Cock Talk

[Wand3rlust]

I’ll send you some holiday boobs to end the pouting!

It worked.

*beams*

 

[hotwords229_A]

It worked.

*beams*

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Nothing like a hot pair of beams.

 

[hotoldrguy]

On a scale of 1-10 (10=her own sex dungeon and collection of whips, 1=she may try something other than missionary-maybe) how much of a Dominatrix are you/do you like/have you tried?
7 I think...
Are you the more dominant sexual partner, or is it pretty even?
I think I am a switch. I can go either way

Do you like to be dominated, or do you prefer to be the dominant one?
I like both roles.
Guys: What would be your limit with a Dominatrix (or a dominant partner)?
I am not sure I think I would just like a safeword to use if things got to be too much for me

Are you into rope play? Describe your favorite rope scenario?
Not really interested in roleplay

Would you rather submit sexually to a group of horny women, horny men, or a mixed group of horny citizens—assuming they had your best interests in mind and you were attracted to all of them?
I would go with a mixed group

I thought the question said roleplay not rope play I have not tried rope play but would be up for trying it

 

[hotwords229_A]

I thought the question said roleplay not rope play I have not tried rope play but would be up for trying it

I suppose rope play, role play and cosplay are all in the same category, in a manner of speaking.

Unless you are a superhero, in which case rope play is part of the job.

 

[Apisto42]

I suppose rope play, role play and cosplay are all in the same category, in a manner of speaking.

Unless you are a superhero, in which case rope play is part of the job.

I’m guessing you grew up watching Long Dong Silver too?

 

[hotwords229_A]

I’m guessing you grew up watching Long Dong Silver too?

I’m not familiar with his work.
Does he tie people up with his silver dong that is long?

 

[Mei5ter]

Femdame
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Everyone likes a sexually aggressive woman; a girl who needs dick and isn’t afraid to reach down your pants and take it or push your head between her legs. But how much is too much?

On a scale of 1-10 (10=her own sex dungeon and collection of whips, 1=she may try something other than missionary-maybe) how much of a Dominatrix are you/do you like/have you tried?

I adore the dominatrix look. Counterintuitively, however, it just makes me want to have her on the receiving end.

You say missionary counts as 1. Imagine a dominatrix on her back, tied and restrained, till wearing most of her outfit, and unable to stop me doing what I want except with her own safe word. That sounds like a rather fun evening to me, and a bit more than a 1.

It's not the position that makes sex kinky. It's what you do with it.

Are you the more dominant sexual partner, or is it pretty even?

I tend to be, yes, though I'm fine with my partner taking the lead too.

If neither of you is sexually aggressive (interpret that how you will), would you visit a Dominatrix as a couple? Or have you?

Not the slightest interest. I need an emotional connection with anyone I'm having sex with. I can understand that going to a stranger can be a thrill of its own, but it doesn't really work for me.

Would you like to watch your partner ravaged/dominated by someone else? Who?

Not really. I find it interesting to see how women dominate women differently from men (on both sides of the slash), but it isn't something which appeals to me directly.

Do you like to be dominated, or do you prefer to be the dominant one?

I cant stand being dominated sexually. Even trying out online to get some idea of the feelings...just no. Someone else taking the lead? Sure. Someone asking very directly for the sex they need? Love it, and I'll love giving them that. I know why being able to give up control during sex can be such blissful relief. Maybe you have to be in charge of everything else in your world, and this is your safe place to let go. But for me, I think it's more that I have to be responsible for everything else in my world. Sex is the place I get to do that for fun.

Guys: What would be your limit with a Dominatrix (or a dominant partner)?

I'll do pretty much anything. Just don't try making me. Doesn't end well

Girls: What would you do with your guy if he fully (and consensually) submitted to you?

n/a

Are you into rope play? Describe your favorite rope scenario?

Oh rope... I misread that at first, but yes. I think things like shibari are aesthetically amazing, but they just seem an awful lot of faff. I like tying my partner up sometimes, and that can be with rope or...other things.

I'm not sure I'll share any specific scenarios, thank you.

Do you engage in sexual Cosplay? Would you? What characters are involved?

So what's the difference between cosplay and other forms of dressing up? Is cosplay more a specific character? So if I ask my partner to dress up as Leia or Hatsune Miku (don't ask) that's cosplay, but a generic maid/nurse/cop outfit isn't?

