Discreet Meeting Success Stories??

[chicagosoul]

Here's one encounter I had ...

Once I met this woman from Lavalife who was looking to fulfill a fantasy. She was white and had never been with a black man. We chatted for some time and then decided to meet. We had to be discreet, as she was married.

We met about halfway (she lived 90 miles away) and had coffee at a restaurant and talked for quite some time. She admitted she was nervous, but was ready. We found a cheap motel and got a room.

Once we were in the room we kissed and then she went into the bathroom to change. She emerged wearing a sexy black nightgown. We resumed kissing and touching. She was so nervous. I could feel her trembling in my arms as we kissed and my hands began to explore her body.

We lay down on the bed and I lifted her nightgown and began to kiss and suck on her breasts and nipples. Eventually I worked my way down to her wet and ready pussy and began to lick and suck at her until she came.

By this time her nerves had subsided and when I rose to kiss her, she grabbed my dick and guided me inside her.

We played for about 4 hours that afternoon. We fucked three times and touched, kissed and sucked the rest of the time. The energy was so high that I was totally ramped up. We finished our session with me jacking off and coming in her mouth.

After that we washed up and left the motel. Her fantasy was fulfilled, and we both had a great time.

 

[saxetman]

Bump, need more stories like the last one!

 

[kcbigkid]

Writing a quality ad for meeting a women

I appreciate the info on this link expecially Saxetman and his comments. They all show the thought that needs to go into meeting a person for a discreet relationship (fuck buddy).

Over the last year I have written many different profiles and letters sent to ladies on sites like AFF and Lavalife and Swinger.com, sadly we have not had many responses back from any of them. So I retool and write new profiles, read profiles of both ladies and men in other areas of the country to see if the are more creative in content.

The couple of responses that I have had did turn into either telephone, email or a couple of meetings. At the meetings I found that the ladies told me they were sometimes had almost too many responses to send a message back. But they the did reply only to a couple of well written ones.

So my question is would any of you be willing to share the info or concept of what your ad on a online site might looked like.

I am happy to post mine here and would appreciate your comments on my ad.
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Sample ad:

Making Love!


I am a married white male, 42, 6'2' tall, handsome, sane, trim, nice guy type, very sensual and open to what pleases.

I am a very sensual man who needs to keep passion, sensuality, sexuality and adventure alive, without having to change my situation.

I am hoping to find, a sane and mature woman who is in the same boat, for an ongoing, mostly daytime, discreet relationship.

Its nice to find a lady on AFF who seems to know the difference between sex and making Love. While sex is a physical act for procreation. Making Love is all about emotion and feelings. To me it doesn't matter if I have an Orgasm, it matters if you do. I feel joy and happiness When I have pleasured my partner. So like you I am looking for a Special friend'. Sombody that I can Pleasure until she has a screaming orgasm....

If you would like to learn more please email me at

Maybe we could meet for a cup of coffee at Starbucks or a Drink. Or even go get a hotel room and have some fun.

I look forward to hearing back from you.






P.S. you can see my pictures on my profile or I will be glad to send you a couple to a non-AFF address...
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Again, this is a great thread and I look forward to reading your responses.

 

[saxetman]

Re: Writing a quality ad for meeting a women

I appreciate the info on this link expecially Saxetman and his comments. They all show the thought that needs to go into meeting a person for a discreet relationship (fuck buddy).

Over the last year I have written many different profiles and letters sent to ladies on sites like AFF and Lavalife and Swinger.com, sadly we have not had many responses back from any of them. So I retool and write new profiles, read profiles of both ladies and men in other areas of the country to see if the are more creative in content.

The couple of responses that I have had did turn into either telephone, email or a couple of meetings. At the meetings I found that the ladies told me they were sometimes had almost too many responses to send a message back. But they the did reply only to a couple of well written ones.

So my question is would any of you be willing to share the info or concept of what your ad on a online site might looked like.

