Cheated-on husbands who get off on it . . .

[Ciceri]

Would love to hear more about this. Why do you think your wife was impulsive on this occasion?

My wife confessed to having sex with a stranger when we were in grad school. We weren't married at that time but we'd been together for a couple years. The revelation happened during foreplay talk when I admitted to sleeping with an ex-gf a few months prior. My wife didn't seem upset but proceeded to tell me about a recent drive to Mexico with her entomology class. She spent a few hours in the field with a local beekeeper. She said he was very sexy and flirted with her a lot. Around the time she was to leave they went to a supply shed and had sex. No condom or anything. She's not usually impulsive like that so it was surprising to hear. She wasn't on birth control at that time so for her to have unprotected sex meant she wanted it badly. Btw, I asked if they used protection but later realized it was a stupid question.

 

[saintcero]

Do you view these as hot in retrospect, or do they upset you still somewhat? What would you do if it happened again?

Lots of conflicting emotions were in play. She was feeling the guilt and had been going to therapy. I could see she was hurting when she told me. I didn’t yell or anything. I was supportive. I was also super horny from hearing about her cheating. It scared me because I thought she would think it was sick. I wanted to fuck her immediately. Fortunately, she wanted me to reclaim her and asked me to fuck her. The reclaim sex was great but it also had a bit of hate fuck in it from me. That still happens today. I start to hate fuck her and her tits start rolling around. It gets me off. I wonder someday if she will say his name while I am hate fucking her. I have long thought she likes the hate fuck most of all. Funny if we are both thinking about the other guy fucking her.

 

[Kolejdayz]

My wife confessed to having sex with a stranger when we were in grad school. We weren't married at that time but we'd been together for a couple years. The revelation happened during foreplay talk when I admitted to sleeping with an ex-gf a few months prior. My wife didn't seem upset but proceeded to tell me about a recent drive to Mexico with her entomology class. She spent a few hours in the field with a local beekeeper. She said he was very sexy and flirted with her a lot. Around the time she was to leave they went to a supply shed and had sex. No condom or anything. She's not usually impulsive like that so it was surprising to hear. She wasn't on birth control at that time so for her to have unprotected sex meant she wanted it badly. Btw, I asked if they used protection but later realized it was a stupid question.

Sex with strangers is special and often fun

 

[peter49parker]

Really, the question is how many women would in “any” situation.

Personally, I have a very hard time imagining my wife ever do that.

If you are going to change the question, then I'll change my answer. There is a huge difference in what a wife may perceive as the "right" situation, where she may already be interested in some extra sex .. still at 50%. In "any" situation, just out doing the weekly grocery shopping, or in line waiting for a latte, less than 1%.

As far as your imagining your wife "never" doing it, well don't bet too much on that scenario. I would have bet the 'farm' that my wife would never cheat on me either. That is where the "right" situation comes into play.

 

[Ciceri]

Sex with strangers is special and often fun

I suspect she’s had sex w other men since we’ve been married. She bends the rules in other aspects of life - occasionally shoplifting for example. She’s a kind person and helps others without condition but she usually does whatever she wants

 

[Kolejdayz]

Cheating wives and fiancés turn me on so much

 

[WonderPonder]

My situation is different as it's not really cheating as we're in the hotwife-cuckold lifestyle with our friend and neighbor.
But recently my wife and him have made vacation plans without letting me know until after everything was booked. I found out when I was asking her where we should go away to in May since we didn't get away earlier this year.
They went away together for a week over New Years and now again early next month. But not just one week but two as the deal was extremely good.
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We had an issue over Valentines weekend and now this which caused an argument.
Yet afterwards alone I get very aroused with them going away together again. I get very turned on with the mixed emotions of cuck angst. Not being in control and jealousy fuel my arousal so them plotting this getaway at first made me a bit mad but then it turns to arousal. This is as close to "cheating" I've experienced.

