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just wondering how you are today 
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So maybe I'm overreacting. I do post my pictures here after all. But you know, fuck it.
I don't want to be entered in any rating contests without my consent. Please don't do that to me. I've done it occasionally, for fun, when I knew that the comments wouldn't hurt me - especially when I didn't feel like people were talking "behind my back". To my face is okay. But damn it, being talked about and only discovering it later is not cool.
Being criticized for what I am self-conscious about already, without my knowledge, is not what I signed up for here. The scars on my hands for example, are the reason why I barely ever show them. I hate them and I wish they were gone, yes. Negative comments aren't exactly helping with that. Obviously. I'll have to think very very hard before I'll ever post a part of my body that I'm not completely comfortable with again.
Yes, I'm hurt. And I probably asked for this in some form or another, but that doesn't change the fact. And I am probably going to take most of my pictures down if I still feel the same way once I've calmed down.
I don't want to be entered in any rating contests without my consent. Please don't do that to me. I've done it occasionally, for fun, when I knew that the comments wouldn't hurt me - especially when I didn't feel like people were talking "behind my back". To my face is okay. But damn it, being talked about and only discovering it later is not cool.
Being criticized for what I am self-conscious about already, without my knowledge, is not what I signed up for here. The scars on my hands for example, are the reason why I barely ever show them. I hate them and I wish they were gone, yes. Negative comments aren't exactly helping with that. Obviously. I'll have to think very very hard before I'll ever post a part of my body that I'm not completely comfortable with again.
Yes, I'm hurt. And I probably asked for this in some form or another, but that doesn't change the fact. And I am probably going to take most of my pictures down if I still feel the same way once I've calmed down.
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not sure exactly sure what you are talking about but ever since I first saw you I was completely entranced by your class and georgous body, you are an beautiful in so many ways
Jen.fieryjen said:
I'm puzzled to where this anger has arisen.
I've followed this thread ever since i've been a member, and as far as i can remember, there has'nt been a single post that did not contain, nothing but the utmost respect & high praise.
I'm shocked & taken aback, that you are feeling this way. Hopefully, your pain & anger will fade away & you will continue to be a valued member of Lit.
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Holy crap! for all of us upstanding citizens of lit world i am sorry. you didnt ask for that in any way and i would not blame you for taking down your pics. what you have shared with the thead must have taken so much of yourself, i applaud your courage to do so. thank you for you. you are an amazing person and deserve to be treated like a queen. to any jerk who made negative comments toward you f'em. you are way stronger than any words those hate mongers can throw at you.
sending a great big cyber hug to you.
So sorry to hear of it!
We can all only guess what some idiot has done with your pics. And without your consent! That's just crap. Certainly not in the spirit of this forum, and just downright disrespectful.
I hope that you can accept that although there are so many crazies out there, likewise there are many of us who just admire your beauty for what it is, and are grateful that you've had the courage to share it with us.
Please accept our support! I know that I can speak on behalf of the many of us here who have a sense of decency, grace and respect.
All our love!!!
We can all only guess what some idiot has done with your pics. And without your consent! That's just crap. Certainly not in the spirit of this forum, and just downright disrespectful.
I hope that you can accept that although there are so many crazies out there, likewise there are many of us who just admire your beauty for what it is, and are grateful that you've had the courage to share it with us.
Please accept our support! I know that I can speak on behalf of the many of us here who have a sense of decency, grace and respect.
All our love!!!
fieryjen said:
Whoa Chere,
Take a breath...take a few of them....I don't know where you are seeing the negative comments, but I suggest you stay away from those very dark places filled with very dark people...stay here.....here, is safe.....here, is good....here is warm.....here is nice...yes nice....we think you are great....we also think that there is no reason for you to be self concious over anything...most, if not all of us, have been through our own share(s) of shit during our lives...your pictures are incredible and show a part of you that only can be seen in the that medium...hang with us and all will be well....
Cheers,
KM
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I get the impression that someone has taken your pictures and put them up on another site which a person has informed you of? That is my best guess on all this. I had intended to post to mention how much I do enjoy your pictures as I have done so before and to give credit to your writings as I once did as well but I'm curious to hear what has happened here.
Was something done on another board or this one that we are not aware of? Sadly I know some things as such do happen, if you can contact whoever runs a board you can request them to remove the pictures if they are up.
Granted that is the only advice I can give without knowing the proper situation.
