Making Women Come Before Intercourse

[Foolhen]

In my youth, I was self-conscious about possibly cumming before my partner did, so by making her orgasm first, it was kind of a relief like, OK, now that that's out of the way...

There's probably, a better way of phrasing it, but that was basically how I felt then.

Same here. It was only later that I got hooked on the sensation of pushing my cock into her after she'd just come and was still all tight and sensitive.

 

[switchersm]

Duck yes

This is unknown to me, makes no sense in translation to German. Would you explain it to me, please ?

 

[OwenJ80]

This is an unwritten rule in our house. Wife always cums 2-3x before intercourse…which helps with cumming while I’m inside her. But she always cums first whether with fingers or tongue.

 

[The6t9er]

I always make her cum before intercourse, either by hand and/or oral, so she's all lubed up, and it tastes so good

 

[HardLee91]

Always whenever there’s time. Sometimes it’s fast and furious maybe even in a parking lot after traveling! But when I can, I take it nice and slow and always give oral before my own pleasure. I especially like it when I can give her multiple orgasms before my cock is involved. Makes her wild and makes the sex that much better for me love it when she’s on top riding cowgirl but I don’t always lash as long as I’d like - so oral has definitely saved me!

 

[AficionadoAngel]

I've learned that I'm on the submissive side so I'm usually OK with my lover satisfying his own needs first, even if it might leave me wanting, so to speak. It turns me on and I'll usually end up masturbating one or more times afterwards, with or without him present. But if he wants me to come first, or even masturbate in front of him first, I also enjoy the feeling of being "well used" when he fucks me afterwards.

 

[Squirting28]

Always whenever there’s time. Sometimes it’s fast and furious maybe even in a parking lot after traveling! But when I can, I take it nice and slow and always give oral before my own pleasure. I especially like it when I can give her multiple orgasms before my cock is involved. Makes her wild and makes the sex that much better for me love it when she’s on top riding cowgirl but I don’t always lash as long as I’d like - so oral has definitely saved me!

Fuck yes that’s sexy baby

 

[Islander55]

Personally I prefer to cum during intercourse. My orgasm is more intense if I feel filled and stretched.

 

[cpcrazed]

Always give my wife oral before sex, and often afterwards. There is nothing I love more than eating her pussy

 

[WonderPonder]

I've always given my wife oral and her having at least one orgasm before intercourse when we use to have sex. Now I give her many orgasms orally as she likes it often.

 

[Uncut1969]

loved to make a woman cum hopefully multiple times and then sink my cock into her wet warm pussy! Only way to treat a woman ! I love eating pussy! Wish I could after a nice creampie!

 

[magicalmoments]

My current wife never cums from intercourse or any form of penetration., well... apart from twice. Apart from those two times she comes solely from clitoral stimulation either by tongue or vibrator. She prefers tongue. So in answer to the question our love making always starts with her coming before we have intercourse. I lick her to orgasm. She has a few minutes recovery from the moment and then I fuck her to my hearts content and fill her with my juice as and when I'm ready..

 

[Samantha47]

My late husband always made sure I came first...
Usually by giving me amazing oral!!!!

I'd love to give you oral

 

[OralAllOver]

I find it a big turn-on to make a woman come before I have sex with her. Part of it is the tease and the enjoyment of watching her writhe and squirm with pleasure until her pussy starts pulsing on my fingers or my tongue. Denying her the cock she wants inside her so badly until she had come for me. I also love how we are both completely focused on her and there is little distraction from my own physical stimulation. Finally, I really love entering her pussy while it's still tight and extra sensitive from her orgasm. At first it's a bit overwhelming, but then she adjusts and it turns to pleasure again until she has another orgasm while I'm pumping her full of come.

What do other men and women think of this?

oh definitely
pressure is off
she's wildly aroused and naughty

 

[hulmule]

Oh i miss those days.... Been way to long... Be nice to find a lady who isn't getting her needs taken care before she hits menopause !!