Anyway. I absolutely love dressing up and roleplay, on so many levels. It sets a natural sexual dynamic - you don't need to explain what happens with nurse/patient or master/maid or cop/prisoner. And, as I think I've said elsewhere before so apologies for repeating, it helps keep awkward feelings compartmentalised. Feeling ashamed of some of your kinks? Dress up and explore them in character, where you have that little bit of separation and distance. Uncomfortable about enjoying spanking, or CNC, or whatever? Just decide you keep that for roleplay, and then you can enjoy all those naughty things you're ashamed to enjoy, safely kept in their place, without spending the rest of your life worrying you're some kind of pervert. If that worries you.

That concludes tonight's Kinks For The Anxious session. You're welcome, and please tip (or spank) your waitress.

Would you rather submit sexually to a group of horny women, horny men, or a mixed group of horny citizens—assuming they had your best interests in mind and you were attracted to all of them?

Not my thing. I can see the appeal of the bachelorette party dynamic, because I guess it must feel good on a primal level to feel desired by lots of people who don't even know your name? As a hot fantasy, maybe, but I've no interest in the reality.

 

[hotwords229_A]

I adore the dominatrix look. Counterintuitively, however, it just makes me want to have her on the receiving end.

I understand this completely. It appeals to my own dominant side. It feels like I’m being challenged.

So what's the difference between cosplay and other forms of dressing up? Is cosplay more a specific character?

We may need clarification from our Cosplay friends.

it helps keep awkward feelings compartmentalised. Feeling ashamed of some of your kinks? Dress up and explore them in character, where you have that little bit of separation and distance.

This is a great point!

I wonder if it’s a case of the more elaborate the costume the kinkier the sex?

Does this explain the Bronie phenomenon?

Maybe wearing a Batman mask does make sense?

 

[hotoldrguy]

I’m not familiar with his work.
Does he tie people up with his silver dong that is long?

Guess you will have to ask Clarence Thomas about it....

 

[hotwords229_A]

On a scale of 1-10 (10=her own sex dungeon and collection of whips, 1=she may try something other than missionary-maybe) how much of a Dominatrix are you/do you like/have you tried?

4? . I like a sexually aggressive woman, but not necessarily a dominatrix. I’m certainly not one to submit, but I do like the give and take of someone who knows what she wants.

Are you the more dominant sexual partner, or is it pretty even?

I have been the more dominant.

If neither of you is sexually aggressive (interpret that how you will), would you visit a Dominatrix as a couple? Or have you?

Nope!

Would you like to watch your partner ravaged/dominated by someone else? Who?

Sure. But in a fantasy kind of way. I think we are hiking in the woods and come across a tribe of supermodels with lesbian tendencies. They tie me up and make me watch as they sexually please her in front of me.

Do you like to be dominated, or do you prefer to be the dominant one?

I wouldn’t mind that tribe of supermodels turning their attention on me.

Guys: What would be your limit with a Dominatrix (or a dominant partner)?

Going to a dominatrix would be my limit.

Girls: What would you do with your guy if he fully (and consensually) submitted to you?

I wish their were more answers to this question.

Are you into rope play? Describe your favorite rope scenario?

Nope.

Do you engage in sexual Cosplay? Would you? What characters are involved?

I don’t, but I can see the appeal. I remember seeing an instagram page with a guy and his girlfriend and they would dress up as various horror movie characters—he is the killer and she is the victim, but there was always a sexy edge to the pics. That was pretty hot. I can see doing something like that.

Would you rather submit sexually to a group of horny women, horny men, or a mixed group of horny citizens—assuming they had your best interests in mind and you were attracted to all of them?

Horny group of women. That is a STRONG fantasy I have.

 

[aussiegeekygal]

Horny group of women. That is a STRONG fantasy I have.

Logistically, how does this work??

 

[hotwords229_A]

Logistically, how does this work??

Lots of clothes ripping, hands, mouths, other body parts everywhere, you know, the standard attack by horny females fantasy.

 

[SixShooter14]

On a scale of 1-10 (10=her own sex dungeon and collection of whips, 1=she may try something other than missionary-maybe) how much of a Dominatrix are you/do you like/have you tried?

4?. I like a sexually aggressive woman, but not necessarily a dominatrix. I’m certainly not one to submit, but I do like the give and take of someone who knows what she wants.

Are you the more dominant sexual partner, or is it pretty even?

I have been the more dominant.

If neither of you is sexually aggressive (interpret that how you will), would you visit a Dominatrix as a couple? Or have you?

Nope!

Would you like to watch your partner ravaged/dominated by someone else? Who?

