Crushes On Lit Users

Yes I know how you feel.
I've had crushes on here before and I do now on certain listers.

On the outside, I’m all like :
http://media.tumblr.com/tumblr_m1gmwkffKS1r4b9to.gif

But then on the inside :
http://media.tumblr.com/tumblr_m1gmx7CAyp1r4b9to.gif

Then my friends turn to me like :
http://media.tumblr.com/tumblr_m1gn3edzOV1r4b9to.gif

Then I’m like to my friends :
http://media.tumblr.com/tumblr_m1gn4g99LK1r4b9to.gif

My crush looks at me like :
http://media.tumblr.com/tumblr_m1gnbdLmNm1r4b9to.gif

Then he walks away and on the outside I’m all like :
http://media.tumblr.com/tumblr_m1gndsAVSW1r4b9to.gif

Meanwhile on the inside :
http://media.tumblr.com/tumblr_m1gnebfCL11r4b9to.gif



Sooooooo well said!
 
Ok, so I know I'm probably not the only one that has a crush on a Lit user, or even a few, that I'm just too nervous/shy to talk to!
You know, the one that you always see round the threads, and they seem so...unattainable? I feel like I would be annoying that person. It's frustrating!

Is anyone else feeling this pain?

Crush on and have fun!
 
Everyone crushes on someone here....have fun, don't be shy say hello.:)
 
Aye, everyone has a crush.. or two or three or a love. :) And then there's the stalkers...
 
Absolutely.....There are a few women that I have admired from afar. Where I have been hesitant to contact them. Some are because through their posts, they have shown to be having some sort of relationship with another....I wouldn't want to be rude and intrude.

Others make it a challenge because they have info in their profile that implies that, no matter how they respond to posts, the message in their profile seems definitive - no playing allowed. Maybe they need to update the profile if they ARE interested in playing, or maybe they are just flirty. Whatever the situation, I believe No means No. So, even though I am attracted to them, I do not write.

Still others intimidate the shit out of me. They are the, "cool girls in school." Way out of my league...lol....no chance I write them. They might actually smile and talk to me...then what would I do?...:D
 
Absolutely.....There are a few women that I have admired from afar. Where I have been hesitant to contact them. Some are because through their posts, they have shown to be having some sort of relationship with another....I wouldn't want to be rude and intrude.

Others make it a challenge because they have info in their profile that implies that, no matter how they respond to posts, the message in their profile seems definitive - no playing allowed. Maybe they need to update the profile if they ARE interested in playing, or maybe they are just flirty. Whatever the situation, I believe No means No. So, even though I am attracted to them, I do not write.

Still others intimidate the shit out of me. They are the, "cool girls in school." Way out of my league...lol....no chance I write them. They might actually smile and talk to me...then what would I do?...:D

See...Jeff needs to just bite the bullet and say hi to his crushes.:)
 
Absolutely.....There are a few women that I have admired from afar. Where I have been hesitant to contact them. Some are because through their posts, they have shown to be having some sort of relationship with another....I wouldn't want to be rude and intrude.

Others make it a challenge because they have info in their profile that implies that, no matter how they respond to posts, the message in their profile seems definitive - no playing allowed. Maybe they need to update the profile if they ARE interested in playing, or maybe they are just flirty. Whatever the situation, I believe No means No. So, even though I am attracted to them, I do not write.

Still others intimidate the shit out of me. They are the, "cool girls in school." Way out of my league...lol....no chance I write them. They might actually smile and talk to me...then what would I do?...:D
No one is ever out of anyone's "league"... Those are self imposed restrictions. No such thing. If anyone ever says anything to the effect that they are out of your league then they weren't really worth your time in the first place. Always go for it.
 
No one is ever out of anyone's "league"... Those are self imposed restrictions. No such thing. If anyone ever says anything to the effect that they are out of your league then they weren't really worth your time in the first place. Always go for it.

Appreciate the pep talk...and I agree with you...but nobody is telling me they are out of my league....they are out of my league because I am an old, fat, bald, boring geezer...and they are not.... :D
 
No one is ever out of anyone's "league"... Those are self imposed restrictions. No such thing. If anyone ever says anything to the effect that they are out of your league then they weren't really worth your time in the first place. Always go for it.

I agree, go for it worst that can happen is they arent interested...or on a good note you could make a friend or even more!
 
Appreciate the pep talk...and I agree with you...but nobody is telling me they are out of my league....they are out of my league because I am an old, fat, bald, boring geezer...and they are not.... :D

*hands jeff a bottle of self-esteem* take a teaspoon twice a day and then look in the mirror and say, "i am cool, i am smart, i am fun, someone would be lucky to have me!"

That will be $50 for the med and counseling! :D
 
Appreciate the pep talk...and I agree with you...but nobody is telling me they are out of my league....they are out of my league because I am an old, fat, bald, boring geezer...and they are not.... :D

It was more of a general commentary on the topic than directed at you.

And for the record, you are far from boring. No clue about the rest of those topics though :p
 
Meh, what Thandi said. Just say hi. You never know where it will go, but it's not going anywhere if you don't take that first step.

I've made a few good friends from Lit, and learned something from every person I've interacted with.
 
*hands jeff a bottle of self-esteem* take a teaspoon twice a day and then look in the mirror and say, "i am cool, i am smart, i am fun, someone would be lucky to have me!"

That will be $50 for the med and counseling! :D

Dang. That is a steal
 
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