Dear Litster...

[butterfly_flip]

I like to play it for money

Are you any good?

 

[MrEd63]

Are you any good?

Not bad - if that doesn't sound too immodest

 

[butterfly_flip]

Actually, yes. I have seen the proof. The person who accused Ellapure did not just come out of the blue with accusations that have no basis.

Though I have watched most of this from the sidelines, Ellapure's "calling out" on this thread of the wife in question just seemed a bit...too rehearsed, perhaps? Too carefully worded? Almost as though she had been planning it from the day the wife found out about the situation.

The only "innocent" here was the wife. Everyone else is guilty as charged.

Dear Knowing Litster

Tis a sad old day when such dramas are played out in public.

Car crash watching Litster

 

[butterfly_flip]

Not bad - if that doesn't sound too immodest

Well if you play for money, you'd have to be seriously stupid to play and NOT be good at it

 

[MrEd63]

Well if you play for money, you'd have to be seriously stupid to play and NOT be good at it

I've always been able to work the odds on that sort of thing
More importantly, I've always known when the games not worth the candle

 

[butterfly_flip]

I've always been able to work the odds on that sort of thing
More importantly, I've always known when the games not worth the candle

Then you'd be way better at it than I.

 

[MrEd63]

Then you'd be way better at it than I.

There are no easy or hard questions - just ones you know or don't know the answer to

 

[butterfly_flip]

There are no easy or hard questions - just ones you know or don't know the answer to

See when we play it, it tends to be when large groups of people are together, so we play in teams. Tis easy to hide one's lack of knowledge in that setting.

 

[SimoneLisbon]

I give a fuck whenever someone will allow me to. Otherwise I am just a sign holder outside of a business dancing around until someone is ready for me to give them one of my fucks. One minute I am holding a clearance sale or liquidation sign and the next i am in the back of a toyota giving someone a fuck.

I am not too fond of games that make me look ridiculously stupid. That is why Jeopardy is forbidden in my household. No one should know the Choreographer's assistant to the director in the movie Flashdance.

What is "I don't give a fuck Alex"

Dear Give A Fuck/Smart Game-Hater,

BWAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAAHAHAHAHAHAHa!!!!

Missed you a lot when you were sick, so glad you're feeling better...

Fan Of Your Posts

 

[sunshinegirl05]

Actually, yes. I have seen the proof. The person who accused Ellapure did not just come out of the blue with accusations that have no basis.

Though I have watched most of this from the sidelines, Ellapure's "calling out" on this thread of the wife in question just seemed a bit...too rehearsed, perhaps? Too carefully worded? Almost as though she had been planning it from the day the wife found out about the situation.

The only "innocent" here was the wife. Everyone else is guilty as charged.

I think what everyone is trying to say....the two of them...actually the three of them......the wife...the mistress and the husband....need to deal with this off of the board...in private.

This is a sex site. People are going to engage in behavior that not everyone is going to agree with. When the wife keeps bringing up things......and it is apparent that she is not getting answers......she needs to move on.

Now the other woman involved has stepped forward and made a statement. Why should she not be allowed to say something?

Had the wife gone about things differently and not been so annoying and stalker-ish in her pursuit for her answers...then she might not be getting attacked like she is.

I for one have told her repeatedly to deal with her husband and her family...OFF the board. NOT on here. I think that others have told her to do the same.

After a while, the drama and bullshit stalkerish behavior gets old.

Does the wife have a right to be hurt? Sure. Does she have the right to be bitter and angry...Sure. But I do not see how it is going to help her.

I have said this before...and I will say this again.

IF your situation is not what you want it to be....do one of two things:

1. Change it.
2. OR change how you choose to deal with it....(meaning attitude).

If the wife is choosing to keep her husband...then she needs to go deal with things off of the board. She needs to go to counseling for herself. She needs to learn to forgive.....and to move forward.

If she is choosing to kick the husband out...then she needs to do it. And deal with it OFF THE BOARD.

See a common thing here? DEAL WITH IT OFF OF THE BOARD.

 

[85Ironman]

I think what everyone is trying to say....the two of them...actually the three of them......the wife...the mistress and the husband....need to deal with this off of the board...in private.

This is a sex site. People are going to engage in behavior that not everyone is going to agree with. When the wife keeps bringing up things......and it is apparent that she is not getting answers......she needs to move on.

Now the other woman involved has stepped forward and made a statement. Why should she not be allowed to say something?

Had the wife gone about things differently and not been so annoying and stalker-ish in her pursuit for her answers...then she might not be getting attacked like she is.

