Choking
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Chicklet said:a rash?
there's probably a cream available for that.
Doh!
lol
PBW "But it is a nice pic, BTW... I likes"
Valley Lilly
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Don't know why lately i feel attraction towards girls...even if i love guys, and i want to marry a guy and i love all about guys....
Am ibi or something? I guess im sorta confused.
Am ibi or something? I guess im sorta confused.
Valley Lilly
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Uhm, dunno. I guess it's weird cause ive only liked guys my whole life.
But watching your pic i feel like lying over you now.
But watching your pic i feel like lying over you now.
Cuckolded_BlK_Male said:
I Think the documentary you are talking about is "Fetishes" It was directed by Nick Broomfield and was done over several months at the Pandora's Box in NYC. It was done in 1996 and is available on DVD. I picked it up a few years ago at a comic book shop of all places new for 15 dollars.
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Yes that's the one ... by Nick Broomfield. I saw it in an art house theatre in 1997.
I mentioned it by name in another thread ... laziness intervened in this one.
Here's Roger Ebert's review of the film
I mentioned it by name in another thread ... laziness intervened in this one.
Here's Roger Ebert's review of the film
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I actually saw it in the The Detroit Institute of Arts: Detroit Film Theatre (the big museum around here) ... But yes, arthouse theatres abound in this area surprisingly enough.
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Never have seen it.
Never have seen it.
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mmmm.....
....yes, i appreciate the feeling of a man's hands wrapping around my neck, applying more and more pressure, taking my very breath away, if only for a matter of seconds. i gravitate towards any activity that involves a man using nothing but his raw strength and emotion to dominate my body. although i'm only really comfortable being choked by my Master, because i trust him implicitly, i have enjoyed/appreciated being choked by other men as well. it's the fear...the forcible reminder of how truly weak and powerless i really am. makes me feel so feminine, and so right in my submissive skin.
....yes, i appreciate the feeling of a man's hands wrapping around my neck, applying more and more pressure, taking my very breath away, if only for a matter of seconds. i gravitate towards any activity that involves a man using nothing but his raw strength and emotion to dominate my body. although i'm only really comfortable being choked by my Master, because i trust him implicitly, i have enjoyed/appreciated being choked by other men as well. it's the fear...the forcible reminder of how truly weak and powerless i really am. makes me feel so feminine, and so right in my submissive skin.
"Breath Play", erotic choking, or, to give it the medical name, asphyxophelia, can be extremely dangerous.
Usually, as with most such things, the inexperienced and uninformed are in the most danger. We had three teenage boys found dead a few years ago in a field. Original media hype was that there was a serial killer, or perhaps that old catch-all, "satanic ritual" stuff.
In actuality it was breath play gone bad. One lad had read an internet article, and did the quick-release knots wrong, resulting in the deaths of three of his friends. He eventually came forward.
Forensic investigations of "bizzare" suicides, with the victim cross-dressed or in fetish gear, usually turn out to be cases of asphyxia play gone wrong.
John Money did an entire book on the subject, "The Breathless Orgasm."
Back when hanging was a common (and public) affair, it was often observed that the male victim frequently aquired an impressive erection and frequently "came" during the hanging.
This is not an area I'd feel comfortable reccomending, since it is potentially so dangerous. Some folks get away with it for years.
Usually, as with most such things, the inexperienced and uninformed are in the most danger. We had three teenage boys found dead a few years ago in a field. Original media hype was that there was a serial killer, or perhaps that old catch-all, "satanic ritual" stuff.
In actuality it was breath play gone bad. One lad had read an internet article, and did the quick-release knots wrong, resulting in the deaths of three of his friends. He eventually came forward.
Forensic investigations of "bizzare" suicides, with the victim cross-dressed or in fetish gear, usually turn out to be cases of asphyxia play gone wrong.
John Money did an entire book on the subject, "The Breathless Orgasm."
Back when hanging was a common (and public) affair, it was often observed that the male victim frequently aquired an impressive erection and frequently "came" during the hanging.
This is not an area I'd feel comfortable reccomending, since it is potentially so dangerous. Some folks get away with it for years.
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Asphyxiation does not appeal to me as a giver and definitely not as a receiver. Dangerous stuff, IMO!
I do sometimes put a single hand to the throat of a submissive when we are in the "spoon" position. This is typically post-play and there is no pressure appled. Just the feel of my hand across the front of her throat.
I do sometimes put a single hand to the throat of a submissive when we are in the "spoon" position. This is typically post-play and there is no pressure appled. Just the feel of my hand across the front of her throat.
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Boy howdy, this is not for me.
I guess I don't live life on the edge. I don't want to take any chances that there is no return from it. I'm not interested in how dying 'feels.'
Hey, call me goofy but I like how living feels, way more.
I guess I don't live life on the edge. I don't want to take any chances that there is no return from it. I'm not interested in how dying 'feels.'
Hey, call me goofy but I like how living feels, way more.
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'Play' choking is fun, real choking is bad...
