Cyber or Phone?
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After the initial novelty rubbed off (so to speak) cyber or phone doesn't do it for me UNLESS...it is with that special someone OR we share a special interest. For me that is an addiction to masturbation, I have two online female friends who share my addiction and every once in a while we hook up to either cyber or phone as we talk about masturbation and masturbate together. I have also had my webcam on a few times to add to my exhibitionistic excitement. But--only if we share that obsession with exposing our masturbatory pleasure with each other, then even cybering can be very hot and messy fun. Sadly these occasions are too rare.
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Wow, the light bulb went off for me just recently, with a fellow Lit member...phone is phun, and phallically-phenomenal phor me. Cyber, whyber?...thank you , Alexander Graham Bell and my phone-mate
Wow, the light bulb went off for me just recently, with a fellow Lit member...phone is phun, and phallically-phenomenal phor me. Cyber, whyber?...thank you , Alexander Graham Bell and my phone-mate
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respect and discrection
Having enjoyed my share of intimate conversations, one thing above all cannot be ignored, if you are asking the person to open themselves to you to that degree of personal vulnerability, the unspoken agreement is the assurance of discrection and respect. Just because a person has chosen to spend some time in an erotic conversation does not imply that you have license to assume they wish more than that level of contact nor that they are seeking to end any commited relationships in their personal lives because of a mutualy satisfying phone meeting. I find that women, more than men, seek a brief if only one-time phone adventure to let themselves be someone that in their real life situation they may not, for whatever reason, choose to pursue. Bottom-line: respect and discrection will reward you more than following your own urges, the net's a huge never-closing singles bar, meeting people there who want a quick and dirty chat is easy, finding ones worth a second conversation is rare.....
Having enjoyed my share of intimate conversations, one thing above all cannot be ignored, if you are asking the person to open themselves to you to that degree of personal vulnerability, the unspoken agreement is the assurance of discrection and respect. Just because a person has chosen to spend some time in an erotic conversation does not imply that you have license to assume they wish more than that level of contact nor that they are seeking to end any commited relationships in their personal lives because of a mutualy satisfying phone meeting. I find that women, more than men, seek a brief if only one-time phone adventure to let themselves be someone that in their real life situation they may not, for whatever reason, choose to pursue. Bottom-line: respect and discrection will reward you more than following your own urges, the net's a huge never-closing singles bar, meeting people there who want a quick and dirty chat is easy, finding ones worth a second conversation is rare.....
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I have been on lit for a few months and have cybered quite a bit. I just recently talked on the phone (not phone sex) with someone I had met here. As other posters have said here, phone is much more personal, which may be good or bad depending on what you are looking for.
I enjoy writing and can type fairly fast, so cyber can be a lot of fun when I'm in a creative mood. I am really more interested in getting the woman I am cybering with to cum than I am in getting myself off, but the women usually want to please me too and I have found ways to get myself off and type at the same time
I do wonder sometimes about whether the women are faking it, and I suppose it does happen, but then again why go through the motions if you aren't into it. When I first started "playing," I was amazed at how effective it can be, and it is a real turn-on to hear the women describe what they are doing to themselves as I describe what I'm imagining doing to them.
I guess that is the thing about cyber, so much is left to the imagination, but because of that, when you get a good fantasy going, it can be really intense!
I enjoy writing and can type fairly fast, so cyber can be a lot of fun when I'm in a creative mood. I am really more interested in getting the woman I am cybering with to cum than I am in getting myself off, but the women usually want to please me too and I have found ways to get myself off and type at the same time
I do wonder sometimes about whether the women are faking it, and I suppose it does happen, but then again why go through the motions if you aren't into it. When I first started "playing," I was amazed at how effective it can be, and it is a real turn-on to hear the women describe what they are doing to themselves as I describe what I'm imagining doing to them.
I guess that is the thing about cyber, so much is left to the imagination, but because of that, when you get a good fantasy going, it can be really intense!
wethorny_angel
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i would have to say i enjoy cyber more
WhiteRose
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Phone phone phone phone phone, although...
Cybering can be fun, and it's GREAT as a tease working up to a phone call.
But when I began having phone sex with my ex, I really got into it. Hearing his voice, listening to his sounds, even listening to him cooking dinner in the kitchen while we talked made it feel as if we were physically together, and having his voice be the last thing I heard before drifting off to sleep after a wonderful lovemaking session was almost like having him here.
Cybering can be fun, and it's GREAT as a tease working up to a phone call.
This is me too. I don't even have a regular desk chair, I have basically a stool with wheels, so it is very uncomfortable to really do much here. When I first came online and started cyberring, I did have orgasms sometimes sitting here at the keyboard, but not always, and now after getting into phone sex, I need to be in a more comfortable place and position. I did have a cyber-sweetie that ruined two keyboards when he became a bit over-excited, which was rather amusing
But when I began having phone sex with my ex, I really got into it. Hearing his voice, listening to his sounds, even listening to him cooking dinner in the kitchen while we talked made it feel as if we were physically together, and having his voice be the last thing I heard before drifting off to sleep after a wonderful lovemaking session was almost like having him here.
Definatley Phone... explore the possiblilties!!
Cyber is somewhat difficult to get off with when your typing and trying to satisisfy yourself at the same time. Phone is definately better!!
My husband and I have tried a new twist on this one. We love to get it on while my hubby is talking to another woman. The two of them have some really hot phone sex, mentally he is totally with this other woman while physically he is with me. Our past experiences have been VERY hot, both of us and the women we have talked too. Some have even requested repeat calls! And they feel safer giving us their number. Anyone interested? <g> Email us!!!
