I try to give her at least two orgasms, if more she gets hypersensitive and does not seem to enjoy my cock as much. Also gets her very wet and on occasion makes her squirt as I fuck her.
Making Women Come Before Intercourse
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When my first wife and I dated in college, we were both inexperienced, but we were randy for each other. However, I was deathly afraid of her getting pregnant and derailing all the plans I had for after college. So we learned together all the ways of getting each other off without fucking. Mainly that meant a lot of oral sex.
Then even after we started screwing shortly before our marriage, a lot of oral sex was involved in our foreplay. Indeed, I would lick her to at least one orgasm before I fucked her. Needless to say, it was the same for her. She would occasionally give me a blow job, but she wanted to preserve my hard cock for her cunt.
Then even after we started screwing shortly before our marriage, a lot of oral sex was involved in our foreplay. Indeed, I would lick her to at least one orgasm before I fucked her. Needless to say, it was the same for her. She would occasionally give me a blow job, but she wanted to preserve my hard cock for her cunt.
CuriousinPennsylvania
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I've always made my wife come first before we'd fuck.
Reasons:
1) I am very oral and love eating cunt. This started with my very first sexual experiences with a woman, and continued with all of my girlfriends - I always ate pussy. And - not by my choice, but I only fucked one of the girls I was with prior to my wife.
2) I love 69 and have been able to hold off coming until I make my wife come. Actually, I prefer coming from oral rather than from fucking.
3) I'd come really quick when I'd feel a warm wet pussy envelop my cock, so it's my duty to make her come before I do - BUT, I love to see and feel her response when she comes. It's just so sexual, sensual, and beautiful.
4) I don't think my wife ever came just from fucking. Like most women, she needs clitoral stimulation.
5) Also, she's one and done. She's always too sensitive, so if she doesn't come before we fuck, the opportunity may be lost. I think she's only come more than once on one occasion - "at my insistence".
Reasons:
1) I am very oral and love eating cunt. This started with my very first sexual experiences with a woman, and continued with all of my girlfriends - I always ate pussy. And - not by my choice, but I only fucked one of the girls I was with prior to my wife.
2) I love 69 and have been able to hold off coming until I make my wife come. Actually, I prefer coming from oral rather than from fucking.
3) I'd come really quick when I'd feel a warm wet pussy envelop my cock, so it's my duty to make her come before I do - BUT, I love to see and feel her response when she comes. It's just so sexual, sensual, and beautiful.
4) I don't think my wife ever came just from fucking. Like most women, she needs clitoral stimulation.
5) Also, she's one and done. She's always too sensitive, so if she doesn't come before we fuck, the opportunity may be lost. I think she's only come more than once on one occasion - "at my insistence".
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Stephie02
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It was different for me. I usually made a guy go first, then me. Kinda needed to make him go for me to get really into it, then he'd last longer, usually. There were times when I didn't orgasm at all but I was actually ok with that. No wonder I only date women now
DemimondeDenizen
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Almost always her first.
Some times we end up with me on top in 69 edging her. I use my tongue, fingers and toys while she sucks on me. After bring her to the edge, she’ll say something like “what would you do if I tried to escape?” That my cue to hold her legs open hard, put more of my weight on her and up the intensity even more. I know she’s submitting fully when she puts her arms over her head. Then I really go at her pussy, fuck her face and maybe through in the shocker. She will always cum this way and usually I go simultaneously with her. If not, she’ll want doggy.
Many other times after some making out, getting a bit of sucking, I’ll fingering her, go downtown, finish her and then finish in doggy.
She recently mentioned that sometimes, if I’m taking awhile to finish inside her pussy, she gets sore. So we started occasionally mixing it up and instead of always ladies first, sometimes we’ll play around and then I just rail her until I cream pie her pussy. Then I’ll finger and eat her until she orgasms. I’m task oriented, so my initial squeamishness gets overcum (lol) and I dine sloppy and love it. She loves it as well as she can snuggle right down without then having to then finish me.
Some times we end up with me on top in 69 edging her. I use my tongue, fingers and toys while she sucks on me. After bring her to the edge, she’ll say something like “what would you do if I tried to escape?” That my cue to hold her legs open hard, put more of my weight on her and up the intensity even more. I know she’s submitting fully when she puts her arms over her head. Then I really go at her pussy, fuck her face and maybe through in the shocker. She will always cum this way and usually I go simultaneously with her. If not, she’ll want doggy.
Many other times after some making out, getting a bit of sucking, I’ll fingering her, go downtown, finish her and then finish in doggy.
She recently mentioned that sometimes, if I’m taking awhile to finish inside her pussy, she gets sore. So we started occasionally mixing it up and instead of always ladies first, sometimes we’ll play around and then I just rail her until I cream pie her pussy. Then I’ll finger and eat her until she orgasms. I’m task oriented, so my initial squeamishness gets overcum (lol) and I dine sloppy and love it. She loves it as well as she can snuggle right down without then having to then finish me.
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KatieKulka32
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I have no problem waiting my turn, but if a guy makes me cum before sex, I will likely be very willing, pliant, and accede to just about any of his desires during sex.
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That’s a prerequisite when having sex with me. Assuming it is someone I care about.
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A gentleman always lets the woman cum first
Now that's something that we like to hear! I take this to mean that you are still very aroused after your first orgasm and still eager for intercourse.
Live4themoments
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I was always under the impression it was a given for her to cum before me. The few exceptions I can recall is with one woman who I was with for about a year. She wanted to make me cum first, which being the gentleman I agreed lol. Her idea of sex was making sure I was well taken care of, multiple times. interestingly though, she wasn't a sub per se, but she did enjoy mild restraints and light bondage at times. It took a few occasions to convince her that I actually get more pleasure giving her orgasms first, possibly due to my desires building up while giving her oral. She actually agreed that sex was better for her (and me) if she cums first.
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It took me a few years with my first wife to get this into place, but once I got the hang of fingering my wife's pussy and she had a hard orgasm, I was totally sold. As time went on during our 15 yrs of marriage, I would also lick her pussy after fingering her, and then do a slow cock fuck so I didn't go off too soon. I got good at licking an sucking her tits, and her asshole. It all went well till she started to cheat on me. If she had said something about it I may have consented but she was quite open to making me look stupid. I did the next best thing, I got him fires since he worked for the same Company.
TheEternalBeachBum
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I’d submit that the whole encounter, from the moment you first touch, till the last of you falls asleep, is the “main event.”
ThunderTongue69
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AND the more likely you'll be invited back for a repeat encounter
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Its the best. My wife begs for cock after I make her cum.
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Service leadership is the best type of dominance there is…
Ask any of the ladies I’ve been talking to if I’ve demanded an orgasm first…
Or if I get them one first
Even the submissive ones who are saying “Sir first!”
I want all of you to feel pleasure… so yes… me first…
Go.
Ask any of the ladies I’ve been talking to if I’ve demanded an orgasm first…
Or if I get them one first
Even the submissive ones who are saying “Sir first!”
I want all of you to feel pleasure… so yes… me first…
Go.
LegendInMyOwnMind
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That's me up and down whenever I have a multi-orgasmic partner. My ex-wife called it an "orgasm sandwich": she'd cum however much she wanted before intercourse, I'd cum during, and as likely as not she would, then as many times as she wanted after. There were reasons she's my ex, sexual incompatibility not among them.
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LegendInMyOwnMind
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Hopefully, you've been able to do extensive research.You’re a very smart man, indeed…
I can verify this works
Scientifically