 

[Squirting28]

loved to make a woman cum hopefully multiple times and then sink my cock into her wet warm pussy! Only way to treat a woman ! I love eating pussy! Wish I could after a nice creampie!

Oh fuck yess mmmm

 

[ladventures]

It's not exactly the same for my wife and I. She wants to have orgasms at the very beginning of penetration, before I begin thrusting. She likes to gently climb into reverse cowgirl while using her clit suction tool. She controls the depth, and never goes even halfway down. Once she gets a little more than the tip in, she tells me to be still, because that is the depth she likes ("Your thick head stretches me out just the way I like"). She'll hold there for a couple minutes and orgasm 2-3 times.
Another position she likes is a modified version of missionary, with me on my knees and her on her back. I get the head just the way she likes it and she uses the toy. I have to use all my willpower to fight the desire to thrust. She'll orgasm like that a couple times. When she's satiated, she will ride me or invite me to fuck her hard and deep in missionary or doggy style.

 

[Getintheremate]

Yeah huge pleasure for me, taking my woman to orgasm before the fucking begins. Of course, the giving her multiple climaxes of pleasure is delicious. But I'll be honest, I do this primarily for me. The intensity of being the Stud in this hot situation is intoxicating: Myself in complete control and nowhere near cumming while my woman has lost control, is begging to be fucked, and will certainly have further orgasms when I get in there. We find that the increased sensitivity she will have developed is nicely countered by my giving my cock a good smear of lube before I penetrate her, so she has shock but without pain when I choose to go balls deep in one. I find I can judge if she can take an immediate pounding, to get her orgasmic again in just a few strokes. Then I'll rest in her, loads of french kissing and caressing, before long slow gentle lovemaking towards a gorgeous simultaneous climax.

 

[StrongMaster7]

I’ve always tried to make sure my partner has an orgasm before we fuck. I’ve always found it easier to make a woman come with my fingers or mouth in foreplay than with my cock. And for my partner, sex is OVER when I come, so it also makes our sex last longer if I can delay my orgasm by giving her one.

If I had a lover who wanted sex to last for more than 10 or 15 minutes, it would be great to come multiple times and make her come several time too.

 

[CJamarous]

This is a given, any and every time I have sex. I can't remember the last time I didn't make her cum at least once or twice before we fucked. There is just something about getting her as many orgasms as possible before we're through. And in my mind, the more I can give her before sex, the better. I love her squirming, whimpers, moans, clawing, writhing....all of it. It makes me want her that much more with each orgasm.

 

[BurningFloors]

One of the best ways to guarantee a great fuck is to make her cum before fucking her. Love how wet she will be from all the pussy eating

 

[ThunderTongue69]

I've always enjoyed and gotten off by making sure she, whichever woman I was with at the time, cummed first and a couple of times before fucking was even better and it helped make sure she'd cum again while we were fucking. I've had more than one jump up screaming 'no more tongue, just fuck me', which I happily took care of

 

[newhere2learn]

I find it a big turn-on to make a woman come before I have sex with her. Part of it is the tease and the enjoyment of watching her writhe and squirm with pleasure until her pussy starts pulsing on my fingers or my tongue. Denying her the cock she wants inside her so badly until she had come for me. I also love how we are both completely focused on her and there is little distraction from my own physical stimulation. Finally, I really love entering her pussy while it's still tight and extra sensitive from her orgasm. At first it's a bit overwhelming, but then she adjusts and it turns to pleasure again until she has another orgasm while I'm pumping her full of come.

What do other men and women think of this?

This is standard for me. Although only recently after cycling through several women in their 30s has it been made clear to me that women find this a new thing. I like them to have cum at least twice before sex.

 

[newhere2learn]

Same here. It was only later that I got hooked on the sensation of pushing my cock into her after she'd just come and was still all tight and sensitive.

Yes. Had a GF for a few years who had thick thighs and gorilla grip. Sliding in after she'd cum on my face, was like a vice.

 

[cadman7777]

Most of the time yes...but every now and then because we both wanted to fuck so bad I'd cum and then go down on her after......her orgasms were even more crazy then