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Dear Litster,
I feel like I'm drifting, lost to myself... never to be found by anyone else. I am unworthy and damaged.
signed,
Staring into the lonely pit of despair that is my life, litster.

Stop saying that.
Stop saying you are unworthy and damaged.
The more you say it, the more you believe it and
make it self-fulfilling prophecy.
So just stop it, please.

I have never thought of you as unworthy and damaged watching you here and there on the boards.

I see a vivacious, smart woman with a lot to give.
 
Dear Litsters,

So much sadness and brokenness tonight. I wish I could be there to give each of you a hug and a listening ear. I can only give you a virtual hug, but my thoughts and prayers are with you, and I can definitely lend that listening ear.
 
Dear Sad Litster,

I have been there. I just recently crawled up out of that space. And I was able to break the grip it had on me only by listening to the wise kind words of people who loved me. Saw what I couldn't: that I(you) have what it takes and more to get through it; that it will pass, like everything always does; and that you are worthy of love no matter what .

Hugging You Litster
 
Stop saying that.
Stop saying you are unworthy and damaged.
The more you say it, the more you believe it and
make it self-fulfilling prophecy.
So just stop it, please.

I have never thought of you as unworthy and damaged watching you here and there on the boards.

I see a vivacious, smart woman with a lot to give.

Seconded xx
 
Dear Staring and Lonely,
You can always talk to me if you need to.
Signed,
Haven't been feeling good, but her ears still work
RA... :kiss: tyvm, my dear. Wishing you wellness... please take care.
DearFlyingHottie Litster.
My heart goes out to you. I wish I could wrap you up, hold you tight, and help you to see the light that is all around you.
AlwaysLookingAtSparklies Litster
Sweet, ...thank you for the PM, too. :kiss: ... also your words remind me of a song ... but, I can't remember what it is... :rolleyes:
Dear staring-
don't look down, look outward. There is a lot of caring, love, and friendship surrounding you. It may not be the physical love you crave, but it's real, and it's here. I'm one of them Litster. :kiss:
You, Mr Lewis are like the pot of gold at the end of a rainbow. A treasure, indeed. Thank you kind sir. :heart:
Stop saying that. Stop saying you are unworthy and damaged. The more you say it, the more you believe it and make it self-fulfilling prophecy. So just stop it, please.
I have never thought of you as unworthy and damaged watching you here and there on the boards.
I see a vivacious, smart woman with a lot to give.
Damn girl. That was fucking awesome. ...snapping out of it, now... :heart:
Dear Litsters,
So much sadness and brokenness tonight. I wish I could be there to give each of you a hug and a listening ear. I can only give you a virtual hug, but my thoughts and prayers are with you, and I can definitely lend that listening ear.
virtual hugging you right back. :rose:
Dear Sad Litster,
I have been there. I just recently crawled up out of that space. And I was able to break the grip it had on me only by listening to the wise kind words of people who loved me. Saw what I couldn't: that I(you) have what it takes and more to get through it; that it will pass, like everything always does; and that you are worthy of love no matter what .
Hugging You Litster
Again, such words of wisdom. Thank you so much. :rose:
Oh man... Y'all can't know how much your words mean to me, that y'all took the time to post such thoughtful and kind words. I am overwhelmed by each and every one of you for showing me such compassion, concern... such humanity. What's amazing is that y'all managed to say the very things that I need to focus on in order to keep my world into proper, rational perspective. I cannot thank you enough. Y'all have made my night. :kiss::heart:

Dear Sir James,
I don't know if your message was for me or someone else. I'm quite sure I'm not the only broken-hearted woman around here that has cried on your shoulder. But I needed to hear what you wrote, and I'm going to do my best to remember it.
Signed,
Still sad but trying to get over it
Did you not touch your hand to your heart when you read his posts..? Jameslewis says the smartest, most genuine things, and he's... *seethes air in gently thru teeth* ...totally sexy when he's doing it.
Hang in there Luna. Feel the Lit Love. I know I sure can.
 
