Crushes On Lit Users

Just be yourself, and people who like what that is will seek you out. And seek out those who post in a way that indicates you'd like them as a person. I think the nature of this place is such that people are predisposed to be sociable
 
Oh man, I hope I didn't start a bitching thread :(
Let's start a group hug thread <3

I like all of the women who have responded to this thread. I'm starting to look up to y'all :)

nope hun it's cool. if anything this thread has been a way to help us all realize it's okay to admit that we have crushes.

hell yeah. we're all bad ass bitches. we all rock!
 
I'm not so sure I'm an ideal role model! Just do your own thing, you'll find your niche soon enough!

I don't know, not in the role model sense, just like in the experienced Lit user sense. Idk. I'll get my foot out of my mouth now. :D
 
I don't know, not in the role model sense, just like in the experienced Lit user sense. Idk. I'll get my foot out of my mouth now. :D

ydahecnot gave some really great advice.

You'll get there. I've been around Lit for just over a year now, and there are still a few posters that intimidate me a bit.
 
ydahecnot gave some really great advice.

You'll get there. I've been around Lit for just over a year now, and there are still a few posters that intimidate me a bit.

To prove your point:
I've been here 3 and a half years (ish).
I'm still intimidated by a LOT of posters. I should take my own advice and not let it get to me.... :cool:
 
Photograph's imprimatur is affirmation that I wasn't just doing my usual mindless rambling
 
To prove your point:
I've been here 3 and a half years (ish).
I'm still intimidated by a LOT of posters. I should take my own advice and not let it get to me.... :cool:

LOL! There are some that just scare the bejeebus out of me.

Photograph's imprimatur is affirmation that I wasn't just doing my usual mindless rambling

It's never mindless rambling.
 
Be yourself and don't change just to be liked. If you have a connection with somebody you'll know. :rose:
 
TheSilverLining and photograph - to see you post I wouldn't have imagined either of you being afraid to pm anyone. Just shows how you can never read someone here.

I have never pm'd anyone and had a nasty comment back. Some ignores and a couple of throwaway responses, but nothing to actually be worried by.
 
TheSilverLining and photograph - to see you post I wouldn't have imagined either of you being afraid to pm anyone. Just shows how you can never read someone here.

I have never pm'd anyone and had a nasty comment back. Some ignores and a couple of throwaway responses, but nothing to actually be worried by.

Confession? There are only a couple of people I've pm'd first. I rarely send the first PM.
 
TheSilverLining and photograph - to see you post I wouldn't have imagined either of you being afraid to pm anyone. Just shows how you can never read someone here.

I have never pm'd anyone and had a nasty comment back. Some ignores and a couple of throwaway responses, but nothing to actually be worried by.

I've never ever PMed someone and gotten no reply or a nasty reply. Don't be afraid...we're all just people looking for company, or we wouldn't be here! As long as the PM you send is not a cockatar or a 'hey baby, I got a 10" cock and I can't wait to shove it up your ass and call you Uncle Bob' you're probably going to do just fine.:)
 
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