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Different strokes

enjoyingitall said:
Yep..I was just wondering if you had some different meaning to it than ones I'd seen before.


This begs the question though, why do many men think that women come harder from being fucked with a cock than other ways?

I really am asking a serious, (well as serious as you can be on lit) question here.

I'll add my two cents to the discussion of what makes women come harder. From my, going on about 30 years of experiences with approx. 50 different women, I'd have to say that nothing works equally well with any of them. Everyone is built a little different mentally and physically, some have told me their orgasms are more intense with direct stimulation of clitoris, some from oral, others from deep penetration and many from a combination of all the above plus stroking breasts, necks, ears, dirty talk, long foreplay, no foreplay, double penetration, etc... I would assume men are the same way but since I have only my experience to go on from that end I'm only guessing.

As long as everybody feels good who needs a formula. That's the nice thing, or boring thing, about a ltr is that you get to know what they want and how to give them the most pleasure. The trick is to keep changing a little to keep it interesting.
 
GLBDLT said:
OUCH if you think a cortizone shot hurt like hell in the shoulder, try one in the elbow. Now that HURTS, brought fucking tears. Had shot in shoulder then year later elbow, TEN times worse, buttttttt ahhhhhh he relief AFTER :) :) :)

LMAO..I know the feeling mate..I once had one in the knee..at the SIDE of the rugby pitch...then sent back on to play. We were in the Cup Final...and I was the scrum-half (like your quarter backs..and therefore needed lol...THAT hurt!
 
enjoyingitall said:
Hiya Ukin....so good to see you!
Been missing you, hon.

Hi sweetie..I've missed your tits...shit....meant you too ;)

It's nice to be back....but your front is nicer...
 
Ukin said:
Not looked back through all the posts since my absence...but this caught my eye....or was it Ej's tits? Whatever...However..I have found out that they, well the ones I have known lol....cum harder with the tongue...only when they want the final one...do they want to be fucked...

just my 0.02c worth

Again, another interesting comment on this subject.
 
Re: Different strokes

DrHike said:
I'll add my two cents to the discussion of what makes women come harder. From my, going on about 30 years of experiences with approx. 50 different women, I'd have to say that nothing works equally well with any of them. Everyone is built a little different mentally and physically, some have told me their orgasms are more intense with direct stimulation of clitoris, some from oral, others from deep penetration and many from a combination of all the above plus stroking breasts, necks, ears, dirty talk, long foreplay, no foreplay, double penetration, etc... I would assume men are the same way but since I have only my experience to go on from that end I'm only guessing.

As long as everybody feels good who needs a formula. That's the nice thing, or boring thing, about a ltr is that you get to know what they want and how to give them the most pleasure. The trick is to keep changing a little to keep it interesting.

I'm almost at a loss for words here. DrH and I finally agree on something.
 
enjoyingitall said:
LOL ..yeah yeah....I know just what you mean. :)

It was meant as a compliment ;)

You do have very nice breasts....can I help you hold them? Maybe holding them by the nipples?
 
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enjoyingitall said:
I'm almost at a loss for words here. DrH and I finally agree on something.

The only thing we've disagreed on is how to pick a winner in the Super Bowl (and the appropriateness of public nudity).
 
Ukin said:
It was meant as a compliment ;)

You do have very nice breasts....can I help you hold them? Maybe holding them by the nipples?

I always take the things you say as compliments, sweetie.
 
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DrHike said:
The only thing we've disagreed on is how to pick a winner in the Super Bowl (and the appropriateness of public nudity).

that's two you've named ......and then there was the way you don't care for southern cali, because the weather sucks when you visit and I think it's paradise on earth...and then there was...hmmmmm I'm sure there was more. I dunno just seems like I kinda rub you the wrong way lots of the time. Just a feeling I get.
 
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enjoyingitall said:
that's two you've named ......and then there was the way you don't care for southern cali, because the weather sucks when you visit and I think it's paradise on earth...and then there was...hmmmmm I'm sure there was more. I dunno just seems like I kinda rub you the wrong way lots of the time. Just a feeling I get.