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kjtatts said:
I just found I like this too. Passing out or anything near would definatly be a big no-no, as I had a friend kill himself by hanging. I have a suspicion that he might have been 'playing' and didnt' intend to end his life. I also dont like to have anything wrapped around my neck for the same reason. In fact, I was quite suprised that I liked the hands on my throat at all, but I did.
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Mr Blonde said:
I think that would be a very powerful gesture. N does that sometimes... just places his hand around my throat, no pressure at all. We did some breath play until I saw this thread a few months ago and did some other research... we decided that it is too dangerous to do, however yummy it may feel.
But just having his hand there, knowing he could choke me... it is a little thrilling.
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Re: mmmm.....
(Funny to see what threads get bumped. I know we've had a more recent choking thread than this one.)
That is perfectly stated for how I feel, too, though I've never had anybody but Daddy choking me. You capture the emotions perfectly, osg! My girlfriend thinks it's a little too twisted so when the three of us are together that usually gets left out (she can handle it, but is more comfortable if we don't do it). But when it's just Daddy and me, e knows it gives me an even bigger thrill to have my throat compressed while I'm being fucked, or whatever. I do note that it doesn't have the same impact on me if I'm face-down as it does if the hand is on the front of my neck.ownedsubgal said:
(Funny to see what threads get bumped. I know we've had a more recent choking thread than this one.)
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I love that feeling more than alot of things sexually i've done, i've only ever allowed 1 man to ever do it miss it
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Coming out on this topic:
This summer I discovered or rather experienced mild choking. When in subspace, a hand was placed on my neck and gently applied pressure at the area just below my jaw line. The first time, my brain was not functioning and thought, "I wonder if he will kill me." It was very casual and non chalant, my thinking. Of course, I trusted him implicitly and with good reason.
In any event, I was and am fine, but enjoyed being choked until I couldn't breathe for a few seconds. I have not and would not want to experience choking to the point of passing out or anything more. However, that activity was repeated, sometimes during play, sometimes just to remind me who was really in control. It was always lovely.
This type of choking is some of the most erotic play I have experienced. Even now, if someone puts their hands upon my neck to caress or touch gently, my mind goes a bit blank and I shudder.
This summer I discovered or rather experienced mild choking. When in subspace, a hand was placed on my neck and gently applied pressure at the area just below my jaw line. The first time, my brain was not functioning and thought, "I wonder if he will kill me." It was very casual and non chalant, my thinking. Of course, I trusted him implicitly and with good reason.
In any event, I was and am fine, but enjoyed being choked until I couldn't breathe for a few seconds. I have not and would not want to experience choking to the point of passing out or anything more. However, that activity was repeated, sometimes during play, sometimes just to remind me who was really in control. It was always lovely.
This type of choking is some of the most erotic play I have experienced. Even now, if someone puts their hands upon my neck to caress or touch gently, my mind goes a bit blank and I shudder.
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choking and such
I generally hold my breath when I orgasm. In fact, I can't keep from doing so. My husband says that it is sometimes scary for him to see and I often have to reassure him that it's fine.
I also enjoy controlling his air flow during sex. I would hesitate to wrap something around his throat and his throat is just too muscular for me to do it with my hands. I put a small piece of glad-wrap over his mouth and nose and hold it there. Sometimes I simply order him to hold his breath. He has admitted to me that it makes his orgasms incredibly strong.
There is definitly an element of danger. The reason I wouldn't use a rope or other device to choke him is the danger that it could cause crushing damage to his throat. If I wrapped the glad-wrap around his head to hold it in place, or put a bag over his head, there is always the danger that I could not get it off in time.
Of course, when he is holding his breath at my command, the worst that could happen is that he will pass out. When I am using the plastic wrap, he is usually above me and moving fairly quickly. When his arms start to get trembly, I give him a quick breath or two. I don't know, it's incredibly erotic for us. I wouldn't advise anyone to do it alone or to try it without putting serious thought into safety issues.
Hugs,
Kat
I generally hold my breath when I orgasm. In fact, I can't keep from doing so. My husband says that it is sometimes scary for him to see and I often have to reassure him that it's fine.
I also enjoy controlling his air flow during sex. I would hesitate to wrap something around his throat and his throat is just too muscular for me to do it with my hands. I put a small piece of glad-wrap over his mouth and nose and hold it there. Sometimes I simply order him to hold his breath. He has admitted to me that it makes his orgasms incredibly strong.
There is definitly an element of danger. The reason I wouldn't use a rope or other device to choke him is the danger that it could cause crushing damage to his throat. If I wrapped the glad-wrap around his head to hold it in place, or put a bag over his head, there is always the danger that I could not get it off in time.
Of course, when he is holding his breath at my command, the worst that could happen is that he will pass out. When I am using the plastic wrap, he is usually above me and moving fairly quickly. When his arms start to get trembly, I give him a quick breath or two. I don't know, it's incredibly erotic for us. I wouldn't advise anyone to do it alone or to try it without putting serious thought into safety issues.
Hugs,
Kat
