cunnilingue questions

[frisky]

Not going down under is rather unAustralian don't you think?

There's always a few people that spoil your reputation.

 

[Cakegirl]

. . . ravaging and debauchery takes on a whole new meaning away from the cities . . .

Cakegirl checks diary for a good time to have that weekend in the country...

 

[Cakegirl]

A few people have suggested that it's the guys "I'm choosing", but it's not like I go out searching for men that don't go down! I can't imagine my friend is either! And if it's that a particular "type" of guy (city/country/sporty/intellectual/funny/serious, etc) doesn't like to go down, and I go for a particular "type", would that change depending on the country? I mean, if city guys don't go down in Sydney, why would they in LA?

 

[DarkLover]

Actually me going down on my wife is a big turn-on for both of us.

I started giving her oral before she ever gave it to me because I was curious about it. It took me a while to acquire the taste, but now I'm hooked. Just the smell and taste of her is enough to get me going. She doesn't usually cum just from oral, but she loves the sensations. So I give it to her during foreplay and it helps me get turned on too.

So I guess I'm "addicted" to going down on her the way some of the ladies here say they are "addicted" to sucking their men.

DarkLover

 

[Willing and Unsure]

A few people have suggested that it's the guys "I'm choosing", but it's not like I go out searching for men that don't go down! I can't imagine my friend is either! And if it's that a particular "type" of guy (city/country/sporty/intellectual/funny/serious, etc) doesn't like to go down, and I go for a particular "type", would that change depending on the country? I mean, if city guys don't go down in Sydney, why would they in LA?

if it makes you feel any better, my guy now is the first one that has willingly gone down on me by his own free will.

I've dated a variety of different types and it was always the same thing, either they refused cuz it did nothing for them or they would give, only to stop when they thought I was done and ask me to suck them. It all depends on the person, not necessarily their type.

 

[Cakegirl]

or they would give, only to stop when they thought I was done and ask me to suck them.

W&U, I saw your earlier post about this...

That's just rude.

I'd be tempted to suck, and BITE HARD.

 

[Willing and Unsure]

W&U, I saw your earlier post about this...

That's just rude.

I'd be tempted to suck, and BITE HARD.

I claimed that I would have a problem with my jaw where it hurt to much to have it open for long periods of time. It worked well and was semi-true.

 

[crazybbwgirl]

Homer, I don't know how it is for your wife, but we're bombarded with messages (from feminine hygiene commercials to men's comments and jokes) that our genitals are dirty and smelly from a very young age. Even if we know it to be false, we're still incredibly self-concious...it's hard for women even as open as I am to get over that little nagging feeling it's "wrong" or "gross" or something men feel obligated to do.

I'd also caution you to heed Bobmi's warning from a different thread (paraphrased): The opinions you hear on Lit aren't necessarily representative of the population at large. In other words, just because most of us like receiving oral, doesn't mean your wife's dislike is abnormal in any way.

This is soooooo true. We watch and listen to you guys laugh about 'fishy' jokes. Then we're supposed to relax and open up for you after that!??! Its not that easy. And it only takes one idiot to make us uncomfortable for years. A former lover of mine (who was younger and inexperienced I'll admit) gagged and told me I had too much 'juice' down there and I was 'drowning' him. Well - gee - that made me feel really self conscious for quite awile.

Another thing is - many men don't have a clue what they're doing down there. I mean - you should at least know where my clit is - that would be a help - or that I HAVE a clit would be a good start! lol

But I agree with those that said age makes all the difference. I quit fooling around with younger men (after the 'drowning' remark). My current lover is 8 years older than me and he was taught the art of oral by two old lesbian friends. I swear if I knew who they were I'd send them both a dozen roses every week!

 

[LadyJeanne]

This is soooooo true. We watch and listen to you guys laugh about 'fishy' jokes. Then we're supposed to relax and open up for you after that!??! Its not that easy. And it only takes one idiot to make us uncomfortable for years. A former lover of mine (who was younger and inexperienced I'll admit) gagged and told me I had too much 'juice' down there and I was 'drowning' him. Well - gee - that made me feel really self conscious for quite awile.

