cunnilingue questions

[Gil_T2]

I believe that more men would go down on women (if they thought they would not be rebuffed) than women who will offer blowjobs. And I wonder it ANY man would refuse to go down on a woman if she asked.

It's part of my general theory that men like to do more differnt things than women.

A young lady I know complained about not being sexually pleased by her B/F & he never took the dive between her loverly legs so just joking told her she needed an older lover to do the job & she turned up next morning & was plesently suprised that this OLDIE got her "off so quick" with his tongue. I'm only to willing to help out where I can.

 

[Gil_T2]

Gil! now who's being wicked?! and aren't you being generous offering to have me share my pics with Don also Actually my friend did take a few pics of me in my bathing suit, and in an oasis on the desert in a camisole, and if I recall correctly...*giggle*....modeling a few corsets I bought....*that may show up as AVs if they turned out at all...well at least the WW standard pose part of them*

but Don's free to PM me for my email addy any time he likes....and yes you with the fading memory and the steam coming off you...you do know where to find me ...ooo in keeping with the thread guess that should be

*Gil waits in eagerly awaiting the bathing suit, camisol & Oh god yes the CORSET pics* my mind is working over time with images of WW.

 

[REMITROM]

Another opinion

Hi Folks,
Just happened to see this thread under new posts.

For several years I managed a strip joint and on quiet evenings in the early part of the week the conversation topics with the dancers were wide-ranging and always uninhibited (not surprising for a group of women who got naked in front of strangers for a living!). Most of the women described themselves as Bi, then Hetro and finally some strictly Lesbian.

On the specific topic of this thread there seemed to be a consensus among the Bi and Lesbian population that they preferred oral sex from a woman because there was less fear that they would perform badly. The Hetero group had a small minority who preferred not to ever be on the receiving end of oral sex.

But the one thing that they (who did participate)all reached a consensus on was that IF they viewed their lover (of either gender) to be a giving person, genuinely interested in insuring that their partner be first given the maximum pleasure before they sought their own release, they felt that there was a "guarantee" that they would have a very pleasurable orgasm. The majority felt that, in great part, this was due to their feeling relaxed and receptive with this type of(unfortunately rare) sex partner.

 

[Diariest]

I did not know that there were women like that, that did not like to get oral sex given tho them . That is how it should be. Or 69. That is good forplay

 

[Don K Dyck]

oh my yes.......hope that wasn't just meant for Gil

Naw, not GIl, he' spoken for . . . and I'm rampantly heterosexual . . .

 

[wicked woman]

Originally posted by Don K Dyck
Naw, not GIl, he' spoken for . . . and I'm rampantly heterosexual . . .

mmmm....well you were disrobing a woman...I'm sure Gil would love to watch....as for me, I couldn't decide if I wanted to be the woman or watch as well.

rampantly! in quasi keeping with the thread

 

[Gil_T2]

Naw, not GIl, he' spoken for . . . and I'm rampantly heterosexual . . .

DON your not the only rampant hetro BUT the loverly BANDIT is openly BI or should that be rampantly BI hehehehehehehe.

 

[wicked woman]

Originally posted by Gil_T2
DON your not the only rampant hetro BUT the loverly BANDIT is openly BI or should that be rampantly BI hehehehehehehe.

Bi is good



*and just where is this ramp?*

 

[Gil_T2]

Bi is good



*and just where is this ramp?*

BANDIT being BI is no problem to me as it is a desire I know I have no hope of filling so she is free to explore it any time.


As for where the RAMP is .....it's DOWNUNDER of course.

 

[wicked woman]

Originally posted by Gil_T2
BANDIT being BI is no problem to me as it is a desire I know I have no hope of filling so she is free to explore it any time.


As for where the RAMP is .....it's DOWNUNDER of course.

Was a general comment that 'bi is good' although I'm not surprised at your comment or understanding.


damn! yeah right....should have guessed it..trying to plan a 4 day vacation....Oz is waaaay too far.

 

[Gil_T2]

Was a general comment that 'bi is good' although I'm not surprised at your comment or understanding.


damn! yeah right....should have guessed it..trying to plan a 4 day vacation....Oz is waaaay too far.

Yes it is a long trip to AUSSIE & I know it is a long trip to CANADA as I have done the trip twice & from departue it's 23 hours to CALGARY but there is 2 lay overs waiting for connecting flights so accross to the east would need even more patience but it would be worth it & you could recoup in the country with DON to look after YOUR needs.

 

[Don K Dyck]

Was a general comment that 'bi is good' although I'm not surprised at your comment or understanding.


damn! yeah right....should have guessed it..trying to plan a 4 day vacation....Oz is waaaay too far.

heheheheh . . . why bother about four days?? The only thing that you would miss in Canada is the long cold winters . . . in Oz we have everything and every climate, except freezing cold forever, although Hobart at the bottom of the south island does get close sometimes . . . <right WQ??>

 

[wicked woman]

Originally posted by Gil_T2
Yes it is a long trip to AUSSIE & I know it is a long trip to CANADA as I have done the trip twice & from departue it's 23 hours to CALGARY but there is 2 lay overs waiting for connecting flights so accross to the east would need even more patience but it would be worth it & you could recoup in the country with DON to look after YOUR needs.