I am happy to post mine here and would appreciate your comments on my ad.
***************************************************
Sample ad:

Making Love!


I am a married white male, 42, 6'2' tall, handsome, sane, trim, nice guy type, very sensual and open to what pleases.

I am a very sensual man who needs to keep passion, sensuality, sexuality and adventure alive, without having to change my situation.

I am hoping to find, a sane and mature woman who is in the same boat, for an ongoing, mostly daytime, discreet relationship.

Its nice to find a lady on AFF who seems to know the difference between sex and making Love. While sex is a physical act for procreation. Making Love is all about emotion and feelings. To me it doesn't matter if I have an Orgasm, it matters if you do. I feel joy and happiness When I have pleasured my partner. So like you I am looking for a Special friend'. Sombody that I can Pleasure until she has a screaming orgasm....

If you would like to learn more please email me at

Maybe we could meet for a cup of coffee at Starbucks or a Drink. Or even go get a hotel room and have some fun.

I look forward to hearing back from you.






P.S. you can see my pictures on my profile or I will be glad to send you a couple to a non-AFF address...
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Again, this is a great thread and I look forward to reading your responses.

I am glad you like the input and can use it to benefit your love life. As for the above profile/message, needs more content. I had many woman who responded to my message (wither I hooked up with them of not) tell me what caught their eye was the size of the message. A larger message to them means you liked their profile and cared enough to really try to help them get to know you in that first message.

 

[saxetman]

Bump!

 

[saxetman]

Bump!

 

[saxetman]

Hello All!

I would like to wish everyone a very merry Christmas and Happy New Year. May the season bring you happiness, joy and peace. Enjoy and be careful and watch out for that other person! This will be my last message until next Friday, Have a good one!

Saxetman

 

[SexyChele]

Re: Writing a quality ad for meeting a women

I appreciate the info on this link expecially Saxetman and his comments. They all show the thought that needs to go into meeting a person for a discreet relationship (fuck buddy).

Over the last year I have written many different profiles and letters sent to ladies on sites like AFF and Lavalife and Swinger.com, sadly we have not had many responses back from any of them. So I retool and write new profiles, read profiles of both ladies and men in other areas of the country to see if the are more creative in content.

The couple of responses that I have had did turn into either telephone, email or a couple of meetings. At the meetings I found that the ladies told me they were sometimes had almost too many responses to send a message back. But they the did reply only to a couple of well written ones.

So my question is would any of you be willing to share the info or concept of what your ad on a online site might looked like.

I am happy to post mine here and would appreciate your comments on my ad.
***************************************************
Sample ad:

Making Love!


I am a married white male, 42, 6'2' tall, handsome, sane, trim, nice guy type, very sensual and open to what pleases.

I am a very sensual man who needs to keep passion, sensuality, sexuality and adventure alive, without having to change my situation.

I am hoping to find, a sane and mature woman who is in the same boat, for an ongoing, mostly daytime, discreet relationship.

Its nice to find a lady on AFF who seems to know the difference between sex and making Love. While sex is a physical act for procreation. Making Love is all about emotion and feelings. To me it doesn't matter if I have an Orgasm, it matters if you do. I feel joy and happiness When I have pleasured my partner. So like you I am looking for a Special friend'. Sombody that I can Pleasure until she has a screaming orgasm....

If you would like to learn more please email me at

Maybe we could meet for a cup of coffee at Starbucks or a Drink. Or even go get a hotel room and have some fun.

I look forward to hearing back from you.






P.S. you can see my pictures on my profile or I will be glad to send you a couple to a non-AFF address...
*********

Again, this is a great thread and I look forward to reading your responses.

This is easy -

1. You are married

2. You are not willing to change your situation

3. You want to make love as oppoes to have sex

4. The comment about the hotel room is totally out of line

Conflicting messages, confusion about what it is that you want. Married men who want to stay married should be making love to their wives - not some casual encounter over the internet.

