Depression. It's a silent killer.

[Wetkitty09]

I hope the day finds you well and whatever you have planned for the holiday gives you some fulfillment.
Have the best day you can.
Be safe out there.
Love you.

 

[aquamarina35]

Depression is the worst. Without my meds, I'd probably be dead.

 

[Wonderer67]

Depression is the worst. Without my meds, I'd probably be dead.

Well. I’m glad your hear with us.

 

[ericalauren]

Hello, all! I'm using my SAD lamp now. It's sunny outside so I may go sit out in the cold for a bit to get some natural sunshine. I hope that everyone is doing well.

 

[LucianaGrace]

 

[Wetkitty09]

Morning all. Have the best day you can.
Be safe out there.
Love you.

 

[Wetkitty09]

For me the time between thanksgiving and new years is the dead zone. Nothing gets done because of the holidays. I have a procedure planned that I’m waiting on insurance to decide if they’ll cover it. I feel like it won’t even be looked at because it falls during the dead zone of the year.

Have a smooth day.

Be safe out there.
Love you.

 

[James_Bassytian]

For me the time between thanksgiving and new years is the dead zone. Nothing gets done because of the holidays. I have a procedure planned that I’m waiting on insurance to decide if they’ll cover it. I feel like it won’t even be looked at because it falls during the dead zone of the year.

Have a smooth day.

Be safe out there.
Love you.

Aren't insurance companies "the best"? I rank them somewhere between bleeding hemorrhoids and crowds.

My bout of depression earlier this week has passed, thankfully. Working on Black Friday and the weekend before is a lot of fun.

 

[Wetkitty09]

Aren't insurance companies "the best"? I rank them somewhere between bleeding hemorrhoids and crowds.

My bout of depression earlier this week has passed, thankfully. Working on Black Friday and the weekend before is a lot of fun.

Crowns without Novacaine.

Thanks Bas. Love you.

 

[Wetkitty09]

The cold is oppressive but if you take a step outside my front door the stars are amazing.
I hope today goes well for you.
Be safe and warm out there.
Love you.

 

[LucianaGrace]

 

[sister jenny]

This season is so hard.
I had a really rough patch in the beginning of November that got worse by drinking too much. It became more for everyday and finally my husband sat me down and we talked. Deep inside I knew I needed daylight and exercise, but my brain convinced me wine worked just as well.
Still fighting with depression and self hatred but the walks are doing wonders and having my daughter hug me clears the darkness.

Listen.
Be there.
Hug.

Keep fighting everyone.
We can do this!

 

[James_Bassytian]

This season is so hard.
I had a really rough patch in the beginning of November that got worse by drinking too much. It became more for everyday and finally my husband sat me down and we talked. Deep inside I knew I needed daylight and exercise, but my brain convinced me wine worked just as well.
Still fighting with depression and self hatred but the walks are doing wonders and having my daughter hug me clears the darkness.

Listen.
Be there.
Hug.

Keep fighting everyone.
We can do this!

I never started drinking, which shocks me, because I've had plenty of reasons and opportunities to. Ambien was my vice, so I can both relate and not relate to those who drink.

We have to be there for each other, and let others be there for us!

Crowns without Novacaine.

Thanks Bas. Love you.

Love you, too!

 

[Zeppelin1969]

I avoid talking about it -- it's the ultimate turn-off. People just disappear if you ever show vulnerability, or at least me, a straight male.

 

[Wetkitty09]

I avoid talking about it -- it's the ultimate turn-off. People just disappear if you ever show vulnerability, or at least me, a straight male.

Those that disappear were never meant to hold your vulnerability sacred. Let them go and keep looking. There are people out there who understand the gift that someone’s vulnerability is a hold it safe.

 

[Wetkitty09]

Morning. I’m moving. The world is still turning and Mother Nature is still putting up with our shit.
Weird mood this morning.

Have the best day you can.
Be safe out there.
Love you.

 

[forgotmyantidepressants]

I have to stay two hours over at work and I'm angry enough to put my head through a window.

 

[James_Bassytian]

I avoid talking about it -- it's the ultimate turn-off. People just disappear if you ever show vulnerability, or at least me, a straight male.

