Crushes On Lit Users

I went to an all girls Catholic high school, we all wore uniforms. Not room for a lot of drama there :D
 
Look, I'm sorry to rain on the parade, but Lit is like high school. Exactly like high school. Now for someone like the OP, the sky is the limit. But for guys like me...and maybe Jeff...it's best to keep your head down and your mouth shut.

Except it's a high school populated by mostly adults.

You guys aren't getting it, if your crush just isn't into you or what you are looking for from her...then anything past the first days rush of PM'ing back & forth just isn't going to work. This kind of bitching seems to be going around this year more than last...there isn't a secret handshake or Magic Sex Fairy that will make things work.

Photo is a cool, independent chick, but we just are not a match. I would have loved it if we were, but we're not. So I have a friend that has a great ass & a rocking AV (even if she's too self deprecating for her own good). Not her fault we didn't immediately fall into torrid phone sex until I could show up at her place with a cane & cuffs. And it's not mine either.

Maybe you guys are just looking in the wrong places with the wrong mindset. Lit isn't really a meat market, it's a place for adults to chat frankly about sexual desires. If a connection is made, great. If not, it's nobody's "fault".

Personally I wish a few crushes stayed crushes instead of falling into the trap of pushing things to a "next level".
 
I loved HS, college was even better. Then again I admit to being tall, a jock, relatively smart and and was upper middle class. I got lucky.

I would say Lit is Lit, unique, empowering for some, a hideaway for others. We all just make our way the best we can.
 
Except it's a high school populated by mostly adults.

You guys aren't getting it, if your crush just isn't into you or what you are looking for from her...then anything past the first days rush of PM'ing back & forth just isn't going to work. This kind of bitching seems to be going around this year more than last...there isn't a secret handshake or Magic Sex Fairy that will make things work.

Photo is a cool, independent chick, but we just are not a match. I would have loved it if we were, but we're not. So I have a friend that has a great ass & a rocking AV (even if she's too self deprecating for her own good). Not her fault we didn't immediately fall into torrid phone sex until I could show up at her place with a cane & cuffs. And it's not mine either.

Maybe you guys are just looking in the wrong places with the wrong mindset. Lit isn't really a meat market, it's a place for adults to chat frankly about sexual desires. If a connection is made, great. If not, it's nobody's "fault".

Personally I wish a few crushes stayed crushes instead of falling into the trap of pushing things to a "next level".


Here, here!!

Take a chance, message your crush, but if it doesn't work then it doesn't. Move on and enjoy the unique folks ya meet along the journey.
 
okay since it's all high school drama in here..damn how did this happen lol...we are all adults.

so let's just all admit that it's cool to crush on each other. c'mon people let's do a group hug here. we're all here either looking for sex, friendship, or dare i say the "L" word..love..

it's all good. we can all get along..i hope.

and fuck it i'm going to admit right here in front of ALL you guys who i'm crushing on. now don't be laughing at me. :D

my crushes are..drum roll please..oxforddon, sundayschild, jeffissmiling, goodtobebad67, and coacheric.:heart::heart::heart::heart:

There it's out there for all you to know.
 
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Except it's a high school populated by mostly adults.

You guys aren't getting it, if your crush just isn't into you or what you are looking for from her...then anything past the first days rush of PM'ing back & forth just isn't going to work. This kind of bitching seems to be going around this year more than last...there isn't a secret handshake or Magic Sex Fairy that will make things work.

Photo is a cool, independent chick, but we just are not a match. I would have loved it if we were, but we're not. So I have a friend that has a great ass & a rocking AV (even if she's too self deprecating for her own good). Not her fault we didn't immediately fall into torrid phone sex until I could show up at her place with a cane & cuffs. And it's not mine either.

Maybe you guys are just looking in the wrong places with the wrong mindset. Lit isn't really a meat market, it's a place for adults to chat frankly about sexual desires. If a connection is made, great. If not, it's nobody's "fault".

Personally I wish a few crushes stayed crushes instead of falling into the trap of pushing things to a "next level".

I agree with this tenfold!:rose:
 
okay since it's all high school drama in here..damn how did this happen lol...we are all adults.

so let's just all admit that it's cool to crush on each other. c'mon people let's do a group hug here. we're all here either looking for sex, friendship, or dare i say the "L" word..love..

it's all good. we can all get along..i hope.

Group hug!!!!
 
I loved HS, college was even better. Then again I admit to being tall, a jock, relatively smart and and was upper middle class. I got lucky.

I would say Lit is Lit, unique, empowering for some, a hideaway for others. We all just make our way the best we can.

I'm sure you "got lucky".:D
 
Except it's a high school populated by mostly adults.

You guys aren't getting it, if your crush just isn't into you or what you are looking for from her...then anything past the first days rush of PM'ing back & forth just isn't going to work. This kind of bitching seems to be going around this year more than last...there isn't a secret handshake or Magic Sex Fairy that will make things work.

Photo is a cool, independent chick, but we just are not a match. I would have loved it if we were, but we're not. So I have a friend that has a great ass & a rocking AV (even if she's too self deprecating for her own good). Not her fault we didn't immediately fall into torrid phone sex until I could show up at her place with a cane & cuffs. And it's not mine either.

Maybe you guys are just looking in the wrong places with the wrong mindset. Lit isn't really a meat market, it's a place for adults to chat frankly about sexual desires. If a connection is made, great. If not, it's nobody's "fault".

Personally I wish a few crushes stayed crushes instead of falling into the trap of pushing things to a "next level".

Never thought I would agree with Pork. :rolleyes:

But I agree with Pork. :)

*snowing in hell*
 
Except it's a high school populated by mostly adults.

You guys aren't getting it, if your crush just isn't into you or what you are looking for from her...then anything past the first days rush of PM'ing back & forth just isn't going to work. This kind of bitching seems to be going around this year more than last...there isn't a secret handshake or Magic Sex Fairy that will make things work.

Photo is a cool, independent chick, but we just are not a match. I would have loved it if we were, but we're not. So I have a friend that has a great ass & a rocking AV (even if she's too self deprecating for her own good). Not her fault we didn't immediately fall into torrid phone sex until I could show up at her place with a cane & cuffs. And it's not mine either.

Maybe you guys are just looking in the wrong places with the wrong mindset. Lit isn't really a meat market, it's a place for adults to chat frankly about sexual desires. If a connection is made, great. If not, it's nobody's "fault".

Personally I wish a few crushes stayed crushes instead of falling into the trap of pushing things to a "next level".

Very well said. I've had a few crushes that I spent a lot of time pm'ing back and forth with, only to find out we're not as compatible as I'd hoped. However, I have made a few friends that are worth keeping in touch with. And, there are those who never fail to bring a smile to my face.

You can find connections in the strangest of ways. Luv and I weren't crushing on each other when we started pm'ing back and forth, we were just snarky and exchanging banter. The crush developed later. I wasn't looking for anything from him, and he had no expectations of me. It just happened when neither of us was paying attention.

And I am not self-deprecating. I just don't see myself the way others do. And I'll admit, I suck at taking compliments.
 
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