Sure. But in a fantasy kind of way. I think we are hiking in the woods and come across a tribe of supermodels with lesbian tendencies. They tie me up and make me watch as they sexually please her in front of me.

Do you like to be dominated, or do you prefer to be the dominant one?

I wouldn’t mind that tribe of supermodels turning their attention on me.

Guys: What would be your limit with a Dominatrix (or a dominant partner)?

Going to a dominatrix would be my limit.

Girls: What would you do with your guy if he fully (and consensually) submitted to you?

I wish their were more answers to this question.

Are you into rope play? Describe your favorite rope scenario?

Nope.

Do you engage in sexual Cosplay? Would you? What characters are involved?

I don’t, but I can see the appeal. I remember seeing an instagram page with a guy and his girlfriend and they would dress up as various horror movie characters—he is the killer and she is the victim, but there was always a sexy edge to the pics. That was pretty hot. I can see doing something like that.

Would you rather submit sexually to a group of horny women, horny men, or a mixed group of horny citizens—assuming they had your best interests in mind and you were attracted to all of them?

Horny group of women. That is a STRONG fantasy I have.

I'm pretty much in agreement with all of these...Except I don't have any fantasy to "submit" I'm not against being loosely tied up, but I do get some real anxiety when I can't move. So I've found that a loose binding that I can wiggle out of works great.

That said, I like to please and be pleased. So a more/less equal power distribution works well with a bit of give and take depending on the day and situation.

 

[hotwords229_A]

I'm pretty much in agreement with all of these...Except I don't have any fantasy to "submit" I'm not against being loosely tied up, but I do get some real anxiety when I can't move. So I've found that a loose binding that I can wiggle out of works great.

That said, I like to please and be pleased. So a more/less equal power distribution works well with a bit of give and take depending on the day and situation.

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I don’t handle restraints well either.

 

[SixShooter14]

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I don’t handle restraints well either.

yeah, in the right situation being tied down and teased/pleasured is a ton of fun....but the anxiety was a problem.

When I had a bed with metal bars for a head/foot board, I've hooked my feet under the footboard and either grabbed the bars on the headboard or just taken pillowcases and twisted them around bars and my fist.... gives the sensation of being held/tied down but with just a bit of effort can be loose....... The hand wraps also work well to "get loose" and switch mid-session to use them as a collar and leash on her..... the transition from tied down to the one holding the leash can really raise the intensity.

 

[Love_Is_Blonde]

On a scale of 1-10 (10=her own sex dungeon and collection of whips, 1=she may try something other than missionary-maybe) how much of a Dominatrix are you/do you like/have you tried?

There used to be a woman here - Racey Wilde? I think that was her name- and she had an Ampics thread. I know I’ve talked about her before - I loved reading about and looking at the pictures of her and her various (very attractive) lovers. She was a Domme, I believe? or something close to one, and I had a bit of a girl crush on her. Not that I wanted to be with her, but I was enamored with her self-assurance and the power she wielded over these men. She was sexy and she had them wrapped around her finger (almost literally).

There are times when I feel a version of that. Not that I have my lover wrapped around my finger or that I’m Dommeing him, because good lord that would not fly , but that sensual “you-are-mine-and-I-am-about-to-show-you” mood. So, what is that? A 3?
Most other times though, I appreciate him doing the leading.

Are you the more dominant sexual partner, or is it pretty even?

No, I’m attracted to more dominant men in the bedroom. And I’m not talking about somebody who has to stomp around and make a show of it. When he’s got it, he’s doesn’t have to flaunt it.

If neither of you is sexually aggressive (interpret that how you will), would you visit a Dominatrix as a couple? Or have you?

No

Would you like to watch your partner ravaged/dominated by someone else? Who?

No thanks

Do you like to be dominated, or do you prefer to be the dominant one?
Guys: What would be your limit with a Dominatrix (or a dominant partner)?
Girls: What would you do with your guy if he fully (and consensually) submitted to you?

I’m trying to visualize this.
I think I’d have to cash in some full body massage coupons and request some homemade meals (curry comes to mind).

Are you into rope play? Describe your favorite rope scenario?

I haven’t tried it. There’s always a first time.

Do you engage in sexual Cosplay? Would you? What characters are involved?

No specific characters but I do have a few costumes that I like to wear. They make me feel sexy, and it can be a way to let go of some inhibitions. And it’s just fun. I don’t want to be so serious all the time. Playing out scenarios and fantasies is an erotic escape.

Would you rather submit sexually to a group of horny women, horny men, or a mixed group of horny citizens—assuming they had your best interests in mind and you were attracted to all of them?