As a, mostly, straight male, there is truth in that. It's like we are "too privileged" to be depressed. And if we are, then we are either weak, spoiled, or both.

But, there is also truth in what @Wetkitty09 said as well, that those who view us that way have no business in our lives anyway. The ones who should stick around will.

 

[Graybear1826]

Folks, no BS. Like many of us, I'm on Zoloft 100mg. I'm also fortunate enough to have people in my life to listen to me and at times call me on my bullshit or slap me around (figuratively).

I'm 64, male, and as puzzled about the inner workings of a woman's mind as I was at 20. I do, however, listen. I ask questions. Most importantly, I care.

I love the sex talk as much as anybody. That said, if you need an ear, feel free to reach out.

 

[LucianaGrace]

I have to say that the isolation you both speak of is all too real, and currently being in it, I wonder if it is the most dangerous aspect of the situation. I do, however, believe it isn’t just a male situation. All of my life I have had the responsibility of being the strong one who must either have or find all of the answers for everyone in my life. All of these years later I find myself in my greatest despair, and it has been made abundantly clear that I am alone to face this. I am unsure of what causes the isolation, but in any case, it isn’t specifically harder for one gender over another. The isolation is deeply damaging, difficult and painful for all.

Also, thank you for this thread. I may only post a rose, but that is my small attempt to be accountable and show that I am still here, even if a rose is all I can manage that day. This thread has helped beyond measure. Thank you.

 

[Graybear1826]

I have to say that the isolation you both speak of is all too real, and currently being in it, I wonder if it is the most dangerous aspect of the situation. I do, however, believe it isn’t just a male situation. All of my life I have had the responsibility of being the strong one who must either have or find all of the answers for everyone in my life. All of these years later I find myself in my greatest despair, and it has been made abundantly clear that I am alone to face this. I am unsure of what causes the isolation, but in any case, it isn’t specifically harder for one gender over another. The isolation is deeply damaging, difficult and painful for all.

Also, thank you for this thread. I may only post a rose, but that is my small attempt to be accountable and show that I am still here, even if a rose is all I can manage that day. This thread has helped beyond measure. Thank you.

Thank you for anything you post. Isolation sucks. Please don't be isolated.

 

[Noone45]

I have to say that the isolation you both speak of is all too real, and currently being in it, I wonder if it is the most dangerous aspect of the situation. I do, however, believe it isn’t just a male situation. All of my life I have had the responsibility of being the strong one who must either have or find all of the answers for everyone in my life. All of these years later I find myself in my greatest despair, and it has been made abundantly clear that I am alone to face this. I am unsure of what causes the isolation, but in any case, it isn’t specifically harder for one gender over another. The isolation is deeply damaging, difficult and painful for all.

Also, thank you for this thread. I may only post a rose, but that is my small attempt to be accountable and show that I am still here, even if a rose is all I can manage that day. This thread has helped beyond measure. Thank you.

Hello luciana
We're are here
As long as we're around you're not alone and we make sure you are not feel lonely
You can always reach out when world gets heavy , and you sink in too deep
We are here to pull you up
We know how scary it is down there the darkness and loud noises in head
We're HERE to help eachother!
WE'RE NOT ALONE !
Have a wonderful day
And make it spicy while you're here

 

[forgotmyantidepressants]

I have to say that the isolation you both speak of is all too real, and currently being in it, I wonder if it is the most dangerous aspect of the situation. I do, however, believe it isn’t just a male situation. All of my life I have had the responsibility of being the strong one who must either have or find all of the answers for everyone in my life. All of these years later I find myself in my greatest despair, and it has been made abundantly clear that I am alone to face this. I am unsure of what causes the isolation, but in any case, it isn’t specifically harder for one gender over another. The isolation is deeply damaging, difficult and painful for all.

Also, thank you for this thread. I may only post a rose, but that is my small attempt to be accountable and show that I am still here, even if a rose is all I can manage that day. This thread has helped beyond measure. Thank you.

we see you

 

[Wetkitty09]

Morning. The outpouring of support is why we keep this thread on top. Thank you all for being there for others and keeping this going.

Be safe out there.
Love you

 

[Noone45]