Crushes On Lit Users

I've had a few over the years...have a few now...wish a few thought of me that way, but don't we all?

As everyone has said, say Hi, take a chance, if they are mean, then they weren't worth the crush in the first place.
 
you have to step out of your Comfort zone Sometimes, which can be hard. I suppose I had a few crushes here and there, but never pursued because seldom does anything good come from that.
Now, friends? I have a plenty round these parts. And they know my PM is always open if they need someone to listen.
 
How can someone NOT have a crush on a romantic swordsman??

Very easily it seems. :p

Then that would definitely have been their loss.
Ah, even more motivation for me not be one of the losers :p

I'm nothing much to lose, lol.
And if any ladies have acrush on me, by all means, let me know.

I tend to be oblivious to such things, and I'm shy about messaging the other person first.
 
I think Lit was made for crushes. Over the years I have had many, but doubt any have had one on me. There are a few I will always think of fondly. And a few I may never, ever get out of my head.

To those who have shyly never said a word to their crushes, I say- Step up, say hello, it may just make your day. Or it may make a lifetime for you.
 
There are at least3 posters on this thread I haven't yet spoken to properly I have a crush on. Four if you count Tolyk... ;)

(FYI Tolyk - just kiddin'...)
 
on any forum there is a "royalty" contingent - and most newcomers will step carefully around them until they work out the lay of the land. I know there's a couple of posters who I've already noticed who fit the bill.

I think you're lovely, from the posts I've happened to seen. And I think you should just connect with whoever you want to because you're you - and if they can't see that then fuck 'em
 
I get crushes all the time on lit people.....I'm not a player, I just crush alot :)
 
I think it's inevitable. Especially if reading thru the PG their comments intrigue you or turn you on. The next time you see their name in a forum you get excited and can't wait to see if they've shared any new posts. At least, that's how it was for me here when I had a crush. :D
 
I'm just constantly amazed at the pleasantness and supportive tone here (yea, I mostly stay out of the GB, except for Girl Talk).

Since anybody can easily be an asshole anonymously, it's nice that so few people choose to be that way.
 
The good thing about Lit is that there is a level of anonymity that you can sorta hide behind and of course everyone has had a Lit crush or someone that they thought Oh dear that is one awesome person.... And normally if you reach out to them they typically are PRETTY Awesome.

I learned a long time ago the word "Hi" goes a really long way and i have managed to make some truly amazing connections with people on here because I said Hi or they did
 
I have crushes, interests, avoidances, curious-abouts, and 'holy cow, if we ever spoke I'd probably orgasm before the first word was completeds'

That's why I come here.. :D
 
on any forum there is a "royalty" contingent - and most newcomers will step carefully around them until they work out the lay of the land. I know there's a couple of posters who I've already noticed who fit the bill.

I think you're lovely, from the posts I've happened to seen. And I think you should just connect with whoever you want to because you're you - and if they can't see that then fuck 'em

Assuming you're talking to me...thank you, what a lovely thing to say! (If not it's still nice) And good advice too. :)
 
I have two main crushes that everyone knows about...and I'm very fond of a few others....;):rose:
 
I've had a few crushes, and I've made some amazing friendships. I'd like to think that I'm easy to talk to. There are some really great people here that I admire.
 
There are a few that I would say I lust after, if not just for their avatar and playfulness on the board
 
It has been fun getting to know some sexy Litster's, but I only have one crush, and some beautiful friendships. :kiss:
 
Lit was made for crushes, and I don't think anybody that is even a semi-regular poster here is annoyed at someone new noticing them.

I used to have a self-imposed rule about PM'ing first, mostly because I know any outspoken gal here will have a following of leg humpers. But tap dancing around someone for months gets neither of you anywhere. Think of all the time wasted when you could be chatting to each other!


Ofcourse even after all that there's still one or three crushes I haven't PM'd.

:eek:
 
Lit was made for crushes, and I don't think anybody that is even a semi-regular poster here is annoyed at someone new noticing them.

I used to have a self-imposed rule about PM'ing first, mostly because I know any outspoken gal here will have a following of leg humpers. But tap dancing around someone for months gets neither of you anywhere. Think of all the time wasted when you could be chatting to each other!


Ofcourse even after all that there's still one or three crushes I haven't PM'd.

:eek:

You, shy?? Seriously? What the heck are you waiting for!
 
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