Another thing is - many men don't have a clue what they're doing down there. I mean - you should at least know where my clit is - that would be a help - or that I HAVE a clit would be a good start! lol

oh, you speak such truth!!!

 

[fabricator]

Sounds like this thread has gone a little off topic......but.... My wife has multiple o's from oral attention much easier than from penetration. And I just LOVE doing it, and have since we first got together 15 years ago. Perhaps in that respect we're a good match. On the other hand, I have received VERY little oral from her in all these years. Don't know why, never pressed her for a reason. I was never going to make her do anything she wasn't into. Lately, the tables have turned, seems I'm getting more than I'm giving.

 

[Gil_T2]

A few people have suggested that it's the guys "I'm choosing", but it's not like I go out searching for men that don't go down! I can't imagine my friend is either! And if it's that a particular "type" of guy (city/country/sporty/intellectual/funny/serious, etc) doesn't like to go down, and I go for a particular "type", would that change depending on the country? I mean, if city guys don't go down in Sydney, why would they in LA?

HEY I'm a Sydney guy & by the posts here from AUSSIES from around the CUNTry do like going down on a lady so a recount of your choice of male needs revision.

 

[taolanes]

Re: Re: cunnilingue questions

mmmm, tell her how much you love to lick her, how sweet she smells, tell her how it makes your cock hard to taste her pussy.

then when you're between her legs, show her how much you love it and how much it turns you on - savor it! look up into her eyes as you're licking. slip a finger or two inside. she'll be wet.

people like you remind me why I love life

 

[pink swirl]

Re: Re: Re: cunnilingue questions

people like you remind me why I love life

 

[Quoll]

Re: Re: what a relief!

So it's still a bit of foreplay to me and I'm usually very much so wanting to be fucked.

I should bloody well hope so,after all it`s not the main course it`s just the appetiser. If your not getting a good dose of BOTH then your getting screwed,!? well actually your not, but you should be *scratches head* oh you now what I mean.

If a MAN can`t hit the right spots then some subtle hints might be needed. Now remember this is a MAN so be subtle eg, *yawn* yeah thats really good = Damnit you missed.
*Grab Hair, shove head further in, re-enact head scene from exorcist*= Yes dear that`s the right spot.

 

[wicked woman]

Originally posted by Gil_T2
G'ady WW please don't discard AUSSIE she has just picked the wrong guys to bed, eating pussy is a pleasure for this Aussie & I'm sure if we ran a question for just AUSSIES you'd find most also enjoy it too.

Lick ya later.

oh well then.


"Lick ya later" mmm I wish from one who has absolutely no problem opening her legs for some Australian s

 

[wicked woman]

Originally posted by Don K Dyck


Well, I don't know what it is in Canada, but in Oz it is sensuous, sexciting, stimulating and multiple orgasmic . . . and that's before the action starts . . .

But then, a CPA should be able to figure that out . . . don't make two fine points about that . . .

hmmm any chance you're planning a trip from the Aussie bush to the big city in Canada? Sounds more than wonderful.

 

[lick me twice]

getting g/f to enjoy oral

I'm new here and as the name implys I love being licked,
my first time was alot like some of the other posts, scary and embarassing for about twenty seconds then OMG, I've been hooked ever since, Your best bet is to take it real slow, start by getting her really turned on, do something you know is going to drive her wild, push her to the edge and then lick her over it!

 

[Gil_T2]

From my very first oral sex I decided that if a lady was good enough to take me in her mouth I would return the favour & kissing the lady after sucking me isn't & has never been a problem for me.

 

[Don K Dyck]

This is soooooo true. We watch and listen to you guys laugh about 'fishy' jokes. Then we're supposed to relax and open up for you after that!??! Its not that easy. And it only takes one idiot to make us uncomfortable for years. A former lover of mine (who was younger and inexperienced I'll admit) gagged and told me I had too much 'juice' down there and I was 'drowning' him. Well - gee - that made me feel really self conscious for quite awile.

