Butt plugs:

[misspihla]

I hope that this didnt change your mind and not want to try more of the butt plugs. Maybe you used to large of one for your first try. Did you buy the 2 plugs you posted? If so the second one (pink) looks more like your best try for your next play time? Or use a different toy to losen up the area then try again with the same plug.

Thats what I did last time. I used my meduim plug for a while which stretched my out some and when I went to use my larger one it went right in with NO problem and I was able to keep it in longer and hardly felt it. Even removing it was easier.

No it didn't change my mind. I get them to stretch myself and get used to more "heavier" anal play. And that's what I'm still going to do

I got both plugs. The second one is just slightly wider... so it maybe isn't better.

I just need to train, train and train... next time we meet my girl wants to see it inside me.

 

[Chicago69]

Well, I used the plug lastnight. It went pretty good.

I first took a shower. Then, I threw in one of my favorite videos. I then got the lube ready and a towel, etc...

I started off real slow, takign in the tip, then slowly pushing it in a little at a time. It is rather small. It's about as wide as a thumb maybe. But, after a little while I got the whole thing in. It didn't feel bad at all. I made sure I used plenty of lube and I guess that help. I kept it in for about 20 minutes.

I will say that when I came, it was very intense and felt really really good. So, i had a pretty good experience for the first time using it. I will try to use it again real soon. But, I am happy I finally got one. I plan to take things slow and get one a little bigger soon.

And sorry christian1971, but I didn't take any pics.

Well, till next time,
-Chicago69

 

[christian1971]

Question?

I notice that when I am using anyone of my plugs there is a build up of air and its not from having gas or anything. I notice that if I move my plug enough that the air is released but not all of the time or all of the air so some of the presure still feels as if its there. It is easier with the med then the large plug. I did see a plug that can prevent the air build up but after reading the reviews they where not good. Saying that the base wasnt large enough or didnt feel comfortible. If anyone else deals with this or knows of what to do please let me know.

 

[tiez]

I notice that when I am using anyone of my plugs there is a build up of air and its not from having gas or anything. I notice that if I move my plug enough that the air is released but not all of the time or all of the air so some of the presure still feels as if its there. It is easier with the med then the large plug. I did see a plug that can prevent the air build up but after reading the reviews they where not good. Saying that the base wasnt large enough or didnt feel comfortible. If anyone else deals with this or knows of what to do please let me know.

I can be flatulent with a plug in, but I'm generally too worried about the, umm, consistancy, of what might come out that I try to refrain from doing so. Of course, a hand helps to pull the plug to the side a little, allowing the air out, but I still worry.

Thus far, I've not been up to the point where I'm wearing them for any more than... well... two hours or so, so it's never been too much of a problem.

And lately, the back problems have proven to continue to be a problem with plugs, but not with other devices. *shrug* interesting.

 

[christian1971]

Since my Friend With Benefits and my Ex Girlfriend knows about my butt plug use both woman are fine with it. But do others share there sexual desires secret or do you tell. They both find it exciting and arousing in a sexual way with question and wanting to do and try things with me.

How many woman or men out there tell there lovers all or some of there secrets and if you do tell when do you tell them Days, Weeks or Months?

 

[Blackmaskmaster]

That's fiction, but funny to think about ...
when we travel toys are always into a suitcase.
There is many better and more exciting moments to wear it.

try
www.extremerestraints.com

Hope you like the way I do ...

beautiful pics!

 

[omniavincet]

This is a great thread. My favorite plug of all time was a wooden hair brush I had in high school. It sat next to my bed for three years and I used it every night. It hard really stiff bristles which were great for spanking myself raw before I shoved it in - sucks to spank yourself, but what can a teenage guy do? Looking back I realize that the shape of the handle was perfect - thin enough to slide in easily but slightly thicker in the middle so it filled me up, then a bit thinner again. Another bonus: I didn't have to hide anything from my parents.

Plugging away,

OV

 

[christian1971]

This is a great thread. My favorite plug of all time was a wooden hair brush I had in high school. It sat next to my bed for three years and I used it every night. It hard really stiff bristles which were great for spanking myself raw before I shoved it in - sucks to spank yourself, but what can a teenage guy do? Looking back I realize that the shape of the handle was perfect - thin enough to slide in easily but slightly thicker in the middle so it filled me up, then a bit thinner again. Another bonus: I didn't have to hide anything from my parents.

Plugging away,

OV

Not sure if you are serious but placing something that was not meant to be used as a sex toy especially in the anal area I wouldnt recommend it can do some serious internal damage. Even if your careful there are limits and even the best sex toys you need to use caution.
I would recommend using only SEX TOY's for any sexual fun and use.