 

[Sgts19]

My situation is different as it's not really cheating as we're in the hotwife-cuckold lifestyle with our friend and neighbor.
But recently my wife and him have made vacation plans without letting me know until after everything was booked. I found out when I was asking her where we should go away to in May since we didn't get away earlier this year.
They went away together for a week over New Years and now again early next month. But not just one week but two as the deal was extremely good.
,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,
We had an issue over Valentines weekend and now this which caused an argument.
Yet afterwards alone I get very aroused with them going away together again. I get very turned on with the mixed emotions of cuck angst. Not being in control and jealousy fuel my arousal so them plotting this getaway at first made me a bit mad but then it turns to arousal. This is as close to "cheating" I've experienced.

I'd be jerking off several times a day wondering what she was doing

 

[WonderPonder]

I'd be jerking off several times a day wondering what she was doing

I certainly did when they went to the Dominican over New Years. The entire week with no contact wondering how close they were getting fueled my arousal.

 

[BlackLatin]

Lots of conflicting emotions were in play. She was feeling the guilt and had been going to therapy. I could see she was hurting when she told me. I didn’t yell or anything. I was supportive. I was also super horny which scared me. I wanted to fuck her immediately. Fortunately, she wanted me to reclaim her and asked me to fuck her. The reclaim sex was great but it also had a bit of hate fuck in it from me. That still happens today. I start to hate fuck her and her tits start rolling around. It gets me off. I wonder someday if she will say his name while I am hate fucking her. I have long thought she likes the hate fuck most of all. Funny if we are both thinking about the other guy fucking her.

Bro, you know that is exactly what she is thinking about.

 

[screwher]

My situation is different as it's not really cheating as we're in the hotwife-cuckold lifestyle with our friend and neighbor.
But recently my wife and him have made vacation plans without letting me know until after everything was booked. I found out when I was asking her where we should go away to in May since we didn't get away earlier this year.
They went away together for a week over New Years and now again early next month. But not just one week but two as the deal was extremely good.
,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,
We had an issue over Valentines weekend and now this which caused an argument.
Yet afterwards alone I get very aroused with them going away together again. I get very turned on with the mixed emotions of cuck angst. Not being in control and jealousy fuel my arousal so them plotting this getaway at first made me a bit mad but then it turns to arousal. This is as close to "cheating" I've experienced.

My wife has never gone away on holiday with another man. But honestly, I’ve been thinking lately of us maybe experimenting with the idea this summer. Maybe Mrs. Screwher and a lover go out of town together for a long weekend. Staying in a hotel together with a big double bed. Or maybe she simply spends that time at his place.

 

[peter49parker]

The idea of my wife vacationing with another man, really kicked in, when her B/F suggested that we 'all' go on a cruise. I thought it was nice of him to include me, even though he wants her to spend nights in his cabin.

 

[screwher]

The idea of my wife vacationing with another man, really kicked in, when her B/F suggested that we 'all' go on a cruise. I thought it was nice of him to include me, even though he wants her to spend nights in his cabin.

That sounds like a pretty hot arrangement. I’m thinking my wife and I along with one of her lovers on a cruise. Two cabins side by side. Mrs. Screwher and I spend the days together. Then a nice romantic dinner. Then at the end of the day, she slips off to his cabin.

 

[ExpoOpxe]

My wife can’t stop playing with our big dildo and she has no idea I know she does it.. maybe I’m reaching but I absolutely hope she’s fantasizing of getting railed by someone else

 

[peter49parker]

That works for me too. I know he suggested the cruise idea to my wife first, and wanted it to be 'just' the two of them, but she insisted that I also be included.

 

[ExpoOpxe]

If you are going to change the question, then I'll change my answer. There is a huge difference in what a wife may perceive as the "right" situation, where she may already be interested in some extra sex .. still at 50%. In "any" situation, just out doing the weekly grocery shopping, or in line waiting for a latte, less than 1%.

