CCG’s Cave of Confessions

“I don't really know what I thought I was going to get out of ac second tour of Lit. My first go round was a bit lonely as well

I think I was hoping to connect with like minded people, get some confidence to push some boundaries, and maybe have a couple of fun conversations that i couldn't physically have with someone. Mostly because I'm awkward and take forever to get comfortable with someone.

What I've been left with are a list of threads with the same content, and an occasional DM from guys that really make me side with women who are getting tired of the crude approaches, that make me consider just turning off my messages.

I hate being lumped in with the pigs, but even I can see it's a safe bet to play the odds.


The end result makes me not want to reach out to the few people that i actually find interesting, and not blame the last person i wanted to chat with for not having her messages turned on.”
 
“I don't really know what I thought I was going to get out of ac second tour of Lit. My first go round was a bit lonely as well

I think I was hoping to connect with like minded people, get some confidence to push some boundaries, and maybe have a couple of fun conversations that i couldn't physically have with someone. Mostly because I'm awkward and take forever to get comfortable with someone.

What I've been left with are a list of threads with the same content, and an occasional DM from guys that really make me side with women who are getting tired of the crude approaches, that make me consider just turning off my messages.

I hate being lumped in with the pigs, but even I can see it's a safe bet to play the odds.


The end result makes me not want to reach out to the few people that i actually find interesting, and not blame the last person i wanted to chat with for not having her messages turned on.”
Yeah, that about sums it up! You're not alone mystery caller.
 
“I don't really know what I thought I was going to get out of ac second tour of Lit. My first go round was a bit lonely as well

I think I was hoping to connect with like minded people, get some confidence to push some boundaries, and maybe have a couple of fun conversations that i couldn't physically have with someone. Mostly because I'm awkward and take forever to get comfortable with someone.

What I've been left with are a list of threads with the same content, and an occasional DM from guys that really make me side with women who are getting tired of the crude approaches, that make me consider just turning off my messages.

I hate being lumped in with the pigs, but even I can see it's a safe bet to play the odds.


The end result makes me not want to reach out to the few people that i actually find interesting, and not blame the last person i wanted to chat with for not having her messages turned on.”
My heart goes out to whomever wrote this. My DMs are open if they want to talk. 🥰🥰🥰🫂🫂🫂
 
“I am absolutely hopelessly crushing on a member here. I find them incredibly beautiful and the come across so intelligent. They have also shown interest in similar things that I enjoy.
I’d never ever reach out and they 100% have no idea but I just watch in awe“
I can’t help it. I just have this effect on people.

I couldn’t help crushing and watching myself in awe either. So many crushes, so little time.
 
“I don't really know what I thought I was going to get out of ac second tour of Lit. My first go round was a bit lonely as well

I think I was hoping to connect with like minded people, get some confidence to push some boundaries, and maybe have a couple of fun conversations that i couldn't physically have with someone. Mostly because I'm awkward and take forever to get comfortable with someone.

What I've been left with are a list of threads with the same content, and an occasional DM from guys that really make me side with women who are getting tired of the crude approaches, that make me consider just turning off my messages.

I hate being lumped in with the pigs, but even I can see it's a safe bet to play the odds.


The end result makes me not want to reach out to the few people that i actually find interesting, and not blame the last person i wanted to chat with for not having her messages turned on.”
Best way to not be lumped in with the pigs is to not be a pig yourself and recognize the environment is going to be hostile because of - you guessed it PIGS. I learned to be content in threads until there's enough familiarity or someone approaches me. It's just the way it is, and not just in Lit, that's anywhere I've ever been.
 
Best way to not be lumped in with the pigs is to not be a pig yourself and recognize the environment is going to be hostile because of - you guessed it PIGS. I learned to be content in threads until there's enough familiarity or someone approaches me. It's just the way it is, and not just in Lit, that's anywhere I've ever been.
I can only speak for myself, but I find that I'm a lot more open to engaging with new men on threads if I've seen them being kind and engaging with other women first. Whilst I can hold my own, I can't be arsed with figuring out who the "good guys" are if there's little thread evidence. Once upon a time, I used to. But now? Meh. I'd rather take time and joke on threads and if a guy can hold his own there, then I'm far more likely to engage with him in private.
Of course, this isn't infallible. Some are able to consistently charm on threads and then quickly deteriorate into typical cock-out in private as though a pm is literally a green light for anything.

I love that you learned to be patient with how Lit rolls. And I hope you're enjoying all the boobs now. 😏😘
 
“when I first met my husband we did a lot of experimenting (as one does in the beginnings of a relationship) and one time it turned out horribly. We were fooling around with ropes and he was tying me up on the bed. Here I am, ass up in the air, arms tied behind my back and him spanking me when the door suddenly swings open and his son is on the other side. He closed that door so fast. To this day, we’re not sure how much he saw (because my husband was somewhat behind me blocking the view from the door). I don’t know that he’s ever spoken to him about it but him and I still chuckle about the memory.”
He'll have seen his dad's bouncing boner and not your holes.
 
I can’t help it. I just have this effect on people.

I couldn’t help crushing and watching myself in awe either. So many crushes, so little time.


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I can only speak for myself, but I find that I'm a lot more open to engaging with new men on threads if I've seen them being kind and engaging with other women first. Whilst I can hold my own, I can't be arsed with figuring out who the "good guys" are if there's little thread evidence. Once upon a time, I used to. But now? Meh. I'd rather take time and joke on threads and if a guy can hold his own there, then I'm far more likely to engage with him in private.
Of course, this isn't infallible. Some are able to consistently charm on threads and then quickly deteriorate into typical cock-out in private as though a pm is literally a green light for anything.

I love that you learned to be patient with how Lit rolls. And I hope you're enjoying all the boobs now. 😏😘

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I can only speak for myself, but I find that I'm a lot more open to engaging with new men on threads if I've seen them being kind and engaging with other women first. Whilst I can hold my own, I can't be arsed with figuring out who the "good guys" are if there's little thread evidence. Once upon a time, I used to. But now? Meh. I'd rather take time and joke on threads and if a guy can hold his own there, then I'm far more likely to engage with him in private.
Of course, this isn't infallible. Some are able to consistently charm on threads and then quickly deteriorate into typical cock-out in private as though a pm is literally a green light for anything.

I love that you learned to be patient with how Lit rolls. And I hope you're enjoying all the boobs now. 😏😘
Can't laugh and love at the same time. You are exactly right. I think monkey said something along those lines too. But lmao at all the boobs...that day is yet to com lolol
 
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