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ElusivButterfly said:
Nope it is all about choices...LOL...And I decide what to do with mine :p :D


Far be it from me to second guess your choices dear. :rose:
 
ElusivButterfly said:
I will be looking forward to seeing whatever you post. I bet ya'll had a great time!

I took pics on the highway as we were driving back from MD...You would have laughed at me...I kept sticking my head out of the window so I could ask if it was ok to take pics...I had a great time...I have some pics to post on your thread...Hope you enjoy them. :D
Beautiful Pictured M.. looks like you had a great time. Glad your back. We'll talk soon :kiss:
 
Warning:

Rant time for Michele


I hate to have to say this, but I had Shaun (my son) arrested tonight (morning) again. He went to Bennigans, got wasted, called me around 3am (woke me up) to come get him. I said no. I told him I can't leave Phil and I was not going to get him up out of bed. He took a cab home. As soon as he got home, he came straight to my room. He wanted to talk, but he was so drunk all he was doing was yelling. I told him we would talk tomorrow (today) after he sobered up. He got mad. He got all in my face, tried to get me to be physical, even chest butted me, in the kitchen. I left the kitchen, went to my room and locked the door. He punched a hole in the door and tried to break into my room with a fork. All he managed to do was to bend the fork up. He called me everything but my name.

I told him to leave me alone. I didn't want a physical confrontation with him, nor a verbal one. He would not let up. He got on the phone, called my sister (or at least he said he was talking with her), he called the police (to warn them that I may call them, or at least he said he was on the phone with them), called Steve and said, heaven only knows what, on his answering machine. I was on the phone with Steve (and he was getting calls from Shaun as we were talking) and he told me to call the police. Shaun was getting worse as the minutes passed by. He was like a raving lunatic.

I told Shaun if he didn't stop I was going to call. He threatened me. He told me that he was going to come after me if I called them. Well I did call them. When the police got here, Shaun took off (but they got him just up the road). They found a bag of pot Shaun had dropped on the floor next to my brother's bedroom door, and when they asked me if I had his SSN, I looked in a drawer to see if he had a paystub in there so I could get the SSN...Well in the drawer was a pot pipe. I did not know it was there.

The police said to me "You havn't been drinking (but they were trying to smell it on me, but couldn't cause all I have had all day and night was coffee and ice water), but Shaun says you are drunk and that is the problem". He was making no sense what-so-ever. The police were trying to talk to him and he was just going off about me and my life and all kinds of things...things that have nothing to do with drinking or tonight. The officer came back a third time to have me tell Shaun he is not permitted back (only to get his belongings) and to take pictures of the door and the pipe in the drawer, which they took, along with the pot they found on the floor..I had to write a statement and I have to go to court on Shaun as a witness for the police, stating that the pot is not mine nor Phil's and neither is the pipe, and where they found it.


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He got a bottle of wiskey at the resort we stayed at and Shaun got wasted and went off on me and Steve on the way home from the wedding. We had no idea he was drinking. We only saw him with a soda. Steve has tried to talk with him, I have tried to talk with him, we have even been in contact with intervention people on his behalf. Shaun would have nothing to do with any of it. This is all killing me. Shaun needs help. I don't know what else to do, other than what I did.

Just when I thought my life had finally calmed down........
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I am sorry Hon... My prayers and thoughts are with you. I'll call you later this morning when I get my stuff in order. :kiss:
 
great pics

ElusivButterfly said:
OK...This thread is to see what will be allowed or not....I will try to post pics which (by definition as posted) should be allowed...Let's see what happens :confused:

Index of Pics posted between pages 1 - 70:

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First Submission - Art Contest 2/19/06
1st try original of work

I will update the index as time allows

i really liked your pics.
you model so well for the camera.
keep it up.
little more erotic would be nice
 
It's so hard to do something you know will hurt a loved one, but You did the right thing he needs help. Most importantly you need tp look out for yourself and phil. That is your prime directive. I don;t know what else I can do to help you but I believe you have my Email. There will be peace again, just keep doing what is best for you and Phil...
 
suzukibandit said:
i really liked your pics.
you model so well for the camera.
keep it up.
little more erotic would be nice


I am happy you enjoyed the pics....

Now for a question: "little more erotic"? As in quantity or quality?
 
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jase_conner said:
It's so hard to do something you know will hurt a loved one, but You did the right thing he needs help. Most importantly you need tp look out for yourself and phil. That is your prime directive. I don;t know what else I can do to help you but I believe you have my Email. There will be peace again, just keep doing what is best for you and Phil...


Your right Jase....Phil is #1...He woke up with all of Shaun's yelling, and was very upset. I am already having medical issues with him and I do not want them worsened by getting all upset. I tried to tell Shaun to calm down, but it didn't work. He just got worse. I can't have that around Phil and I do not want to be around it. AND.......If the apartments find out about the police finding pot here, I could lose my apartment. I just hope they do not find out about it.
 
ElusivButterfly said:
I am happy you emjoyed the pics....

Now for a question: "little more erotic"? As in quantity or quality?


Enjoy them still :) and anything else you post I am sure to look at :)
 
ElusivButterfly said:
Your right Jase....Phil is #1...He woke up with all of Shaun's yelling, and was very upset. I am already having medical issues with him and I do not want them worsened by getting all upset. I tried to tell Shaun to calm down, but it didn't work. He just got worse. I can't have that around Phil and I do not want to be around it. AND.......If the apartments find out about the police finding pot here, I could lose my apartment. I just hope they do not find out about it.

I'm sure you will be OK as long as you stay strong and not allow him to talk you into taking him back in. It seems impossibly hard to turn away family, but you must if not for your sake then for Phil.

I wish you a happier day today Lu'.
 
jase_conner said:
I'm sure you will be OK as long as you stay strong and not allow him to talk you into taking him back in. It seems impossibly hard to turn away family, but you must if not for your sake then for Phil.

I wish you a happier day today Lu'.


Thanks Hon....I am hoping that as well. It is hard. I love my son, but I cannot take abuse from him. I actually got scared last night. It is a sad day when a mother is afraid of her own son. Breaks my heart.
 
ElusivButterfly said:
Thanks Hon....I am hoping that as well. It is hard. I love my son, but I cannot take abuse from him. I actually got scared last night. It is a sad day when a mother is afraid of her own son. Breaks my heart.

I can't imagine that sorrow, but perhaps he can get better. Alchohol can be evil to some. It may be had to see now but you really are doing the right thing.

:rose:
 
ElusivButterfly said:
Thanks Hon....I am hoping that as well. It is hard. I love my son, but I cannot take abuse from him. I actually got scared last night. It is a sad day when a mother is afraid of her own son. Breaks my heart.


I am really sorry to hear that... Unfortunately there is only so much a parent can do, but alot of times they don't see what you have done only what they think you haven't done..........

take care butterfly...
 
ElusivButterfly said:
Thanks Hon....I am hoping that as well. It is hard. I love my son, but I cannot take abuse from him. I actually got scared last night. It is a sad day when a mother is afraid of her own son. Breaks my heart.
M, I'm sorry to hear about about this. You have to look out for Phil and your safety first. And Shaun is an adult. I know it's a tough decision, but if you were scared of a physical attack from your son, it is time for you to throw him out into the real world and let him sink or swim. You need to take care of yourself and Phil. You don't need the stress and fear, not only of an attack from your son, but the fear of eviction due to the drug issue.

We love you and only hope for the best. If you ever want to call, we are here. J and J :heart: :heart:
 
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