I for one have told her repeatedly to deal with her husband and her family...OFF the board. NOT on here. I think that others have told her to do the same.

After a while, the drama and bullshit stalkerish behavior gets old.

Does the wife have a right to be hurt? Sure. Does she have the right to be bitter and angry...Sure. But I do not see how it is going to help her.

I have said this before...and I will say this again.

IF your situation is not what you want it to be....do one of two things:

1. Change it.
2. OR change how you choose to deal with it....(meaning attitude).

If the wife is choosing to keep her husband...then she needs to go deal with things off of the board. She needs to go to counseling for herself. She needs to learn to forgive.....and to move forward.

If she is choosing to kick the husband out...then she needs to do it. And deal with it OFF THE BOARD.

See a common thing here? DEAL WITH IT OFF OF THE BOARD.

*claps*

 

[EllaPure]

Actually, yes. I have seen the proof. The person who accused Ellapure did not just come out of the blue with accusations that have no basis.

Though I have watched most of this from the sidelines, Ellapure's "calling out" on this thread of the wife in question just seemed a bit...too rehearsed, perhaps? Too carefully worded? Almost as though she had been planning it from the day the wife found out about the situation.

The only "innocent" here was the wife. Everyone else is guilty as charged.

This will be the last time I post about this on the boards. I am not 'enjoying' this...I'm not having 'fun'. I thought about walking away...leaving it alone, but I'm not fond of my name being trashed.

Again...I'm going to be as nice as I can. I don't care what you thought of my post to Kiersth12. I didn't start the 'calling out' - as a matter of fact - she posted something so horrible THE THREAD GOT PULLED! From what very little I've been able to piece together - she called me several names and she made accusations she has yet to support. My response isn't rehearsed, but I did have to write it several times so I didn't name-call and verbally abuse her...b/c I'm done with her. I'm using all kinds of restraint right now.

I have also seen her 'proof'...it amounts to nothing.

I'm sorry she's been hurt...

For those who have chosen to believe her without speaking with me first...shame on you. People have taken her at her word without so much as asking me if it's true. One poster in the How-to forum called me a bitch...I've never even spoken to her.

I've said my peace...believe and say what you will. I know who I am and I'm comfortable with me and the decisions I've made. One last time...I AM NOT THE JEDI SHE IS LOOKING FOR!

 

[SimoneLisbon]

Dear raiguy...

I would still the following items, but thanks for the silk tie, cuffs, table and whip...


Riding Crop
Leather Straps
Butt Plug
Anal Beads
Cat'O'Nine
Leather Mask
Yoke
Frame



Naughty Little Hunter...

 

[raiguy]

Dear raiguy...

I would still the following items, but thanks for the silk tie, cuffs, table and whip...


Riding Crop
Leather Straps
Butt Plug
Anal Beads
Cat'O'Nine
Leather Mask
Yoke
Frame



Naughty Little Hunter...

Still dunno how you found these...


Crop:
http://cdn100.iofferphoto.com/img3/item/145/162/715/27-inch-flexible-red-riding-crop-dominatrix-costume-5ba5.jpg

Straps:
http://img.banggood.com/thumb/view/upload/Dress/SKU038095-02.JPG
Couldn't find a picture of mine....but here's what they look like, only more "used"

Butt plug:
http://d1o1wlqwda3y1b.cloudfront.net/CNVMC/DJ0901-03_1.JPG
Not sure where I picked this up....
Ballgag just to keep you quiet on the matter:
http://www.hustlerstore.com/media/catalog/product/cache/1/image/9df78eab33525d08d6e5fb8d27136e95/2/6/26348_2.jpg.jpg

 

[SimoneLisbon]

Still dunno how you found these...


Crop:
http://cdn100.iofferphoto.com/img3/item/145/162/715/27-inch-flexible-red-riding-crop-dominatrix-costume-5ba5.jpg

Straps:
http://img.banggood.com/thumb/view/upload/Dress/SKU038095-02.JPG
Couldn't find a picture of mine....but here's what they look like, only more "used"

Butt plug:
http://d1o1wlqwda3y1b.cloudfront.net/CNVMC/DJ0901-03_1.JPG
Not sure where I picked this up....
Ballgag just to keep you quiet on the matter:
http://www.hustlerstore.com/media/catalog/product/cache/1/image/9df78eab33525d08d6e5fb8d27136e95/2/6/26348_2.jpg.jpg

Oooooooooooooooooh thank you, thank you, thank you...I think I can take the lead again...for an hour anyway until Hissub has another hunt...Thanks, you're the best...

