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[ElusivButterfly]

You "survive" better than most of us live.

BTW, I keep thinking I see you when I'm in your hometown, lol. Lije fleeting glances, its funny really. Last time was at the Reverse parade during Easter.

Well heck Jase...Why didn't you let me know you were coming to my area? I could have driven to wherever you were to see you

As for the other comment....I have no idea how to respond...All I can say is I am me (whatever that means)...I don't know how else to be...lol

 

[jase_conner]

Thanks Dave...it has been a ride...just not one I really wanted

I am glad you like the pics...I plan on adding more as time goes on...I hope others will share as well

Great thing is, people can also talk/chat from there...I love options LOL

I still hav'nt receive that invite, grrrr.

 

[jase_conner]

Well heck Jase...Why didn't you let me know you were coming to my area? I could have driven to wherever you were to see you

As for the other comment....I have no idea how to respond...All I can say is I am me (whatever that means)...I don't know how else to be...lol

I'm only about an hour away next time I'm planing to Go I'll let you know. I'm sure you know better lunch places than I. I'm rather hooked on that dang "Chipotle's" A chain I know but oh so good.

 

[ElusivButterfly]

Michele.....it's hard, hon...really, really hard...but you know what you need to do for yourself and Phil...

You gave Shaun the tools he needs to get by in this world. You gave him education, love and caring...You showed him right from wrong, good from bad...you cannot make him use these skills...you can only hope that he will come to some understanding that the direction he's taken perhaps is really not the best way to go! It does not get easier for you when he's out there alone...you'll worry...but you have plenty to deal with taking care of YOU and Phil...and then there's Steve...You deserve a life, Michele...Your choices were yours to make....it's time that Shaun makes his choices and lives by them....I'm here if you need me!

Thanks Copper...I know, I know...My brain keeps telling me I had him, I raised him right and what he decides to do with his life is his choice...

On the other hand, I have tried to help him every way I could...Thousands of $, taking him in, moving him twice, etc. I want to use that "magic" all mothers have, but it no longer works...I have to let him fend for himself now...Hard but I guess I didn't do him any good by "helping" as I did.

Thanks for being there

 

[ElusivButterfly]

Just stopping in to send a little love your way.

Thanks J & J I could always use a lil

hugsssss

 

[ElusivButterfly]

Just dropped in to check ya out and drool a lil.

Hope you are well.


jimbo

*smiling* All is well Hun...thanks

 

[ElusivButterfly]

It's a love post!!!!

We hope all is going better!

Hehehe I love love posts!

Things are going well...I have not heard anything from my son since he came to get some things on Friday...He has tomorrow off, so I may hear from him then...Time will tell

 

[ElusivButterfly]

*smiling* Thanks G...hugssssssss

Paul Butterfield Band

Love March
<1969>

Marching along
Thinking as time goes by
Sing a glad song
Sing all the time
While I make all the people
Feels so good
Treat all my brothers like I should
See all the houses all in place
Living's no longer an empty space

Marching along
Love as much as I can
Try and be strong
[List string the shoes I had]???
Good for the time that's not too far
Good while no jealousy and war
Aim my sad eyes into the sun
Think of all people just as one
March!



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[ElusivButterfly]

you look great!

Thank you...Hope you come back to visit again!

 

[ElusivButterfly]

a little thought and a for you M

Hugsssss D...and thank you...It was great talking with you again

 

[ElusivButterfly]

I still hav'nt receive that invite, grrrr.

That is strange...many others got theirs right away...Let me try again?

 

[ElusivButterfly]

I'm only about an hour away next time I'm planing to Go I'll let you know. I'm sure you know better lunch places than I. I'm rather hooked on that dang "Chipotle's" A chain I know but oh so good.

Yes I do...and oh my their food is soooooo good! But there are many lil places here for some good food, with decent pricing. The city has so many ecletic places....great atmosphere and wonderful food

 

[ElusivButterfly]

Jase,


Sent it to gmail this time...perhaps you will get it now?

 

[blackieone]

dear EB:

for you:
and 24x

don't know if can say that,but my compliments for the strenght you have in dealing with such a stressful situation.Maybe-can't speak for sure-this is the right way to deal with him.Many have used this method and it was the most succesful.Tough love works.

Of course,i wish everything will settle and i admire you for your courage

 

[ElusivButterfly]

dear EB:

for you:
and 24x

don't know if can say that,but my compliments for the strenght you have in dealing with such a stressful situation.Maybe-can't speak for sure-this is the right way to deal with him.Many have used this method and it was the most succesful.Tough love works.

Of course,i wish everything will settle and i admire you for your courage

Awwww Hugssss Blackie and thank you for being there for me...
Means more than you know

Hugsss and Butterfly 's

 

[ElusivButterfly]

Oh btw..I sent you yahoo mail!

dear EB:

for you:
and 24x

don't know if can say that,but my compliments for the strenght you have in dealing with such a stressful situation.Maybe-can't speak for sure-this is the right way to deal with him.Many have used this method and it was the most succesful.Tough love works.

Of course,i wish everything will settle and i admire you for your courage

 

[blackieone]

yes,thank you ...............and please take care of yourself

about being there for you............don't mention it

can't do otherwise

 

[jase_conner]

Yes I do...and oh my their food is soooooo good! But there are many lil places here for some good food, with decent pricing. The city has so many ecletic places....great atmosphere and wonderful food

We'll have to get ourselves together sometime soon then.

Yes I got your invite on my Gmail thanks. I sent you a Email in response as well.

Gotta go, Duty calls. Have a great afternoon M'.

 

[ElusivButterfly]

yes,thank you ...............and please take care of yourself

about being there for you............don't mention it

can't do otherwise

Hugs Hun

 

[ElusivButterfly]

We'll have to get ourselves together sometime soon then.

Yes I got your invite on my Gmail thanks. I sent you a Email in response as well.

Gotta go, Duty calls. Have a great afternoon M'.

Have a great day Hun...I have to go too...Phil has a Drs appt.....hope to be back after I get home....Hugsssssssss

 

[puno]

Runs in gives a big H U G & ... Just because...

 

[supahspaz]

Hugsssss D...and thank you...It was great talking with you again

as always dear Have a great day.

 

[dave_L2LP]

Morning Beautiful I hope you have a nice Wednesday, Michelle

Woow...you are so sexy in those pics

 

[intruderrider3]

Happy HUMP day sweetie have a good one

 

[joej]

Thank you both. He showed up after he got out of jail. He was told by the police not to come here without calling first, but he didn't remember, as he was told that while he was wasted He cussed me out more, got a few things and left, telling me to leave him be forever.

He then called me this past Friday, asking if he could come get some of his things. I agreed, as long as he wasn't going to cuss me anymore and not start anything with me (Steve was here). Steve helped him find a place to stay, temporarily, and had a talk with him. He told Shaun that no matter what Shaun says, no matter what happened the other night, the result is the same....He has a major problem and he needs help. I do not know if he will do anything about it, but Steve told me that Shaun bowed his head and nodded when he told him that he was warned several times that if he continued as he was, that he was going to get worse and he was going to put me in a postion to kick him out on the street....And that is exactly what had happened. He said Shaun looked upset about it.

All I can say is that I still stand by my statement. He either cleans himself up, gets help or he will have to continue as he is without his mother in his life.

I suppose time will tell what will happen. I will not bring him back into my home though, no matter what happens.

Tough love is hard, but sometimes that is the only thing you can do.
Stay strong.