Do women have to orgasm regularly?

[Zosofan1000]

I am curious if women, in the course of a normal day, get horny enough that they have to orgasm or it makes concentrating difficult? As men, we are constantly horny. If we don't orgasm regularly, it will fuck with our concentration. To me, it's analogous to the feeling of having to blow your nose when you have allergies or a cold. Physically, you can get by without doing so, but it bothers the fuck out of you if you don't. Are women the same way?

 

[Ssbbw4u1974]

I only speak for myself, but I was very different before menopause.
I have been so horny in my late 20s, early 30s that I've needed to orgasm either from masturbating or from a partner..
I used to carry a vibe in my purse

I once locked myself in a business' restroom just to masturbate

Now, I get urges, just not as frequent.

 

[Lorelei907]

Gosh, it seems so! Once in the morning before I get up and again right after lunch. If I don’t get my afternoon Jill I’m a bit of a bitch the rest of the afternoon.

 

[AZMod]

Yes I was pretty hot for some sex when younger and once in the modeling business beteween all the running around to photo studios and the photographrs usually wanting a little more than pictures of me, I had a lot of sex almost daily and sometimes several times in a day.. Now I am 58 and Sex isn't on my mind constantly, not that irtwas back then, but less so now.
As for orgasms it depends on who i am with and what we are doing. A lot of guys get off quickly and roll over and fall asleep. Then I have to take matters in my own hand or lay there until i fall asleep. That' life. I still love having sex but a littlemore choosy, I guess.

 

[nkdoldman]

Yes I was pretty hot for some sex when younger and once in the modeling business beteween all the running around to photo studios and the photographrs usually wanting a little more than pictures of me, I had a lot of sex almost daily and sometimes several times in a day.. Now I am 58 and Sex isn't on my mind constantly, not that irtwas back then, but less so now.
As for orgasms it depends on who i am with and what we are doing. A lot of guys get off quickly and roll over and fall asleep. Then I have to take matters in my own hand or lay there until i fall asleep. That' life. I still love having sex but a littlemore choosy, I guess.

I do not agree! That SHOULD NOT be "that's life"! You really need to find better partners (personal opinion). Remember the old saying about "Real men finish last!"? It strongly infers 'Women SHOULD ALWAYS finish FIRST, and many times!!!'

 

[AZMod]

I do not agree! That SHOULD NOT be "that's life"! You really need to find better partners (personal opinion). Remember the old saying about "Real men finish last!"? It strongly infers 'Women SHOULD ALWAYS finish FIRST, and many times!!!'

I believe I understand, but women take much longer most of the time to finish, as you say, than men can keep from finishing. And for me and I am speaking for only myself, I have always been more turned on by pleasing my partners. Somehow, again for me, it is so satisfying, with or without an orgasm (also semi rare) seeing, feeling and hearing a partner getting off and truly enjoying me. I have always been rather submissive and always loved pleasing others, whether visually, sexually or just enjoying my company.
This has made a very nice and satisfying life for me and I have been with some very kind and loving men in my life.
https://i.ibb.co/Q3S31ZPv/Me.jpg

 

[hiker283]

It has always been important for me to make my wife or lover have an orgasm. It actually changes how her vagina feels around me.

 

[Olderwiserstillhorny]

At 16 and older woman spent
over a year teaching me how to please a woman.
I believe male and female need to orgasm on a regular basis.
Stress reliever

 

[ShyestCougar]

I am curious if women, in the course of a normal day, get horny enough that they have to orgasm or it makes concentrating difficult?

I’m thinking that the distraction that we have is not usually because we absolutely have to have an orgasm. I get distracted all the time with fantasies which is probably why I started writing. If I’m going to make up all of this stuff in my head, I might as well write it down and share it. Basically what I’m trying to say a fantasy may or may not get me excited and it may or may not get me excited enough to masturbate but the orgasm isn’t going to make the distraction go away. If I understand what you are saying is that if a man has an orgasm he isn’t distracted any longer and can go about his work again. Definitely not the case for me. Orgasm does not get my head screwed back on enough to concentrate if it was a sexual fantasy, particularly if it is about someone specific that I know and I’m already interacting with in some meaningful way.

 

[AZMod]

At 16 and older woman spent
over a year teaching me how to please a woman.
I believe male and female need to orgasm on a regular basis.
Stress reliever

we do need an orgasm on a semi regular basis. But not daily. Some days unless on here I don't even think much more than a few scattered minutes ofsex. Usually because I am to focused on other everyday responsibilities. I can't even imagine whow a woman with children or maybe a job as well is constantly wanting sex on a daily basis.

I worked in a business where sex was pretty much a job requirement and yes there were times where I had sex daily and sometimes multiple times during my work requirements and I did it but I wasn't always craving it. I gave it my best, but it was more part of the job than it was a need on my part.
https://i.ibb.co/NgVThRFQ/A-Little-Fun-With-Michael.jpg

 

[AZMod]

I’m thinking that the distraction that we have is not usually because we absolutely have to have an orgasm. I get distracted all the time with fantasies which is probably why I started writing. If I’m going to make up all of this stuff in my head, I might as well write it down and share it. Basically what I’m trying to say a fantasy may or may not get me excited and it may or may not get me excited enough to masturbate but the orgasm isn’t going to make the distraction go away. If I understand what you are saying is that if a man has an orgasm he isn’t distracted any longer and can go about his work again. Definitely not the case for me. Orgasm does not get my head screwed back on enough to concentrate if it was a sexual fantasy, particularly if it is about someone specific that I know and I’m already interacting with in some meaningful way.

YES! You said it much better than I did!

 

[nkdoldman]

I guess I'm not 'in tune' with some of you ladies. I have always tried my best to learn what my partner's body enjoys so I can continue doing it while I also continue exploring her body and reactions. Personally, if I cannot, for whatever reason, get my partner turned on, then it is not fun for me and I will stop trying. In other words, if she is not interested, I lose all interest as well, and quickly. I have always been a firm believer in the idea of 'she comes first and often' because that, in turn, really turns me on. I hope that is clear enough for everyone to understand.

 

[briancamdudetenger2018]

i wonder if they do lol