 

[raiguy]

Oooooooooooooooooh thank you, thank you, thank you...I think I can take the lead again...for an hour anyway until Hissub has another hunt...Thanks, you're the best...

Does that mean I don't have to show the re....I mean nothing!!!!!

 

[TheSilverLining]

Dear Litster(s)

If you say you're logging off now, then it's generally a good idea to turn your status doodah to "hidden" if you're actually gonna lurk for a little while.
Just an idea, likes.

Laughing at the fibs litster.....

 

[bisolom]

Dear Lying Litster,

You did not understand what I wrote to you. I explained that I did not need to have proof as people were taking me at my word. I do have proof and I am willing to share it with you. Your own words, posted by you, will be your undoing. I do not know your education level, but surely you know phone calls can be tracked on bills. You have posted about phone calls and texts to him; you have gone as far as to include the time of day on occasion. I do have more, but why spoil the fun. I am willing to send the proof to you or anybody else that would like to see it.

You can continue to deny what you are doing, but it does not make it true.

P.I. Litster

WTF is this shit and why are you posting it on Lit? It may come as a shock to you but noone gives a f**k if your husband is having an affair. That's a personal problem.

FYI You're just advertising that:
a) Some other woman is providing your husband with something better than you or...
b) You married a cheating asshole and aren't smart enough to dump his lying ass in the gutter.

 

[Shadowmist99]

WTF is this shit and why are you posting it on Lit? It may come as a shock to you but noone gives a f**k if your husband is having an affair. That's a personal problem.

FYI You're just advertising that:
a) Some other woman is providing your husband with something better than you or...
b) You married a cheating asshole and aren't smart enough to dump his lying ass in the gutter.

I couldn't agree more.

 

[KierstH12]

............................

 

[jeff_is_smiling]

He cheated because he is a cheater. The matters within our marriage did not make him a cheater. His conscious decision to repeatedly cheat, and continue to cheat, is the sole reason it happened. Cheating is always a choice, every time.

And drama queens are always drama queens....you are a drama queen because that is what you are. The whole, "husband cheated" thing did not make you a drama queen...you already were a drama queen. You just used this particular episode in your drama-laden life to vent so everyone could participate in your newest, latest drama.

I know absolutely NOTHING about you or your life....but I KNOW you.....How do I know? Because even with the tremendous backlash about the drama towards you, instead of your dropping the issue, the attention is merely feeding your drama queen need for more drama.

Never met, don;t know anything about you or your personal life....but I KNOW you....I've met hundreds just like you....any self-respecting person who has a shred of humility or compassion for others would have dropped this act a long time ago....but drama queens never can....

 

[Aquagal]

And drama queens are always drama queens....you are a drama queen because that is what you are. The whole, "husband cheated" thing did not make you a drama queen...you already were a drama queen. You just used this particular episode in your drama-laden life to vent so everyone could participate in your newest, latest drama.

I know absolutely NOTHING about you or your life....but I KNOW you.....How do I know? Because even with the tremendous backlash about the drama towards you, instead of your dropping the issue, the attention is merely feeding your drama queen need for more drama.

Never met, don;t know anything about you or your personal life....but I KNOW you....I've met hundreds just like you....any self-respecting person who has a shred of humility or compassion for others would have dropped this act a long time ago....but drama queens never can....

^^^^^

THIS!!!

 

[PlayfulLittle1]

Dear Litsters Possessing Good Sense-

Amen.

Appreciative Litster

 

[sunshinegirl05]

And drama queens are always drama queens....you are a drama queen because that is what you are. The whole, "husband cheated" thing did not make you a drama queen...you already were a drama queen. You just used this particular episode in your drama-laden life to vent so everyone could participate in your newest, latest drama.

I know absolutely NOTHING about you or your life....but I KNOW you.....How do I know? Because even with the tremendous backlash about the drama towards you, instead of your dropping the issue, the attention is merely feeding your drama queen need for more drama.

Never met, don;t know anything about you or your personal life....but I KNOW you....I've met hundreds just like you....any self-respecting person who has a shred of humility or compassion for others would have dropped this act a long time ago....but drama queens never can....

*smiles*

 

[sunshinegirl05]

He cheated because he is a cheater. The matters within our marriage did not make him a cheater. His conscious decision to repeatedly cheat, and continue to cheat, is the sole reason it happened. Cheating is always a choice, every time.

You say HE makes a CHOICE to cheat.

What does it say about YOU? YOU make the CHOICE to keep him around. YOU make the CHOICE to deal with things the way YOU are. YOU are ultimately responsible for YOUR CHOICES. No one else.

OWN YOUR CHOICES.
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