Cyber is somewhat difficult to get off with when your typing and trying to satisisfy yourself at the same time. Phone is definately better!!
My husband and I have tried a new twist on this one. We love to get it on while my hubby is talking to another woman. The two of them have some really hot phone sex, mentally he is totally with this other woman while physically he is with me. Our past experiences have been VERY hot, both of us and the women we have talked too. Some have even requested repeat calls! And they feel safer giving us their number. Anyone interested? <g> Email us!!!
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I enjoy both
I enjoy both cyber and phone, but I prefer phone. I agree with a lot of you that cyber can be difficult, not to mention a sticky keyboard! Over the phone you can enjoy the other person's excitement, which only heightens yours. I think the thing that makes both enjoyable is when you do them with some one you know and have established somesort of relationship with, be it friends or something more. I Have yahoo messenger and just got a webcam, I thinik cybering is going to become more intesesting!
I enjoy both cyber and phone, but I prefer phone. I agree with a lot of you that cyber can be difficult, not to mention a sticky keyboard! Over the phone you can enjoy the other person's excitement, which only heightens yours. I think the thing that makes both enjoyable is when you do them with some one you know and have established somesort of relationship with, be it friends or something more. I Have yahoo messenger and just got a webcam, I thinik cybering is going to become more intesesting!
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Both but...
Well, cyber did it for me completely, especially with that special someone.
When we ventured into phone, it was just the amazement of hearing each other say "I love you".
Then having that first phone "adventure"! Wow!! The only thing better will be when we are actually in each other's arms.
Wow
Well, cyber did it for me completely, especially with that special someone.
When we ventured into phone, it was just the amazement of hearing each other say "I love you".
Then having that first phone "adventure"! Wow!! The only thing better will be when we are actually in each other's arms.
Wow
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What kind of cyberring do you prefer?
ICQ, IM's, PM's, chatrooms, or private chatrooms? What's the most annoying thing to you about cybering?
For me, I need a little more constant stimulation than PM's bring. Getting that immediate feedback in private chats is probably my favorite. Gettting interupted by a lost conn or inattentive partner annoys me. My ex wasn't fond of cyberring. Oh, he enjoyed me sending him little teasing messages, but the two times I could get him into private chat, he kept leaving the room to go surf wrestling sites. He was better on the phone
ICQ, IM's, PM's, chatrooms, or private chatrooms? What's the most annoying thing to you about cybering?
For me, I need a little more constant stimulation than PM's bring. Getting that immediate feedback in private chats is probably my favorite. Gettting interupted by a lost conn or inattentive partner annoys me. My ex wasn't fond of cyberring. Oh, he enjoyed me sending him little teasing messages, but the two times I could get him into private chat, he kept leaving the room to go surf wrestling sites. He was better on the phone
As a writer of erotica, I would much rather cyber, and do with a slelect group of friends. It is easier for me to be what they wish me to be if they don't hear the sound of my voice. If I had a strong, basso voice, it might be different, but I have more of a baritone voice and it gives away, I believe, some of my mystique. I'd definitely do phone if I was a woman with a sexy voice. With the right person, I could do phone but I haven't found her yet.
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Well I like both cybering and phone sex for different reasons.
Cybering as your creating the mood more, being descriptive about what your doing. The best way I personally have found to get both sides all the way is to take it in turns, cause really its difficult to type one handed, but this I would only recommend with someone you know well. I have found too many guys leave when they are done without even saying anything to you ...very rude.
Phone sex can be fantastic with someone you have gotten to know well. I don't tend to do that as much due to time factors, distractions and the degree of trust needed to give out my number. Hearing their breathing as they become more aroused, hearing their hands stroking up and down their shafts, building up to the peak of orgasm.With phone sex if I lose where we are at so to speak my moaning is often enough to get the other person off anyway. It can be very intimate to share an orgasm over the phone.
Cybering as your creating the mood more, being descriptive about what your doing. The best way I personally have found to get both sides all the way is to take it in turns, cause really its difficult to type one handed, but this I would only recommend with someone you know well. I have found too many guys leave when they are done without even saying anything to you ...very rude.
Phone sex can be fantastic with someone you have gotten to know well. I don't tend to do that as much due to time factors, distractions and the degree of trust needed to give out my number. Hearing their breathing as they become more aroused, hearing their hands stroking up and down their shafts, building up to the peak of orgasm.With phone sex if I lose where we are at so to speak my moaning is often enough to get the other person off anyway. It can be very intimate to share an orgasm over the phone.
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Cyber is fun in that you get to know what the woman you're talking with enjoys, and hopefully some of her fantasies. I'm too long winded and descriptive, though, so I don't get as much out of it as some, I always have both hands on the Keyboard. Phone, on the other hand, lets you relax and close your eyes and imagine what you and your partner are doing as its being described, in addition to the fact that type can enver replace the sound of another voice, moans, the ability to hear what the other person is doing. Overall, I much prefer phone to cyber.
Re: cam
I have, and it can be great fun! Unfortunately there always seems to be something lacking. Either the other person doesn't have a cam, or the sound isn't working, or something.
I would be a blast to hook up with some hot lady, cam to cam with voice working. Very hot.
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I have, and it can be great fun! Unfortunately there always seems to be something lacking. Either the other person doesn't have a cam, or the sound isn't working, or something.
I would be a blast to hook up with some hot lady, cam to cam with voice working. Very hot.
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have had chats with some wonderful ladies 30mins and longer no problems quite exciting most of the ladies love to watch me masturbating
have had chats with some wonderful ladies 30mins and longer no problems quite exciting most of the ladies love to watch me masturbating
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