 

[ecstaticsub]

I absolutely love anal play and buttplugs. I wear one once a week for at least 4 hrs. I don't always use a true plug though. If I have a lot of running around to do I insert a smaller toy on a string that I know will not accidently fall out. I have attached a picture of my new favorite. This one will stay in for long periods of time and it just the right size. Another great thing about it is that it won't fall out during vaginal sex or vaginal penetration with toys even when I am having an orgasm.

Another favorite is one I made myself. I had a hysterectomy and suffered some severe pelvic tightening afterwards. I went to a Pelvic Physical Therapist for biofeedback sessions to retrain my pelvic muscles to relax. I got to keep the vaginal probe after I was finished. A few years later after being collared and encouraged to get more into anal play I was looking at tails. I didn't like the pony tails or fox, bunny or other tails I saw for sale so I made my own using my old vaginal biofeedback probe. I just added fur to make a kitten tail. I just love it and so does my Dom.


I do have a question though....and I apologize for sounding disgusting. But I figure this is the only place I could ask this. Even with expensive silicone buttplugs sometimes after a long time inside of me they get rather stinky. I have tried covering them with a condom or finger cot (depending on size) but it doesn't seem to help and I am concerned with latex allergies to keep latex inside me for that long. I clean my toys sometimes in the dishwasher, sometime in a weak bleach solution and sometimes just soaking in very hot soapy water. The only thing that seems to really help is to wrap it in a dryer sheet after it has been cleaned and disinfected. Anyone have any other ideas?

Thankns. Great thread!

 

[christian1971]

I do have a question though....and I apologize for sounding disgusting. But I figure this is the only place I could ask this. Even with expensive silicone buttplugs sometimes after a long time inside of me they get rather stinky. I have tried covering them with a condom or finger cot (depending on size) but it doesn't seem to help and I am concerned with latex allergies to keep latex inside me for that long. I clean my toys sometimes in the dishwasher, sometime in a weak bleach solution and sometimes just soaking in very hot soapy water. The only thing that seems to really help is to wrap it in a dryer sheet after it has been cleaned and disinfected. Anyone have any other ideas?

Thankns. Great thread![/QUOTE]

I just use warm water and soap and that seems to do the trick at least with mine? I know that there are a few sex toy cleaners but I've been told that those are just a waste of money. Ive seen and heard of people using the dishwasher (REALSEX) on HBO that at least you know its clean and some what sterilized not sure what it will do with the smell? Besides wouldnt want to be adding any other things mite be harmful?

Thanks for the photo please continue to add some new ones.

 

[ecstaticsub]

I always throw my silicone toys through a dishwasher cycle at least once a month to make sure they are really clean. I do however make sure I lock the doors to my house and keep the keys next to the dishwasher to remind myself to empty it before unlocking the doors when the kids come home from school (especially since emptying the dishwasher is one of their chores. )

I also spent too much money for one of the crystal in metal buttplugs. I bought the small sized one. It was quite beautiful but very slippery when lubed. I dropped it on my tile bathroom floor and the crystal shattered.

I'll see if I can find an acceptable picture of the buttplug tail that I made and post it later.

 

[christian1971]

I've been looking into getting something new just havent seen anything thats interests me so far?
I have (2 buttplugs meduim and large, 2 dildos, 1 prostate massager, 1 don wand) You also add handcuff, Whip, cockring.

 

[helpingout]

We use them all the time

Hello, my wife and myself use plugs all the time, expecialy at the end of the day once were home , we have been doing this so long now that we don`t have to use lube at all. I as a man enjoy the felling, and wear one every time we go out to dinner, or just out to shop. My wife inserts one several day`s out of the week to enjoy during work. So I`m writing to say once you get at ease with them, I don`t think even size will matter, cause the felling is all in the experence. The one I enjoy the most myself is 1 3/4 wide and it`s all of 6 inchs long. My wife goes for a smaller one that is 1 inch around and 6 inchs long, thats not to say that she can`t handle bigger, for we have great sex with the real thing insde her!!!!!!!!!

 

[Chicago69]

I've been looking into getting something new just havent seen anything thats interests me so far?
I have (2 buttplugs meduim and large, 2 dildos, 1 prostate massager, 1 don wand) You also add handcuff, Whip, cockring.

What about Anal Beads?

 

[christian1971]

Still going to talk about butt plugs but while on the subject of anal beads what one's do you prefer?

I was able to go to the TOY store (adult shop) expressions. And Get some anal beads, they had a few different styles. The ones made with nylon string which over time and use didnt seem to be the best choice, one made of a more flexible rubber. Then there where a few with weights in them and vibrators, and all in different shapes and sizes.

