Chastity

[Princessofthepillow]

I just want to play with him

 

[sweettalk4u]

It's not a fantasy of mine, but if a woman came along, and it was her idea, that would change everything. The chances of that actually happening are infinitesimal.

It’s awesome when a woman discovers the dynamic behind it and is turned on by it

 

[9to5]

it is a matter of finding the right style and size of cage. for me I have 2 that fit very well but I do admit my longest time in them is 48 hours and then maybe 12 off.
But I do miss not having one on

 

[shewantsmore]

Caging feels right for me

It looks nice too,who has the key

 

[saintcero]

It looks nice too,who has the key

Sadly, I do. The wife, and I love her, has not one kinky bone in her body. I self cage and it gives me a nice submissive vibe for a while. Such is life

 

[Man4all84]

I can only speak for myself, but a quality but plug is wearable for at least a day. I know I've done it all day. Walking, standing, sitting, squatting. At a sports venue, in public, and with friends. The worst for me, it was difficult to urinate. I kinda had to focus.
But with my cheaper ones I bought first. Those were for play time only.

As far as chastity cages, I assume the same principle goes. Those cheap ones at the novelty toy stores are NOT made to be worn long. But a custom one that fits appropriately, those are intended to be long term.

The first one I tried was a cheap silicone cage. I found out I liked being caged but it because clear very fast that the first cage would not be a long term one. A few days later I bought a steel cage and I have not found my time limit as I have to take it off for work reasons every few days.

 

[pumperguy191]

I bought my first cage which is a type of plastic. Took a while to figure out to put it on. Loved it. I tried going for days without removal. For me, bad idea. 2 or 3 was about it. Then, I realized my best routine. I remove it just before getting in the shower. I clean myself and my cage thoroughly. As soon as I get out of the shower, I apply a little water based around my shaft and balls. I don't have any issues then. So for me, somewhere around 24 hrs constant wearing of my cage is my "limit"

 

[Wonderer67]

I tried a few, found the holy trainer works best for me. I couldn’t go straight w/o cleaning it, but def went a few weeks with daily lubrication and cleaning, it was fine. I don’t think I could go more than a day w/o lubing my dick and the area around the ring, tho.

All people are different, depending on your bodies, your shaving/grooming habits etc when things become uncomfortable and/or chafe.

A friend of mine I met here on lit wears his 24/7 for weeks. He has a really expensive custom made one.

 

[Man4all84]

That would be good to know. Twister.

I love the control of having someone locked up. But I don't have the will power for longer than a day or so. I just like his cock too much.

Hello, would it be okay to private message you?

 

[MissNikkiDomGurl]

I think they are a pretty widely used in the BSDM world. Is there something that is making you believe otherwise?

I have a few CDs that will lock on request. One local that Ive not only been a keyholder for, but have basically kept that way 24/7 for months on end, for years. She's quite willing to stay that way. In fact the effects are quite real, and we've had to downsize to a smaller cage....!!! I think its rather widespread, or at least a significant percentage, in the sissy community...

 

[2tallpaul]

I have a few CDs that will lock on request. One local that Ive not only been a keyholder for, but have basically kept that way 24/7 for months on end, for years. She's quite willing to stay that way. In fact the effects are quite real, and we've had to downsize to a smaller cage....!!! I think its rather widespread, or at least a significant percentage, in the sissy community...

We down sized to a nub with regular use. She convinced me to try a real cock doing anal and life changed. Wearing a cage and submitting has been incredible with no regrets. Full hair removal helps with chaffing.

 

[9to5]

We down sized to a nub with regular use. She convinced me to try a real cock doing anal and life changed. Wearing a cage and submitting has been incredible with no regrets. Full hair removal helps with chaffing.

what did you downsize from? submitting in a cage would be awesome. would love to hear more

 

[2tallpaul]

what did you downsize from? submitting in a cage would be awesome. would love to hear more

From what I would say is a normal sized cage. Using lube and practice, learning how to stay limp to begin with, the cage allows nothing to stick out. Sounds tough but she knows what she's doing. I had a fairly large cage to begin with requiring lube and the fondling putting it on caused a half erection.

 

[Goldenfinger]

From what I would say is a normal sized cage. Using lube and practice, learning how to stay limp to begin with, the cage allows nothing to stick out. Sounds tough but she knows what she's doing. I had a fairly large cage to begin with requiring lube and the fondling putting it on caused a half erection.

we learned a great trick. all it involves is a bag of frozen peas. First when you’re getting ready you set your stuff out and place the cage on the frozen bag of peas cage only not base ring. You put the base ring on the take the now cold cage and put it on. That coldness should be enough to help everything fit. If you still having problems just place frozen bag on you leg and move it higher until your locked

 

[traill]

Training a dick not to get hard has never seemed like a good idea to me.

You're not "training" it, you're just not letting it get hard. There's a difference.

 

[lc69hunter]

I have been in many types of relationship. I am a switch, so have spent time as a bottom for my wife/girlfriend. I will NOT do the cage/chastity thing. In fact, if a story on here goes that direction, I stop reading. That is one thing that is out of bounds.

 

[pumperguy191]

I have been in many types of relationship. I am a switch, so have spent time as a bottom for my wife/girlfriend. I will NOT do the cage/chastity thing. In fact, if a story on here goes that direction, I stop reading. That is one thing that is out of bounds.

Do you care to elaborate as to why you feel this way?

 

[vladdracula2014]

It feels like chastity devices, although relatively new (ignoring medieval ironware for high ladies when the lord was out of town) should be a big deal in the BDSM community. It's one of the few significant items of bondage that can escape the dungeon and be worn in normal life, extending control into something 24/7. And it's directed right at the source of things.

It's exciting to think how many people you encounter day to day might be locked up down below, dependent on a master or mistress to release them. Sissies with their cocks reduced to nubs locked away along with any hope of a regular orgasm.

I love ball gags, canes, and restraints as much as the next girl, but chastity seems like a really deep part of any serious bondage.

Love, love the use of Chastity Device both on myself and on My Partner.

 

[9to5]

even as I self lock, I do miss not having one on. so I am locked up a lot.
its nice to share this with others even if its just online.
has anyone got together in person with others that are caged?

 

[Downfor]

even as I self lock, I do miss not having one on. so I am locked up a lot.
its nice to share this with others even if its just online.
has anyone got together in person with others that are caged?

Self locked also and love being caged!

 

[9to5]

I know there are more self lock than have a keyholder.
now for fun all the self lock put their key in a bowel and then we pick a random key. then who has your key.
just a crazy thought lol

 

[Goldenfinger]

Over a long enough timeframe, it just might think it’s been trained.

yes and no. I’m not as susceptible to a visual stimulus as I once was. It’s not about chastity with us, it’s about control. There is so much that’s involved, it’s really a lifestyle.

 

[Goldenfinger]

We look at it differently. In my marriage there is complete control without hardware. She values obedience more than coercion, submission more than precaution.

It not coercion or precaution. Its submission and control.

 

[creative1772]

it is a matter of finding the right style and size of cage. for me I have 2 that fit very well but I do admit my longest time in them is 48 hours and then maybe 12 off.
But I do miss not having one on

i had so much trouble sizing a cage properly that i gave up entirely...
... now, if my wife wanted to help me, that would change things...

 

[traill]

i had so much trouble sizing a cage properly that i gave up entirely...
... now, if my wife wanted to help me, that would change things...

The thing I realized is most people overestimate how big their cage needs to be. It's easy to get your cock when it's soft in the cage with a tiny bit of lube. It's supposed to stop you from getting hard so it should constrict a bit (within safety limits of course) but the most important thing is that it is comfortable.