Cock Talk

I think itā€™s safe to assume thereā€™s usually a much more sexually explicit meaning than you first think of. For pretty much everything. In the world šŸ¤­
You underestimate some of us (unless you meant @Endless_Night specifically, in which case I apologise for this interruption in service, and return you to your previous programming).
 
Teasing and pleasing
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Disclaimer: Iā€™m going to use the word ā€œteaseā€ to imply a friendly, good natured, well intended, fun suggestion by a trusted and/or sexy person. This is one of those times where there is probably a better word to choose, but I canā€™t think of what it is, so feel free to use whatever word works better for you.

Additional disclaimer: I wanted to use a pic of a Bronie wearing lobster pants, but that pic doesnā€™t exist . . . or does it?! šŸ˜›
Are you teasing with this Bronie talk? If that's what you want, just tell Shining Armor here.
Do you enjoy being teased about a sexual proclivity you have?
In the sense you define it here, where you're using humour to raise a sexual suggestion? Sure, why not? It's not something I particularly like or dislike but it can be fun sometimes?
Have you ever been teased about something sexual that awoke a kink you didnā€™t know you had?
I was going to say no. But actually i can think of one specific instance where we both raised a particular thing, each said we definitely didn't like it, and then found we both absolutely do.
Do you like to tease your partner about something sexual to get a rise out of them? Do they like to tease you?
I'd say any teasing was more affectionate than to get a rise out of her? Unless it's to provoke a reaction in the bedroom.
Have you ever jokingly suggested something sexual that your partner showed more interest in than you expected? Or they to you?
If you had a kink that you were embarrassed to bring up, would you use teasing as a way to pretend it was a joke, in case it wasnā€™t received well?
Yeah :(

When you're invested in a relationship, and want to raise a kink which the other might struggle with, it gives you a get-out if they don't respond well.

Unfortunately, teasing can also harm communication. My kinks matter to me, and there is nothing good about a partner satisfying them reluctantly (unless reluctance is your kink... but who wants their partner to squeal, "No! NO! You mustn't..." ... sorry, lost my train of thought briefly). So yes, teasing reduces the risk of rejection, but it also reduces the chances of things working out, because you aren't communicating what you honestly want and why.

Would you like to be sexually teased (define that that how you will) more or less on Lit? About what?
I think that kind of sexual teasing on Lit is quite interesting to see in the threads. Lit, as I tend to whang on about interminably, is where you don't know people's names, but know what they look like naked, and whether or not they secretly want their partner to dress as a My Little Pony so they can fulfil their ultimate "Tail Up, Rainbow Dash" fantasy. At work, people tease me about my sports team, because that's something they know about me. On Lit, the things people are likely to know about me will be sexual, so that kind of friendly teasing will be about sexual things, even if it isn't intended to be sexual or flirty in itself. Which can be a tricky line to navigate when you aren't sure if people are flirting or teasing.
Do you like to tease your partner physically? Like gentle kisses to the inner thigh while prolonging the inevitable?
What, you mean making her beg and beg and beg, and then pinching or biting so she can't, and telling her she has to start all over again and be a good girl next time, and then maybe the inevitable might be permitted? Of course not. What kind of pervert does that?
 
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