If you were to actually let me rub you we'd probably get along famously although you're probably more conservative than I am, maybe. I'm actually a big City of San Diego promoter, just seems like the weather doesn't like me when I'm there.
 
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DrHike said:
If you were to actually let me rub you we'd probably get along famously although you're probably more conservative than I am, maybe. I'm actually a big City of San Diego promoter, just seems like the weather doesn't like me when I'm there.

LOL @ I'm conservative. I don't think so. So, I won't take a frontal nude pic in public, that doesn't make me conservative at least not in my eyes. I'm lots of things, conservative isn't one of them.

Guess I misunderstood about how you viewed SD.
 
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enjoyingitall said:
LOL @ I'm conservative. I don't think so. So, I won't take a frontal nude pic in public, that doesn't make me conservative at least not in my eyes. I'm lots of things, conservative isn't one of them.

Guess I misunderstood about how you viewed SD.

Didn't say you were conservative, just maybe more conservative than me. Maybe we need a conservative test with a rating scale that everyone can take and score themselves on. If you're alot of things, what are they?
 
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DrHike said:
Didn't say you were conservative, just maybe more conservative than me. Maybe we need a conservative test with a rating scale that everyone can take and score themselves on. If you're alot of things, what are they?

A conservative rating test.....lol now that would be a good one.

Oh..I think it's more interesting if someone discovers things about me, rather than me listing a laundry list of things.

And you may very well be right, I might be more coservative than you, considering I don't really know your limits.
 
Scavenger hunt

enjoyingitall said:
A conservative rating test.....lol now that would be a good one.

Oh..I think it's more interesting if someone discovers things about me, rather than me listing a laundry list of things.

And you may very well be right, I might be more coservative than you, considering I don't really know your limits.

Well I'd tell you what my limits are but to quote a lovely lady I know, "its more interesting if someone discover things about me".

The test could include things like:

Have you ever had anal sex?

Have you ever had sex with more than one person in the same day?

Have you had sex with more than one other person in the room?

Have you had sex with someone of the same sex?

get the idea...
 
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DrHike said:
Well I'd tell you what my limits are but to quote a lovely lady I know, "its more interesting if someone discover things about me".

Fascinating woman she must be.


Perhaps we should endeavor to do some discovering.

Good Night, Dr H.
 
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enjoyingitall said:
Fascinating woman she must be.


Perhaps we should endeavor to do some discovering.

Good Night, Dr H.

Night EJ, sleep tight, (unless you have a chance to be loose of course).
 
Good morning everyone! How are you all doing? Looks like a froggy day in San Diego today, but it's supposed to burn off soon.
Have a good one! :D
 
Good morning Cherrie, and the rest of the Cali gang who haven't passed through here yet this morning. Looks like another day of work, work, work for me. I hope everyone else has a great Orgy Thursday.
 
late as usual

Morning everyone and especially to Ukin. Even I missed you ole buddy. Nice to see you here again.

Well, I'm late on the discussion about the power of 3. I had always heard that was giving 3 orgasms, but not necessarily in any special order.

As for me, my wife totally loves the "blended O" which as you all know is with tongue to clit and finger to G-spot at the same time. So that's sort of combining DrH's 1st and 2nd.

And maybe it's just me, but most of the gals I've been with (only 20 or so) have almost all preferred the oral or hand climax to the cock. I don't know about you studs out there, but for me it's pretty difficult to last very long once I'm in the love tunnel. ;) I tend to shoot pretty fast at that point.

Therefore, knowing this, I've concentrated on developing my other technigues (oral, fingers and toys). But that might just be me and it might just be the women I've been with.

I suspect if you take a big enough sample and get honest answers, you'll find that ALL women are different. Some like no. 1, some no. 2 and some no. 3. Probably the only thing they'll agree on is that it's important for the man to care about them and to be genuinely interested in creating pleasure for both.


So that is my late contribution to this worthwhile discussion.

:kiss: :heart: :kiss:

Happy Orgy Thursday
 
Good Morning, everyone.

Orwell..Cherrie, Lance..hope you all are off to the start of a good day.


Thanks for taking the time to give us your thoughts on that discussion we were having last night Lance.
 
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