Was something done on another board or this one that we are not aware of? Sadly I know some things as such do happen, if you can contact whoever runs a board you can request them to remove the pictures if they are up.
Granted that is the only advice I can give without knowing the proper situation.
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fieryjen said:
That really sucks..... I'm really sorry to hear that... A great big hug for you
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Good morning lovely Lady Jen,
sorry to read about the trouble and uproar caused by some idiot(s) around here. I hope you contacted the admins about this incident and that they sort things out.
Anyway back to the more enjoyable parts of life. I didn't post a lot recently, but that didn't mean, I don't like your last pix. They are great and wunderbar (hehehe, had to use some German and this one should be understood by everyone). Especially after this series, stay who you are, sweet Lady and don't let anybody influence you.
Apart from me and S. maybe.
And now for something completely different: Just to let you know (and torture you a tiny little bit) today is the official premiere of "Ein Sommermärchen". There has, of course, been a pre-screening with lots of VIPs, the national team and some ordinary people as well and all I've heard so far: It's great! So try to get hold of it as soon as possible. Very little football/soccer scenes in it, but lots of backstage, locker room, some shower scenes even ... certainly nowhere close to your shower scenes!
Anyway got to get going again, not a lot of time recently, but I'll be back - to quote another movie (well acutally a number of them). By the way, did you notice the first quote?
Take care and see you soon lovely Lady
sorry to read about the trouble and uproar caused by some idiot(s) around here. I hope you contacted the admins about this incident and that they sort things out.
So you see, anywhere you'll go there will always be a bunch of idiots around BUT also a lot of nice people - stay with them, stay with us and forget about the others, after you kicked their asses. Mind you one of the disadvantages of the internet cerainly is, that virtual butt kicking just isn't as satisfying as the real thing.fieryjen said:
And thus it is a "big deal". After all we're here for fun and enjoyment and if somebody interferes with that they take away the only reason to be here. And if that's not a big deal, I don't know what else should be.
Anyway back to the more enjoyable parts of life. I didn't post a lot recently, but that didn't mean, I don't like your last pix. They are great and wunderbar (hehehe, had to use some German and this one should be understood by everyone). Especially after this series, stay who you are, sweet Lady and don't let anybody influence you.
Apart from me and S. maybe.
And now for something completely different: Just to let you know (and torture you a tiny little bit) today is the official premiere of "Ein Sommermärchen". There has, of course, been a pre-screening with lots of VIPs, the national team and some ordinary people as well and all I've heard so far: It's great! So try to get hold of it as soon as possible. Very little football/soccer scenes in it, but lots of backstage, locker room, some shower scenes even ... certainly nowhere close to your shower scenes!
Anyway got to get going again, not a lot of time recently, but I'll be back - to quote another movie (well acutally a number of them). By the way, did you notice the first quote?
Take care and see you soon lovely Lady
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I am so so sorry.
When the idea of beautiful women came up, I thought of jen and her breathtaking pictures. It never occured to me anyone could say anything bad about her in any way. I should of know better.
I am so sorry Jen, I deeply regret doing so even with the best of intentions.
When the idea of beautiful women came up, I thought of jen and her breathtaking pictures. It never occured to me anyone could say anything bad about her in any way. I should of know better.
I am so sorry Jen, I deeply regret doing so even with the best of intentions.
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S. took good care of me tonight and this morning - chinese takeout, flowers and cuddling, to begin with. He knows how to cheer me up so well.
I know I shouldn't care what others say, but I can't help doing it anyway. It's easy to say, but kind of hard to do.
I know I shouldn't care what others say, but I can't help doing it anyway. It's easy to say, but kind of hard to do.
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Thanks for your post.JEDIRASTA said:Jen.
I'm puzzled to where this anger has arisen.
I've followed this thread ever since i've been a member, and as far as i can remember, there has'nt been a single post that did not contain, nothing but the utmost respect & high praise.
I'm shocked & taken aback, that you are feeling this way. Hopefully, your pain & anger will fade away & you will continue to be a valued member of Lit.
As mentioned, the incident did not occur on this thread.
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Thank you.mattdchef said:Holy crap! for all of us upstanding citizens of lit world i am sorry. you didnt ask for that in any way and i would not blame you for taking down your pics. what you have shared with the thead must have taken so much of yourself, i applaud your courage to do so. thank you for you. you are an amazing person and deserve to be treated like a queen. to any jerk who made negative comments toward you f'em. you are way stronger than any words those hate mongers can throw at you.
sending a great big cyber hug to you.
