Making Women Come Before Intercourse

I find it a big turn-on to make a woman come before I have sex with her. Part of it is the tease and the enjoyment of watching her writhe and squirm with pleasure until her pussy starts pulsing on my fingers or my tongue. Denying her the cock she wants inside her so badly until she had come for me. I also love how we are both completely focused on her and there is little distraction from my own physical stimulation. Finally, I really love entering her pussy while it's still tight and extra sensitive from her orgasm. At first it's a bit overwhelming, but then she adjusts and it turns to pleasure again until she has another orgasm while I'm pumping her full of come.

What do other men and women think of this?
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I find it a big turn-on to make a woman come before I have sex with her. Part of it is the tease and the enjoyment of watching her writhe and squirm with pleasure until her pussy starts pulsing on my fingers or my tongue. Denying her the cock she wants inside her so badly until she had come for me. I also love how we are both completely focused on her and there is little distraction from my own physical stimulation. Finally, I really love entering her pussy while it's still tight and extra sensitive from her orgasm. At first it's a bit overwhelming, but then she adjusts and it turns to pleasure again until she has another orgasm while I'm pumping her full of come.

What do other men and women think of this?
I love playing with my wife's pussy and making her cum before we fuck. Love getting her dressed in garterbelt and stockings. Lube her up, kiss her and sucking her nipples as I finger fuck her deep. The best!
I also love mailing her panties to guys who live in the states. Finger fucking her as she wears the panties then making her cum before rubbing the crotch on her wet pussy. A ziploc bag, a bubble mailer and you can smell her mature cunt too!
 
I find it a big turn-on to make a woman come before I have sex with her. Part of it is the tease and the enjoyment of watching her writhe and squirm with pleasure until her pussy starts pulsing on my fingers or my tongue. Denying her the cock she wants inside her so badly until she had come for me. I also love how we are both completely focused on her and there is little distraction from my own physical stimulation. Finally, I really love entering her pussy while it's still tight and extra sensitive from her orgasm. At first it's a bit overwhelming, but then she adjusts and it turns to pleasure again until she has another orgasm while I'm pumping her full of come.

What do other men and women think of this?
I completely agree. For me it is also about the fact that once I cum, I’m pretty much done for a while. So I like to wear my wife out with multiple orgasms. I’ll lick her pussy and clit till she cums that way for me. Then I’ll move up and we’ll make out and I slide two fingers into her pussy and curl them upwards. As I’m doing that I start kissing her neck and growl for her to cum for me. This works so fast and she will squirt multiple times if I keep doing it. And when I really want to make sure she is spent before I fuck her further into being even more spent, I’ll break out the magic wand and make her cum for me a couple more times. Then as she lays there shaky and weak I push her knees back toward her tits and slide my cock easily all the way into her soaking wet pussy. At this point she is just a mess. I love this because it removes all concern about performance and I can just fuck her any way I want until I fill her pussy with my cum.
 
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This is the only way to do it for me, really. Penetrative sex doesn’t do much for me on its own. However, if my partner takes the time to go down on me - the only reliable way for a partner to get me to cum - I can have a pretty amazing orgasm. After that, the sensation of a cock sliding into me is so delicious. Everything is flush and tingling and so sensitive, and my whole body can feel it. It’s especially amazing if he’s prepared to really fuck me, and he’s got the stamina to do it.
 
I find it a big turn-on to make a woman come before I have sex with her. Part of it is the tease and the enjoyment of watching her writhe and squirm with pleasure until her pussy starts pulsing on my fingers or my tongue. Denying her the cock she wants inside her so badly until she had come for me. I also love how we are both completely focused on her and there is little distraction from my own physical stimulation. Finally, I really love entering her pussy while it's still tight and extra sensitive from her orgasm. At first it's a bit overwhelming, but then she adjusts and it turns to pleasure again until she has another orgasm while I'm pumping her full of come.

What do other men and women think of this?
I make a point of making a woman come at least once before we have sex, preferably more. For me, it's about her pleasure, as I want both of us to enjoy it. Hearing a woman getting off is a huge turn on for me, especially if I'm the one responsible. Also, I think it makes a woman more comfortable and ready for penetration.
 
I completely agree. For me it is also about the fact that once I cum, I’m pretty much done for a while. So I like to wear her out with multiple orgasms. I’ll like her pussy and clit till she cums that way for me. Then I’ll move up and we’ll make out and I slide two fingers into her pussy and curl them upwards. As I’m doing that I start kissing her neck and growl for her to cum for me. This works so fast and she will squirt multiple times if I keep doing it. And when I really want to make sure she is spent before I fuck her further into being even more spent, I’ll break out the magic wand and make her cum for me a couple more times. Then as she lays there shaky and weak I push her knees back toward her tits and slide my cock easily all the way into her soaking wet pussy. At this point she is just a mess. I love this because it removes all concern about performance and I can just fuck her any way I want until I fill her pussy with my cum.
Wonderful. It's such a win-win situation. I love having my way with her after she has already come once or twice. Especially the tightness and sensitivity of her pussy.
 
I love making my wife cum first with eating her out and I keep going as she's going through her orgasm then I slide in. Feels amazing.

My ex had a big dildo and a vibrator. I LOVED using those on her to get her to cum at least once then slide in. I miss those days.
 
Not sure there is an answer for me here. With my ex it was usually clinical …. Me then her.
When I found someone a little more adventurous then it was much more random - but we were never left wanting. Sometimes we had sex and neither of us orgasmed - other times it was only me (how and when she wanted)…. Sometimes I was her toy to make her cum hard - if I did or didn’t orgasm was irrelevant!
 
No matter who I’m with I always try to make her orgasm at least once before intercourse.

Not long after we started dating I learned my wife couldn’t cum from penetration alone, so my focus is on getting her off first. She absolutely loves fingers inside as she’s cumming, and feeling her clench around my fingers as she’s moaning is as hot as it gets for me.
 
No matter who I’m with I always try to make her orgasm at least once before intercourse.

Not long after we started dating I learned my wife couldn’t cum from penetration alone, so my focus is on getting her off first. She absolutely loves fingers inside as she’s cumming, and feeling her clench around my fingers as she’s moaning is as hot as it gets for me.
Agreed, not an uncommon occurence.
Found many a lass who 'should' have experienced some but had lazy lovers who only sated their own desires.
I'm proud to say I woke up a couple of ladies who delighted in the 'extra' attention given 🤩
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Thats a priority. Burying my head between her thighs as my tongue goes up and down side to side changing speed and length of lick. Tip darting in and out licking and gently sucking her clit,Then as her hips buck in orgasm hold onto their thighs to keep my mouth latched onto her pussy and quick short licks in circular motions till they cant cum anynore!
 
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