Yeah, I know you are trying to come across as the sensitive, caring type. What you need to be is honest: lonely married guy in search of fucking. Period. Nothing more, nothing less. Still, no guarantee that you will get what you want, but at least it is being honest.

Oh, and if a single lady has specifically stated she doesn't want to meet married men, respect those wishes. I wish I had a dollar for every married man who approached me online when I've specifically said I don't want them. I'd be kicking back in Hawaii now.

Be honest and upfront, but know that you are in a very awkward position. Most women on the 'net have their pick of men. Why would they choose to go through all the frustration of dealing with a married man? Just something to think on.

 

[RomanHans]

Re: Re: Writing a quality ad for meeting a women

This is easy -

1. You are married

2. You are not willing to change your situation

3. You want to make love as oppoes to have sex

4. The comment about the hotel room is totally out of line

Conflicting messages, confusion about what it is that you want. Married men who want to stay married should be making love to their wives - not some casual encounter over the internet.

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You know, SexyChele brings up a good point...as someone who trawls the adult personals sites from time to time, I've noticed that single men's ads tend to fall into one of the following groups:

1. "Hey, here's my e-mail address--we should get a room and fuck sometime"
2. "I'm the sensitive, caring type and want to make you feel appreciated while I get my rocks off"
3. "Here's everything about me--if it appeals to you and you want a fuck buddy, contact me and we'll have some no-strings-attached sex"

(Note that I'm omitting any reference to whether the men are married or not, or admit that they're married )

The question for men and women here--do you think that men who post ads in the #3 category would tend to get more responses than #2? Does the #2 'soft' approach just ring hollow?

Roman

PS I'm assuming that the #1 approach doesn't get too far--if it were that easy, there'd be a lot more guys finding action on-line than data seem to suggest!

 

[SexyChele]

Re: Re: Re: Writing a quality ad for meeting a women

You know, SexyChele brings up a good point...as someone who trawls the adult personals sites from time to time, I've noticed that single men's ads tend to fall into one of the following groups:

1. "Hey, here's my e-mail address--we should get a room and fuck sometime"
2. "I'm the sensitive, caring type and want to make you feel appreciated while I get my rocks off"
3. "Here's everything about me--if it appeals to you and you want a fuck buddy, contact me and we'll have some no-strings-attached sex"

(Note that I'm omitting any reference to whether the men are married or not, or admit that they're married )

The question for men and women here--do you think that men who post ads in the #3 category would tend to get more responses than #2? Does the #2 'soft' approach just ring hollow?

Roman

PS I'm assuming that the #1 approach doesn't get too far--if it were that easy, there'd be a lot more guys finding action on-line than data seem to suggest!

*LOL* Damn, you have that summed up pretty well! Actually, if all three of these were responding to me, the one I'd probably write back to?


Number 1


No, I wouldn't meet to have sex - I'm far, far too selective and picky for that. But, he's honest. He's not trying some confusing "I'll be the sensitive, caring Adonis you want until I get my rocks off and then leave you in the dust" character. And he's also not the one who writes a freakin' book - that I have no time to read - only to wind up asking me if I'd be interested in meeting him at a swing club.

Honesty scores big with me. I may not agree to meet or email, but a man will at least receive a response. Of course, blending that honesty while matching expectations is the most difficult part of the process.

 

[RomanHans]

As an aside, I haven't had a 'success story' to post here (and at this point don't really plan on it), but I've been surprised that some women on-line (I assume they're really women, at least) see to be open to a random query via IM. At the very least, I get a chance to chat with someone new and if I'm lucky, interesting...and that way the other party can find out directly a bit about what I'm about and then snub me much more efficiently!

Roman

 

[saxetman]

Bump!

 

[saxetman]

Bump Again!

 

[saxetman]

Needs another Bump

 

[saxetman]

Looks like this thread is dead!