As far as your imagining your wife "never" doing it, well don't bet too much on that scenario. I would have bet the 'farm' that my wife would never cheat on me either. That is where the "right" situation comes into play.

I’d imagine it would be most likely to happen in a scenario where wife was at least a state away. She would be very nervous to do anything around here where it could come back to her. She does have work conferences semi-regularly

 

[peter49parker]

I’d imagine it would be most likely to happen in a scenario where wife was at least a state away. She would be very nervous to do anything around here where it could come back to her. She does have work conferences semi-regularly

Cheating is not beyond anyone's desires or capabilities. If there is an opportunity, there are people willing to take the chance. Out of state business trips are probably quite high on the list of places to cheat.

 

[saintcero]

Bro, you know that is exactly what she is thinking about.

You are right. My cock may be the one in her pussy but it’s not the one in her head. When her eyes roll back as her climax hits her I know that she is thinking about his seed flooding her cunt.

As a side note, I am a white guy. The guy my wife fools around with is not.

 

[ExpoOpxe]

Cheating is not beyond anyone's desires or capabilities. If there is an opportunity, there are people willing to take the chance. Out of state business trips are probably quite high on the list of places to cheat.

Yeah. That’s what I’ve always heard. What do you think most contributes to a wife cheating? Physical attraction? Mental connection/spark? Maybe all of the above.

She for sure has some co-workers who I’d imagine she’s attracted to

 

[Brittttlvr]

Cheating is not beyond anyone's desires or capabilities. If there is an opportunity, there are people willing to take the chance. Out of state business trips are probably quite high on the list of places to cheat.

100% This is the exact scenario where my wife first cheated, less than 2 years after our wedding day. Out of state on a work trip, three beers in, a few dances to salsa music at a work event then, he leads her off the dance floor by the hand in front of everybody. I might have stayed clueless if a coworker hadn’t called me. Later, she said she did it because of physical attraction to the coworker and “excitement”.

 

[WonderPonder]

My wife has never gone away on holiday with another man. But honestly, I’ve been thinking lately of us maybe experimenting with the idea this summer. Maybe Mrs. Screwher and a lover go out of town together for a long weekend. Staying in a hotel together with a big double bed. Or maybe she simply spends that time at his place.

It's intoxicating being home when she's away especially when there is no contact the entire time. Your thoughts are all over the place which drives me crazy.
You should ask her what she thinks of something like spending a night or weekend away with another man.

 

[MamaBitte]

That sounds like a pretty hot arrangement. I’m thinking my wife and I along with one of her lovers on a cruise. Two cabins side by side. Mrs. Screwher and I spend the days together. Then a nice romantic dinner. Then at the end of the day, she slips off to his cabin.

...
Good to know I'm not the only one with this kind of desire ... I only wish my wife had ever granted my greatest wish.

 

[peter49parker]

Yeah. That’s what I’ve always heard. What do you think most contributes to a wife cheating? Physical attraction? Mental connection/spark? Maybe all of the above.

She for sure has some co-workers who I’d imagine she’s attracted to

I'm thinking you have nailed it. There surely has to be some sort of physical attraction for sex, but there may be other factors, between coworkers, for sure. Then add alcohol, and "presto."

 

[peter49parker]

100% This is the exact scenario where my wife first cheated, less than 2 years after our wedding day. Out of state on a work trip, three beers in, a few dances to salsa music at a work event then, he leads her off the dance floor by the hand in front of everybody. I might have stayed clueless if a coworker hadn’t called me. Later, she said she did it because of physical attraction to the coworker and “excitement”.

I had a good intentioned cousin phone me one day to tell me that he was pretty sure my wife was having an affair with a mutual acquaintance. It was in fact true, but I had given her my blessings to have sex with an old BF of hers. I did my best to convince him, it was all made up. I don't think he believed me.

 

[Masis55]

What percentage of wives would cheat in the “right” situation?

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