Cucking and Watching

[Thor9550]

Hello Anke,
I have just read your post to Cucking and Watchingon Wednesday at 12.49am.
I found it very kind and loving.
You and Tom have such a loving relationship.
You two are an inspiration.
I have so much empathy with Tom.
He and I are so lucky to be with a woman who completely understands our submissive sexual needs and desires. It can b overwhelming, but it is so comforting to be with a woman who takes control.
Thank you Anke

 

[MakenUhappy]

This has been a fantasy of mine for sometime as well. I am not into humiliation, but more of the wife sharing aspect of it. There are levels to this.

I knew a couple that wanted to get their feet wet and try it, but we’re afraid to take the leap. I ended up having phone sex with his wife on speakerphone while he laid next to her. After she rubbed herself and came, she told him to go down on her, which he did while I was listening on the phone. It was their way of playing it out without actually doing it.

Other times I have been the guy that came over and was with the wife while the husband watched. I never knew what the dynamic was, but would take her lead. It was always about her anyway. The extra guy can be the prop, or he can be in charge. But you never know the dynamic until you get to know them

I am single, and I would love to find a girl someday that I could share with other men. I’ve had past relationships where we have switched with other couples. And watching was always a turn on for me. It was more of a turn on than me being with the other guys wife.

 

[PussLikr71]

I was invited by a couple to share his wife once. They were swingers and often had parties but being married with kids I couldn't always get out. Please know that my wife does know, we hide nothing from each other. She's just not into the lifestyle like I am. So I was out riding my motorcycle one day and ended up being close by to where they lived so I gave him a call and asked if it were ok for me to stop by for a quick meet and greet. It was a Sunday morning and they weren't busy, so it worked out great. Before leaving he watched me fuck her while bent over a sofa in their living room. I shot my load deep inside of her pussy then she made him eat her out. It was my first experience with a couple cucking.

 

[Simkixxx]

It is still a fantasy of mine but I wish it was more than a fantasy; and if I had the opportunity to make it so, I would.

I would love to see my s.o. to be fucked and pleased; it is part of the power exchange to know that she can get her orgasms however she wants, whenever she wants, and with whoever she wants... but I can ONLY get my orgasms however she wants and whenever she wants. I am into the voyeuristic aspect of it, as well as the erotic humiliation aspect of it. Perhaps, it may also come, in part, from a deep seated insecurity of me not being able to satisfy her physically. But I would totally be okay with it being a reality in a relationship.

But as far as the varieties you list, I would be into all of them but the heartbreaking kind. I would want there to be a bond of romance, love and mutual understanding with my partner that if she does what (and who) she does, that it would not be done to "hurt" me, and that the emotional and romantic bond we share would still be there. If that makes sense. But if my mistress/GF got extreme enough to actually ask me to not only watch but to even go far enough as to participate as a "Fluffer" for Her and her lovers in person, that would be a hot way for Her (with a capital aitch) to push my limits, that I might even allow her to do...

I luv the heartbreak one. For my wife to fall in love with her bull but keep me out of pity

 

[PaxNurgle]

But I don't think that would work. She would fall in love with her "bull" but then, more than likely lose all interest in you- both romantically, physically, and even as a companion. And you cannot sustain a relationship on pity.

 

[Playwithmee]

I want more experiences with cucking. It's one of my favorite brain spaces to get into with a man.

There are a few different varieties. The humiliating kind, the heartbreaking kind, the forced kind. Then the fun kind, the teasing kind, and the involved.

I have men who enjoy the fantasy but when it comes down to actually doing it... they chicken out.

Men, is this just left as a fantasy for you or do you actually want to see her fucked and pleased?

I want her to be fucked and pleased! I want her to have anything that she desires, and then reclaim her. For me watching others want what at the end of the day is mine is where my pleasure comes for when watch her seduce others, men or women. And I enjoy her having that power, never let it die.

 

[SPARTAN047]

But I don't think that would work. She would fall in love with her "bull" but then, more than likely lose all interest in you- both romantically, physically, and even as a companion. And you cannot sustain a relationship on pity.

Yes, I fully agree. No relationship I know of ever works that way. If she or he falls in love with someone else they'll see their own spouse as a roadblock in their life and hate them.

I'm never going to deal with the fallout of such a relationship, because I won't encourage it IRL. I if they cheat it'll be on them, and they can handle the consequences. It won't be my problem.

If we're having casual sex and only act out cuckold and cuckquean fantasies, it doesn't matter if they fall in love, you can just stop seeing each other. It might even work better if their new lover has similar fantasies and you can fulfill theirs of being watched, cleaning up, someone else jacking or jilling off to their bodies, and you can leave them to it afterwards without interfering in their relationship.

 

[lowcollar]

I have had fantasies of being cucked by my wife. I would want to be humiliated and forced to take another's bigger cock in both my ass and mouth. I would also like to be forced to watch her suck him off etc. While I love the fantasy, I don't find men attractive in the least, so I might chicken out. However, a pretty trans would be much more likely for me to enjoy. I would love to have my wife calling me names while I ate the tranny cum that she farted out of her ass.