Dear flyer,

Maybe we should work on trying to clone that wise and sexy man, lol. I too appreciate reading all the uplifting posts. When I get hurt, it's easy to get into the mindset that no one gives a damn....so it's nice to see some Litsters prove me wrong.

Signed,

Putting a smile on my face today Litster
 
Dear: Jaded Experienced Lister,

Do you remember how I couldn’t understand why you didn’t think I was *bat shit* crazy?

I understand now! OMG! :eek:

Signed: No Longer Confused Lister
 
Dear Mom&Dad Litsters.

Day xx of being embedded with family for the holidays.

I never understood the "I'm too tired for sex" statement from Mommies&Daddies.

After being the TaxiCostumeRepairSittingAtTooManyHolidayEventsLetsMakeOneMoreChristmasDecorationAuntie...I soooo understand.

PreparingASpaWeekendForAllMommies&Daddies Litster
 
Dear Litster,
I feel like I'm drifting, lost to myself... never to be found by anyone else. I am unworthy and damaged.
signed,
Staring into the lonely pit of despair that is my life, litster.

*hugs you tight*

You know I love you dear. I understand your pain more than I'd like to but Serene said it best... We can't be our own self fulfilling prophecy. I see a page full of amazing women here... And they all rallied around your wonderful self just like you do for us. Nothing wrong with grieving or sitting on the pity pot... Just don't sit so long the seat permanently adheres to that sexy ass!!

:heart:

You are also right about James. Wonderful fellow that one.
 
Dear busier than a mosquito at a nudist colony litster...

I know work sucks. I also know you said you didn't forget my email.

I just want to know if I fucked up somewhere that you stopped wanting me?

I never felt so unwanted/undesired and I was pretty baffled.

Just wanting clarity litster.
 
Dear Litster who Turned Off Their PMs...

oh :(

I didn't know you were considering leaving...it's been nice to talk to you, even if we never got to know each other so well

I wish you all the best in life

truly, me xx
 
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Dear Litster who Turned Off Their PMs...

oh :(

I didn't know you were considering leaving...it's been nice to talk to you even if we never got to know each other so well

I wish you all the best in life

truly, me xx

I concur. :(
 
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Dear Litsters near & far,

Thanks for all the support, encouragement, kicks in the ass, love & friendship. There are not enough words to express my gratitude.

Time to begin this next step in my life. As scared as I am, sunset can not get here soon enough.

The love, honor, cherish & other stuff litster :rose:
 
Dear Litsters near & far,

Thanks for all the support, encouragement, kicks in the ass, love & friendship. There are not enough words to express my gratitude.

Time to begin this next step in my life. As scared as I am, sunset can not get here soon enough.

The love, honor, cherish & other stuff litster :rose:

CONGRATS!! :heart:

I thought you were hitched already.

Signed,

Me. :rose:
 
Dear Litster,

You may be very photogenic, but underneath that is an extremely ugly person and an even more toxic soul. I recant anything positive I ever said after seeing the true you.


Signed,

Me
 
Dear Litster,

Worried about you...
Praying some wonderful things come your way to brighten your heart and give you reason to live happily.

:rose:

s4u
 
Dear Litster,

You may be very photogenic, but underneath that is an extremely ugly person and an even more toxic soul. I recant anything positive I ever said after seeing the true you.


Signed,

Me

A lesson it seems we all have to learn the hard way. But it's still a kick in the gut when you realize it. :(
 
Dear Beautiful Soul Litster,

You are.

I know you don't think so and don't like it when we discuss such things. You can't seem to wrap your mind around the fact that it is true. Just because YOU can't see it, doesn't make it less true.

There is a woman behind all that jazz and all that glitter.

The ones that count know it and the ones that don't ... well, don't.

Pay them no mind because they don't matter.

They never will in the end.

:rose:

Signed,

Me :kiss:
 
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