For me? It would have to be a group of horny men. I mean…they do have my best interest at heart.

 

[Mei5ter]

I wonder if it’s a case of the more elaborate the costume the kinkier the sex?

That's an excellent question, and in some cases I think you're right.

Sexy costumes are designed to be sexy. You don't have to have a complex medfet kink to think a sexy nurse outfit looks hot, and that it could be fun for your partner to wear one. It's basically themed lingerie.

If you want her to dress up as an actual nurse, in regulation scrubs and crocs, armed with those dental spreader things, a few syringes, saline, latex gloves and a rubber hose, I suggest your tastes may indeed be a bit kinkier and more elaborate.

Does this explain the Bronie phenomenon?

Well, again, it depends how far you go. I can get behind a cute tail, so to speak. If my partner wanted to dress in full MLP costume, complete with her own cutie mark, because nothing did it for her like a man saying, "Fuck yeah, Rainbow Dash, tail up! Time for your sonic rainboom!", then, again...I'd say kink and elaborate costumes go hoof in hoof?

 

[Mei5ter]

I was enamored with her self-assurance and the power she wielded over these men. She was sexy and she had them wrapped around her finger (almost literally).

I remember Racey Wilde's name.

And this is interests me, because you're right. I think most people find confidence sexy, and that includes self-confidence and self-assurance in bed. But that confidence isn't the same as being sexually dominant, like a dominatrix.

One is about knowing what you want, and having the confidence to go for it and enjoy it. The other is about enjoying the power of being able to make your partner do...things.

And that may explain this:

Girls: What would you do with your guy if he fully (and consensually) submitted to you?

I wish their were more answers to this question.

... which is reads like it's about D/s submission.

If you'd phrased it a little differently:

Girls: What would you do with your guy if he told you he do anything at all you liked?

...I wonder if you'd get more answers?

 

[hotwords229_A]

If you'd phrased it a little differently:

Girls: What would you do with your guy if he told you he do anything at all you liked?

...I wonder if you'd get more answers?

One way to find out . . .

 

[hotwords229_A]

Girls: What would you do with your guy if he told you he do anything at all you liked?

 

[Apisto42]

Logistically, how does this work??

Step aside male ego, this is a job for viagra.

 

[hotwords229_A]

Step aside male ego, this is a job for viagra.

I assume some of the women will help each other out. Which, in turn, will also help me out!

 

[hotoldrguy]

There used to be a woman here - Racey Wilde? I think that was her name- and she had an Ampics thread. I know I’ve talked about her before - I loved reading about and looking at the pictures of her and her various (very attractive) lovers. She was a Domme, I believe? or something close to one, and I had a bit of a girl crush on her. Not that I wanted to be with her, but I was enamored with her self-assurance and the power she wielded over these men. She was sexy and she had them wrapped around her finger (almost literally).

There are times when I feel a version of that. Not that I have my lover wrapped around my finger or that I’m Dommeing him, because good lord that would not fly , but that sensual “you-are-mine-and-I-am-about-to-show-you” mood. So, what is that? A 3?
Most other times though, I appreciate him doing the leading.

No, I’m attracted to more dominant men in the bedroom. And I’m not talking about somebody who has to stomp around and make a show of it. When he’s got it, he’s doesn’t have to flaunt it.

No

No thanks

I’m trying to visualize this.
I think I’d have to cash in some full body massage coupons and request some homemade meals (curry comes to mind).

I haven’t tried it. There’s always a first time.

No specific characters but I do have a few costumes that I like to wear. They make me feel sexy, and it can be a way to let go of some inhibitions. And it’s just fun. I don’t want to be so serious all the time. Playing out scenarios and fantasies is an erotic escape.

For me? It would have to be a group of horny men. I mean…they do have my best interest at heart.

I remember Racey Wilde. Damn!!!

 

[hotwords229_A]

I imagine, or rather am trying not to imagine, all of the women in a daisy chain, entertaining each other until, finally, a wave of orgasms ripples through the chain like a tidal wave.

@hotwords229_A is standing there watching, knowing full well that they're all lesbians who want nothing to do with his bargepole.

Why would you try not to imagine this? Sounds hot!

As for them wanting nothing to do with my “bargepole”, I’ll manage. They won’t be the first ones who wanted nothing to do with it!

 

[hotwords229_A]

I remember Racey Wilde. Damn!!!

I tried looking her up, but it seems her account doesn’t exist.
Unless I’m spelling it wrong.