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What is MY Kind of KINKY?!?

https://www.vogue.com/article/can-a-good-man-mistreat-you-during-sex-lena-dunham
I feel this article on a deep level.
I have been single for 7 months, I'm not "dating" exactly... I'm working on me, my friendships and my family obligations. I still have a lot of work to do. Over a decade of being emotionally and physically held hostage in my own skin has me very cynical.
I'm friends with bi-swingers, queers of all types, poly folk, cam girls, a dominatrix or two, older littles, younger doms, some badass body builders who are really big softie subs in the bedroom, messy sluts and clean cut cuties who seem sexually unattainable... So many labels everwhere to describe ourselves and where we fall on the Kink-o-Meter...
How do you really know who someone is sexually without trial and error? Lots of errors and hopefully the self awarness to see those mistakes and the ones that don't match exactly. Like damn... I could use a friend w bennies atm but then again, do I really? Shouldn't re-claiming my sexuality feel fun? I should be getting out there, swiping right or left, meeting, teasing, and rediscovering all those glorious moments of getting to know someone. I guess I feel unworthy. It's the only way I can put it. I have so much work to be done on myself, so many ambitions and goals to accomplish... I don't know if I could handle rejection, it seems like a waste of time to try.... Right now. Maybe I'll feel differently in a few months? Fuck if I know....
 
https://www.vogue.com/article/can-a-good-man-mistreat-you-during-sex-lena-dunham
I feel this article on a deep level.
I have been single for 7 months, I'm not "dating" exactly... I'm working on me, my friendships and my family obligations. I still have a lot of work to do. Over a decade of being emotionally and physically held hostage in my own skin has me very cynical.
I'm friends with bi-swingers, queers of all types, poly folk, cam girls, a dominatrix or two, older littles, younger doms, some badass body builders who are really big softie subs in the bedroom, messy sluts and clean cut cuties who seem sexually unattainable... So many labels everwhere to describe ourselves and where we fall on the Kink-o-Meter...
How do you really know who someone is sexually without trial and error? Lots of errors and hopefully the self awarness to see those mistakes and the ones that don't match exactly. Like damn... I could use a friend w bennies atm but then again, do I really? Shouldn't re-claiming my sexuality feel fun? I should be getting out there, swiping right or left, meeting, teasing, and rediscovering all those glorious moments of getting to know someone. I guess I feel unworthy. It's the only way I can put it. I have so much work to be done on myself, so many ambitions and goals to accomplish... I don't know if I could handle rejection, it seems like a waste of time to try.... Right now. Maybe I'll feel differently in a few months? Fuck if I know....

Bravo, and well said :)

Now if you're looking for a FWB, I offer a 401k and dental ;)
 
At least it is getting warmer. The sun is finally out. Things will happen for you Squirt!! They will!!!:rose::heart:
 
At least it is getting warmer. The sun is finally out. Things will happen for you Squirt!! They will!!!:rose::heart:

Thank goodness! I have been coop-ed up for so long! To plant in my garden, lay in the hammock, oh... Forget sex.... Naps outside!! Yesssss, that gets me going! Hurry up Spring!
 
https://www.vogue.com/article/can-a-good-man-mistreat-you-during-sex-lena-dunham
I feel this article on a deep level.
I have been single for 7 months, I'm not "dating" exactly... I'm working on me, my friendships and my family obligations. I still have a lot of work to do. Over a decade of being emotionally and physically held hostage in my own skin has me very cynical.
I'm friends with bi-swingers, queers of all types, poly folk, cam girls, a dominatrix or two, older littles, younger doms, some badass body builders who are really big softie subs in the bedroom, messy sluts and clean cut cuties who seem sexually unattainable... So many labels everwhere to describe ourselves and where we fall on the Kink-o-Meter...
How do you really know who someone is sexually without trial and error? Lots of errors and hopefully the self awarness to see those mistakes and the ones that don't match exactly. Like damn... I could use a friend w bennies atm but then again, do I really? Shouldn't re-claiming my sexuality feel fun? I should be getting out there, swiping right or left, meeting, teasing, and rediscovering all those glorious moments of getting to know someone. I guess I feel unworthy. It's the only way I can put it. I have so much work to be done on myself, so many ambitions and goals to accomplish... I don't know if I could handle rejection, it seems like a waste of time to try.... Right now. Maybe I'll feel differently in a few months? Fuck if I know....

Find someone who has an open mind. Someone that you can communicate with about anything. A pleaser. Unselfish. Someone with a similar libido.

Don't settle.

That's why I was single for so long.. :)
 
Find someone who has an open mind. Someone that you can communicate with about anything. A pleaser. Unselfish. Someone with a similar libido.

Don't settle.

That's why I was single for so long.. :)

Yeah, settling is not a mistake I'll make again.
Right now I'm focusing on finding a new career, school, finding a new normal for everything... Within myself a lot has changed this year. Keep pushing forward!
 
Greeting the day...

I'm feeling selfish and needy this week. Thank goodness the weather is cooperating and I don't have to be so cooped up!
 

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