 

[ecstaticsub]

The ones I have and prefer using are 8 inches long with four bumps. Each bump is separated by about 1 each of silicone that is pretty thick. The first bump is 3/4 in diameter and then they get bigger as it goes down the shaft. The last one is about 1 1/4 inch diameter. It is all silicone and cleans well and feels great.

I do have one that is 2 weighted metal balls attached by a rubber thread with a spring that hangs out with a large metal ring on it. That just feels good to walk around the mall with.

 

[amielu]

I have one that is clear glass and similar to one described above- stacked nodes increasing in size- love it (would hate to drop it! eek!). Have never had a problem with cleaning that one, any other material I use a condom for butt play. Those jellys and a lot of plastics are really pourous and a GROSS breeding ground for bacteria. I've decided to buy silicone from now on, seems to hold up the best in the long term. Look for silicone sleeves that fit over a metal or plastic vibrator.

 

[christian1971]

What do you use???

I know I've asked before and there must be a thread or 2 someplace in here. But when the time is right and you or your lover want to play anal or use a toy what do you do to be sure your clean?

Do you do an enema, laxative, warm shower, try to do use the bathroom and hope to be clean or something else?

 

[omniavincet]

Still going to talk about butt plugs but while on the subject of anal beads what one's do you prefer?

Excellent question - I've never tried beads - how does the feel differ from a plug?

OV

 

[christian1971]

To tell the truth I prefer the plugs more to the beads, unless the ones I have are too small or to plain. There a good starter or teaster toy but when I tried mine I only felt them when they started entering but once all beads where in I really didnt feel them. Also since it's impossible to keep them in without holding on to the end peace there no other way to enjoy of feel them.

I am thinking of the next time when I go to the TOY store of getting a vibrating or one that you can inflat butt plug? Since I dont go out of the house with mine in they mite be fun to try next.

Post photos of you or someone your with using a butt plug any kind of plug or beads, share your first time tring one or maybe a embarrassing story of yourself with a butt plug in while you was out in public or just walking around the house or just having sex with one?

 

[christian1971]

Youporn Video

This is one HOT looking Ass and a really sexy video

http://www.youporn.com/watch/25381

 

[Chicago69]

I have tried both kinds of anal beads. The ones on the string:

and the ones that are a solid peice,

like these:

The ones on the string are better used with a partner, but you could still use them alone. But, it is much better when you have someone to put them in and pull them put for you.

The solid ones are better for when you are using them alone, but, honestly, the ones on a string are more intense and make for a better orgasm. I haven't used either in a long time, but I remember the 1st time I used the ones on a string, they were very intense. Also, I was alone my 1st time using them.

I would say try the ones on the string first, but then again, the solid ones probably wont feel as good once you go with the string.

Either way, they work much better with a partner, but still are a lot of fun alone. I guess maybe the solid ones are kinda small to me now. If you are already into anal play and use to using buttplugs and bigger toys, I would say try some bigger anal beads, especially if you go with the solid peice.

Also, anal beads are mostly used by pulling them out as you orgasm. They can be used at anytime ofcourse, but if you time it just right, they are really intense if they are being pulled out just as you are cumming.

And remember, lots of lube.

Here are the string anal beads in action:

Now I am tempted to use some beads tonight. LOL

 

[christian1971]

Others want to know?

If thats you chicago69 VERY LOVELY.

From the poll more men seem to use a butt plug then woman. But who enjoys it more Men or Women. And in what way does each enoy it, during sex, walking around, masterbaiting, or is it just a turn on that its in. When your walking around outside is it like a turn on that you know there a butt plug or if your with someone that knows or that someone mite know?

 

[wouldloveto]

Beads were the first foray into anal play for me. My ex would insert the string type, use her singular oral talents on my member and pull and jerk out the beads in perfect sequence so as to produce a very intense and voluminous climax.

I have since experienced many types and love most. To be made to function normally in social situations with ben wa type balls embedded is a favorite. The stealthy release in public culminating the experience.

 

[christian1971]

First time using it out.

Well over the weekend was the first time I had my butt plug in while I went out of the house. So far I've only wore them in the house and walking around the house just never felt comfortible wearing outside. Until the weekend, and only for a real short run to the store and back. I had my large in since I know its a little harder for it to accidentally slip out then the meduim one. So I drove to the store, and let me tell you that is also a different feeling, but while around the store knowing and feeling the plug was in I needed to stay focused. Having a slight hard-on and a butt plug didnt help but I was able to get what I needed and drive home then the SEX after with G/F was really HOT.

I dont think I will be doing that much maybe for quick runs or something, actually this was a dare by g/f and the reward only made it better. I'd rather just use them at home and walk around the house then outside.