tried the flame from the gas stove in the room, but decided that didn't look hot enough even though it was glowing so went for using the small blowtorch he brought for backup. Apparently it only hurts like in the stories online if it is not hot enough....mine was just a miniscule of a second of pain....not even long enough to register so I thought he had changed his mind....and lots of sizzling, spitting sounds and smell of burning flesh which my cold at the time prevented me smelling thank goodness.

Catalina

 

[the captians wench]

LOL, it was an away from the comforts of home thing so we first tried the flame from the gas stove in the room, but decided that didn't look hot enough even though it was glowing so went for using the small blowtorch he brought for backup. Apparently it only hurts like in the stories online if it is not hot enough....mine was just a miniscule of a second of pain....not even long enough to register so I thought he had changed his mind....and lots of sizzling, spitting sounds and smell of burning flesh which my cold at the time prevented me smelling thank goodness.

Catalina

How did he gauge when it was ready?

was it temped, or just by sight?

 

[lil_slave_rose]

Very nice...you'd be surprised how easy branding is compared to the myths, and cutting is scary more from the thought than the doing IMHO.

Catalina

yea, i figured as much, and i know that before He does it He will do His homework so as not to harm me, and to do it right, but the thought is defiantly scary, yet holds alot of 'turn on' factor for me also, and knowing that i have His mark on me will make me proud and happy as well. we've done 'mock' scenes to get me in the mind frame but i know it will be nothing like that, i'm not naive enough to believe it will feel the way my mind makes it feel. for now, we stick to the scratching with the knife and maybe slight 'cutting' with it,as i don't think it's something to jump into on the second visit, though we've been together 3 years. i do appreciate your advice and insight and am glad you are willing to give it so openly, without judgment.

 

[catalina_francisco]

How did he gauge when it was ready?

was it temped, or just by sight?

Instinct and sight and I think the heat emanating from it which is probably not the best way but we had already had enough problem getting what else we needed. I could feel the heat approaching and for one short moment dared to ask if he might want to leave it to another day as he had offered earlier given I was sick, but by then he was far too into it to stop.

Catalina

 

[the captians wench]

Instinct and sight and I think the heat emanating from it which is probably not the best way but we had already had enough problem getting what else we needed. I could feel the heat approaching and for one short moment dared to ask if he might want to leave it to another day as he had offered earlier given I was sick, but by then he was far too into it to stop.

Catalina

*giggles*

This does interest me, but I think there are a few steps I want this relationship to take before I get too serious about a perminate mark.

 

[catalina_francisco]

yea, i figured as much, and i know that before He does it He will do His homework so as not to harm me, and to do it right, but the thought is defiantly scary, yet holds alot of 'turn on' factor for me also, and knowing that i have His mark on me will make me proud and happy as well. we've done 'mock' scenes to get me in the mind frame but i know it will be nothing like that, i'm not naive enough to believe it will feel the way my mind makes it feel. for now, we stick to the scratching with the knife and maybe slight 'cutting' with it,as i don't think it's something to jump into on the second visit, though we've been together 3 years. i do appreciate your advice and insight and am glad you are willing to give it so openly, without judgment.

I had a lot of problem with both these things as I have a thing about scarring...I have a huge surgical scar which has given me no end of problem psychologically and physically, so I had an aversion to creating scars. Surprisingly, though I was petrified with the first cutting (and still get the scaries at the thought of getting a cutting), we both found afterward we had enjoyed it on different levels and wanted to do more. I was concerned I wold run out of fresh skin for him to play with, but he has shown admireable restraint and ressted to cut me at every opportunity. We were going to do another this week but I got sick so he put that and the piercing my nipples with those dreaded needles off to another day.

Catalina

 

[lil_slave_rose]

I had a lot of problem with both these things as I have a thing about scarring...I have a huge surgical scar which has given me no end of problem psychologically and physically, so I had an aversion to creating scars. Surprisingly, though I was petrified with the first cutting (and still get the scaries at the thought of getting a cutting), we both found afterward we had enjoyed it on different levels and wanted to do more. I was concerned I wold run out of fresh skin for him to play with, but he has shown admireable restraint and ressted to cut me at every opportunity. We were going to do another this week but I got sick so he put that and the piercing my nipples with those dreaded needles off to another day.

Catalina

eek! Master wants my nipples peirced though He wants me to get it done by a professional but i've heard entirely too many bad things about it. they don't heal right, they get infected, etc...so for now i've been against it, and lucky for me, Master is willing to compromise for now..LOL..but i know eventually it will end up happening..as it's what He wants.....

 

[catalina_francisco]

eek! Master wants my nipples peirced though He wants me to get it done by a professional but i've heard entirely too many bad things about it. they don't heal right, they get infected, etc...so for now i've been against it, and lucky for me, Master is willing to compromise for now..LOL..but i know eventually it will end up happening..as it's what He wants.....

LOL, this is just play piercing, though he sees it as practice for the real thing later.

Catalina

 

[the captians wench]

What is it about nipple piercings! A certian Mr. wants mine done too. So far I've been resistant, it scares the crap out of me and that's not an easy thing to do. *giggles* I have one friend who had a really bad experience with her's and now all she feels is bad pain when they are touched. Another friend loves her's. Besides I know exactly why he particularly wants them done...so he can lead me around by them. And the friend who loves her's tells me they wouldn't be healed enough to do that for almost a year after they're done.

But I haven't looked into it too much, mainly cause he's content with me trying other things for him.

 

[BiBunny]

What is it about nipple piercings! A certian Mr. wants mine done too. So far I've been resistant, it scares the crap out of me and that's not an easy thing to do. *giggles* I have one friend who had a really bad experience with her's and now all she feels is bad pain when they are touched. Another friend loves her's. Besides I know exactly why he particularly wants them done...so he can lead me around by them. And the friend who loves her's tells me they wouldn't be healed enough to do that for almost a year after they're done.

But I haven't looked into it too much, mainly cause he's content with me trying other things for him.

Nipple piercings. Had both mine done twice. The first time, my body rejected both of them, and they worked their way out. The second time, one was rejected, and the other stayed in. My Master doesn't like piercings (Imagine that, I'm a needle slut, and I get the only perv in the world who doesn't like piercings, for God's sake!), so I took the other one out partly because he didn't like it and partly because it never really healed and was way too much of a pain in the ass. It would've likely been rejected, too.

They were by far my most pleasurable piercings. I orgasmed when the needle was pushed through one of them the second time. *Blush* The tongue piercing involved practically no pain whatsoever when it was done. It's gone now, too, because it drove me nuts. The hood piercing hurt like a bitch. The piercing in the perineal area was awful because the piercer could never get the clamps situated right and kept putting it on and moving it around. That was way worse than the actual needle. I no longer wear any of these piercings because Master doesn't like them and because keeping up with all of them became a big pain in the ass (as mentioned before). I daresay I could still get the hood and tongue rings through, though, if I tried.

Oh, and for what it's worth, none of the piercings enhanced my sexual pleasure at all. They just made things look cooler.