You're getting pretty brazen offering Don's services

 

[wicked woman]

Originally posted by Don K Dyck
heheheheh . . . why bother about four days?? The only thing that you would miss in Canada is the long cold winters . . . in Oz we have everything and every climate, except freezing cold forever, although Hobart at the bottom of the south island does get close sometimes . . . <right WQ??>

Well because I've got holidays I have to take before the end of the year or lose them...and no way that's going to happen.

The only thing I'd miss? What about family? friends? ok ok I wouldn't miss the winters....but really I'm not laid back enough for Oz...born and raised a big city gal...

or am I missing something here?

 

[warrior queen]

heheheheh . . . why bother about four days?? The only thing that you would miss in Canada is the long cold winters . . . in Oz we have everything and every climate, except freezing cold forever, although Hobart at the bottom of the south island does get close sometimes . . . <right WQ??>

rofl - do a quick search thro the forums... and find your name!

hobart isn't that cold, in fact i am probably going to miss it hugely when i go back to the hotter climes of the big island!

 

[Don K Dyck]

Well because I've got holidays I have to take before the end of the year or lose them...and no way that's going to happen.

The only thing I'd miss? What about family? friends? ok ok I wouldn't miss the winters....but really I'm not laid back enough for Oz...born and raised a big city gal...

or am I missing something here?

Yep . . . miles of golden beaches with rolling blue swells breaking as white walls just begging to be surfed . . . patches of rainforest left over after the demise of the timber industry supplying Europe with what was then considered "inferior" timbers suitable only for hidden parts of furniture . . . <didn't they miss out?> . . . a relaxed people who know how to enjoy themselves . . . Don't worry about Gil . . . he's still trying to get over Bandit . . .

 

[wicked woman]

Originally posted by Don K Dyck
Yep . . . miles of golden beaches with rolling blue swells breaking as white walls just begging to be surfed . . . patches of rainforest left over after the demise of the timber industry supplying Europe with what was then considered "inferior" timbers suitable only for hidden parts of furniture . . . <didn't they miss out?> . . . a relaxed people who know how to enjoy themselves . . . Don't worry about Gil . . . he's still trying to get over Bandit . . .

hmmm you flirting with me Don?

As for Gil...I don't think he ever wants to 'get over' Bandit...well ...maybe over, under, on top of, beside

 

[Don K Dyck]

hmmm you flirting with me Don?

As for Gil...I don't think he ever wants to 'get over' Bandit...well ...maybe over, under, on top of, beside

No doubt about it . . . Gil is truly in a muddle . . . you wouldn't think that a grown person could get so soppy . . . he wasn't like this when I first joined Lit . . . must be something in the air, I think . . .

Uhmmm . . . now why would I flirt with an intelligent, articulate, interesting Canadian woman who enjoys life . . .

 

[manofsteel52]

This is something that frustrates me a little. I enjoy the feeling when my husband does it, but I just can't get off on it. I've only had one other guy do it to me, and I couldn't get off on it when he did it either.

I don't know. Maybe I just feel like I should be getting off and the fact that I'm not makes me feel like I'm making him work too hard and then I just fake it so he feels good about himself.

My husband is an awesome guy, but I think I've faked it too many times for us to get it right now. For all I know, I can't have an orgasm from oral alone. I'd feel terrible if he knew he'd never gotten me off that way because he really likes doing it.

(Sigh)

This is one of the dangers of "faking it". As difficult as it may be sometimes, being honset with your partner is crucial. If you're not getting off with oral, chances are, he's just not doing it right, not reading your body signals well. If you fake it, it's gonna be impossible for him to get the signals right.
Most men, unless they're a complete asshole, will gladly take direction fromtheir partner on technique, if you will just have the patience to teach them what feels good to you. Don't forget, most men learn their tricks from porn movies and wht they hear on the street... the odds aren't too great that they'll get it right...
I can't imagine not being able to lick my partner to multiple orgams...

 

[SweetErika]

... If you're not getting off with oral, chances are, he's just not doing it right, not reading your body signals well. ...

I have to disagree...my husband is doing everything right, but I don't get off. After years of hearing messages like "oral is a sure-fire way to orgasm" and "all women get off from oral done right" I started believing there was something very wrong with me and him, even though it was extremely pleasureable. Then I realized (thanks in large part to the women of Lit) that some of us just need more stimulation than oral provides.

 

[bibphi]

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[manofsteel52]

I have to disagree...my husband is doing everything right, but I don't get off. After years of hearing messages like "oral is a sure-fire way to orgasm" and "all women get off from oral done right" I started believing there was something very wrong with me and him, even though it was extremely pleasureable. Then I realized (thanks in large part to the women of Lit) that some of us just need more stimulation than oral provides.

I'm not trying to make anyone feel "bad", and I didn't say that every single woman can get off from oral, but I do still believe that those who can'tare in the minority, just as there are men who can't get off from oral, but they are a definite minority.
I also know there are lot's of men who do it, but begrudgingly... and just asa woman giving a blow job, the mechanics are not nearly as important as her attitude. If she's not into doing it, she won't be all that effective.

 

[Bandit58]

hmmm you flirting with me Don?

As for Gil...I don't think he ever wants to 'get over' Bandit...well ...maybe over, under, on top of, beside

*giggles* Hey so this is why my ears are burning

 

[wicked woman]

Originally posted by Bandit58
*giggles* Hey so this is why my ears are burning

only in the nicest of ways of course Bandit... enjoy.....

 

[Bandit58]

only in the nicest of ways of course Bandit... enjoy.....

Oh I do....lots......