Can a Lesbian Love a good man?

[infinity706]

I don't know. Maybe being a homoerotic bisexual is just too complicated to explain.

Yeah, you're definately a bit odd for a lesbian. Sure, you might not have sex with guys anymore, but you seem to know more about penises than any straight woman I've ever met, you seem to have more male friends than female, you moderate a forum of mostly cock sucking threads, have a huge dildo shaped like a penis, and you had that dom a couple years ago with the unnamed gender (that I'd give a 95% chance of being a guy). Yeah, that is pretty unusual.

 

[Etoile]

I don't know. Maybe being a homoerotic bisexual is just too complicated to explain.

Yeah, you're definately a bit odd for a lesbian. Sure, you might not have sex with guys anymore, but you seem to know more about penises than any straight woman I've ever met, you seem to have more male friends than female, you moderate a forum of mostly cock sucking threads, have a huge dildo shaped like a penis, and you had that dom a couple years ago with the unnamed gender (that I'd give a 95% chance of being a guy). Yeah, that is pretty unusual.

All I can say is that most of your impressions and assumptions are wrong. I don't need to explain myself more than that.

 

[infinity706]

That's ok. You're still one of the coolest posters here even if you are a bit unusual.

 

[Etoile]

That's ok. You're still one of the coolest posters here even if you are a bit unusual.

Awww, thanks!

 

[infinity706]

You're welcome. I don't post in this section much, but I do read a lot of posts here. I can certainly say that you're one of the posters that I always look for.

 

[Night_Jasmine]

Etoile is always interesting to chat with...makes her a great mod for this area.

 

[Jagged]

I'd like to see someone join me in the roleplay...nice to see there is a discussion though.

 

[iDentelle]

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PUT THAT ON A PLAQUE, AND FRAME IT IN GOLD.

I wish you could tell my ex this. We have lived together since I was seventeen. I had our son when I was eighteen. We haven't been "intimate" since I was twenty-seven. I'm thirty now. Two years ago, I met my girlfriend, J, who I am sexually active with.

Cat and I still live together, and raise our son together. We all have discussesd, in great depth, every possible living arrangement, and even though Cat and I are no longer in a sexual relationship, we still need each other.

I am going through this. And... I could have almost written this post myself. Well said...

 

[Stella_Omega]

IMO post op trans girls are a gender entirely apart from male and and female, therefore, exempt from traditional sexual orientation stereotypes. That warranted the inclusion of natal, in my previous statement.

a) that will make a lot of transwomen very unhappy, because they don't want to be some third sex, they are women. They have spent years, and tears, and money and usually been forced out of their families as well for the sake of regaining the sex they were denied at birth.
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b) a better word instead of "natal" is "cis" so that a woman born a woman is a cis woman, not a transwoman. or cis man, not transman.

I'm still confused. So, what about the two 'lesbians' I know that have long term boyfriends that they enjoy having sex with. Neither one claims to have any attraction to men, though, and think penises are ugly. Do they get a spot in the bi zone without lusting after guys?

Yes, they are bisexual. And also, evidently, lying to themselves about the not being attracted to men part.

Like me, they might be bisexual dykes, (as opposed to a bisexual who is primarily attracted to the opposite sex) but they are not lesbians. That word really has one meaning; "A woman who is sexually attracted to women and not sexually attracted to men." Completely lesbian women are very rare.

 

[Safe_Bet]

Stella: Just thought I'd pop in and say"hi". You were always one of the people that Suzy liked the most here, so I know she'd want me to "say hey".

Completely lesbian women are very rare.

Not in our house they weren't!

Suzy was 100% dyke. If having sex with a man had even ever crossed her mind it would most deffinitely have included the word "ick!". The closest she ever got was in high school when a guy grabbed her tit. I'm pretty sure that she broke his nose.

She did like her butch chicks, though. She told me many times that if I had sex with a guy again it would have to be considered to be homosexual. She always believed that I'm really a guy with a pussy. HA! Maybe she wasn't as queer as she thought!

Amy

 

[Stella_Omega]

Amy

I miss your honey, and think about you and your girls a lot.

Yes, completely one-hundred-percent lesbians are rare-- Suzy was a rare one.

She always believed that I'm really a guy with a pussy. HA! Maybe she wasn't as queer as she thought!

yeah, but it was that pussy that made you okay for her to be with, even if you were a guy!

I am thinking about transitioning, by the way... been thinking about it a lot lately. I figure I would be a campy, queeny little queer, if I did...