Another thing is - many men don't have a clue what they're doing down there. I mean - you should at least know where my clit is - that would be a help - or that I HAVE a clit would be a good start! lol

But I agree with those that said age makes all the difference. I quit fooling around with younger men (after the 'drowning' remark). My current lover is 8 years older than me and he was taught the art of oral by two old lesbian friends. I swear if I knew who they were I'd send them both a dozen roses every week!

THAT is one sexational av on a thread like this BBW . . . you only get experience with age . . . and you only get skill with experience . . .

 

[Don K Dyck]

hmmm any chance you're planning a trip from the Aussie bush to the big city in Canada? Sounds more than wonderful.

Hmmm . . . why is it that Canadian women are so intrinsically sensuous . . . and yet live in a climate where they can't get their gear off and enoy their sexuality?

Or, in the alternative, do the long 10 month winters with full-on central heating mean that they spend more time practicing indoors because they get sick of watching TV??

 

[Gil_T2]

Hmmm . . . why is it that Canadian women are so intrinsically sensuous . . . and yet live in a climate where they can't get their gear off and enoy their sexuality?

Or, in the alternative, do the long 10 month winters with full-on central heating mean that they spend more time practicing indoors because they get sick of watching TV??

Oh DON as someone who has spent time in the CANADIAN wild west & loved every second of it can't agree in you long winter theory as I have seen amny loverly CANADIAN ladies in sexy clothing wandering around in the spring,summer & fall.

 

[lick me twice]

Oh, I forgot to ask this earlier , would she be willing to go for light bondage? It might help her feel less weirded out about you going down on her, she wouldn't be in control that way and might relax and enjoy it instead of worrying about everything, tease her for awhile first then go for it.
good luck

 

[Willing and Unsure]

Oh, I forgot to ask this earlier , would she be willing to go for light bondage? It might help her feel less weirded out about you going down on her, she wouldn't be in control that way and might relax and enjoy it instead of worrying about everything, tease her for awhile first then go for it.
good luck

that's something to ask your partner. each person is different. I know for us, it's a lot easier on him and less chance of me suffocating him if he's got me tied up (although I guess i still try ). It all just depends on the person as to their likes and dislikes.

 

[wicked woman]

Originally posted by Don K Dyck
Hmmm . . . why is it that Canadian women are so intrinsically sensuous . . . and yet live in a climate where they can't get their gear off and enoy their sexuality?

Or, in the alternative, do the long 10 month winters with full-on central heating mean that they spend more time practicing indoors because they get sick of watching TV??

Oh DON as someone who has spent time in the CANADIAN wild west & loved every second of it can't agree in you long winter theory as I have seen amny loverly CANADIAN ladies in sexy clothing wandering around in the spring,summer & fall.

Gil is correct Don....it's a myth are winters are long and we live in igloos...where I live is actually south of some of the US...and on a one of the great lakes so our winters are moderate.

And even if I was on the prairies where it is deathly cold in winter...you think that would stop us from enjoying our sexuality? More likely an increased need to get warm...and skin on skin works wonderfully

And I'll have you know I very rarely watch TV In fact I'm getting ready to pack some of those clothes you referred to Gil...my bathing suits and camisoles with spaghetti straps where you can't wear a bra underneath...and heading off to a warmer climate for a few days...gotta keep the juices running in case I run across an older Aussie.

 

[Bobmi357]

If you want to drive your woman nuts do what I did, start making love to her. Then after a few minutes, with no warning, stop and go down on her. I've done this a few times, get her good and worked up, then give her an oral orgasm before resuming the main action.

The results from my point of view were pretty good. Frustrated and turned on from what I could see. But if you want her point of view, you'd have to ask her.

Personally I love going down on her. I'd do it daily if she'd let me (maybe even more often).