Do Women Tend To Wake Up Horny Too?

[JerseyJade]

The last thing on my mind when I wake up in the morning is sex. Especially on a work day.

 

[ToPleaseHim]

I very often wake up horny and wake up my guy for sex. Morning sex is my favorite.

Also, just chiming in based on some of the comments in this thread. Please don’t always assume that partners are okay with being fondled while sleeping. For some of us, that would trigger a PTSD response and is very not okay. Talk about that kind of stuff (like all sexual play) before just going for it. #PSA

 

[Gamina]

Yes I noticed that a well timed blow job usually increased my odds of getting lucky

 

[muddler35]

The last thing on my mind when I wake up in the morning is sex. Especially on a work day.

You know the first thing on my mind when I wake up don’t you you sexy thang?

 

[JerseyJade]

You know the first thing on my mind when I wake up don’t you you sexy thang?

Yep, they're round and have a hole in the middle.

 

[jeff_is_smiling]

Yep, they're round and have a hole in the middle.

Yep...donuts make me happy...

 

[lustatsea]

I don't wake up horny, but if I linger in bed after my alarm goes off and my mind wanders down the right path, I'm raring to go in no time. If I have the time for some solo play I go for it, otherwise I get in the shower and start my day.

I do love those mornings when there's the time to indulgently wander down that path a little and start the day with fireworks.

 

[YesIamReal]

I dated someone who was exquisitely good at oral. Next level good. 5th standard deviation good. She-could-give-Jenna-Jameson-lessons level of good. And of course because of that I was always super aroused again the next morning. But it was a time of the day that just never worked for her. She just had no interest in it in the morning.

 

[Mr_Soup]

Definitely horny in the morning opposed to “just hard”. I generally find myself energetic after a good night’s sleep, so waking up in that state is quite common. I also noticed I’m able to last much longer in the morning opposed to at night. Not sure if it’s due to grogginess desensitizing everything or something else.

My wife used to wake up horny semi-frequently as well. Wasn’t every morning. But every now and then I’d wake up to wandering hands and lips. I imagine things would still be that way if not for outside factors.

 

[DarkRaven13]

Fuck him! (Was that the right move? I'm trying to make you feel better about it).

Thank you for the "trying to make you feel better" comment. I appreciate it.

However, after thinking about it ... I went back and edited my response to take out the negative part ... it was snarky...and really didn't add anything to the conversation.

But....again, thank you.

 

[TallGlassOfSarcasm]

I usually wake up horny, and half been told on numerous occasions by my husband that just because he wakes up hard, that it doesn't mean he is horny. (Not that he does not perform when asked) but so the question begs are you waking up horny or just hard?

Just hard.

As I wake up and my blood starting pumping. The extra blood pressure enda up making me hard.

But it's strictly a biological reaction. I am not aroused.

I mean....it's still an erection. It will work as designed if needed. But I'm not waking up desiring sex. I am not horny. I don't want to jerk off. And if I try to it is not exciting at all.

That being said....I can still be turned on in the morning. If a woman wakes up next to me and starts touching me and kissing me I will get sexually aroused from that. And the morning wood boner will be fun.

But just waking up by myself hard.... nope. Not exciting. And it goes away by the time I walk to the bathroom and the blood starts going into my arms and legs.

 

[DarkRaven13]

Just hard.

As I wake up and my blood starting pumping. The extra blood pressure enda up making me hard.

But it's strictly a biological reaction. I am not aroused.

I mean....it's still an erection. It will work as designed if needed. But I'm not waking up desiring sex. I am not horny. I don't want to jerk off. And if I try to it is not exciting at all.

That being said....I can still be turned on in the morning. If a woman wakes up next to me and starts touching me and kissing me I will get sexually aroused from that. And the morning wood boner will be fun.

But just waking up by myself hard.... nope. Not exciting. And it goes away by the time I walk to the bathroom and the blood starts going into my arms and legs.

That sounded like a very honest answer

 

[TallGlassOfSarcasm]

That sounded like a very honest answer

It was an honest question.

It deserved an honest answer.

 

[HumpDayHoratio]

I usually wake up horny, and half been told on numerous occasions by my husband that just because he wakes up hard, that it doesn't mean he is horny. (Not that he does not perform when asked) but so the question begs are you waking up horny or just hard?

The doctors explanation would be that as our bladders fill overnight it puts pressure on the prostate. Just like when you give your SO a prostate massage (you are giving him P-spot massages…right? ) that causes an erection. This coupled with erections through the night, normal in healthy males to keep everything work’n.

Those two coupled and depending when we wake up, we may have Morning Wood, Piss Bone, call it whatever you like!

Then again you just may want to knock a piece out that morning!

 

[WSM98]

Thank you for the "trying to make you feel better" comment. I appreciate it.

However, after thinking about it ... I went back and edited my response to take out the negative part ... it was snarky...and really didn't add anything to the conversation.

But....again, thank you.

Well, I think you're awesome. Happy posting!

 

[talkeasy5813]

Like a lot of men, I usually wake up in an aroused state. I’ve asked my girlfriend and a few of my friends if women do too. None could really give a definitive answer, but they are curious to know as well.

Have at it Litsters. Do women wake up horny?

I sometimes wake up in the middle of the night and need to masturbate because I’m horny.

 

[Lady2020]

No. Probably bc my first thought is I need to brush my teeth. Plus I'm not a morning person.

 

[PlanetaryNebula]

I wake up cranky

 

[AngelWithAShotgun]

I wake up cranky

We really should have just polled you for the answer, Ms. I DON'T WANNA

 

[PlanetaryNebula]

We really should have just polled you for the answer, Ms. I DON'T WANNA

DYING!
The I don’t wannas apply to morning sex as well. Anything morning that isn’t me getting breakfast in bed gets an i don’t wanna

 

[Gamina]

Just hard.

As I wake up and my blood starting pumping. The extra blood pressure enda up making me hard.

But it's strictly a biological reaction. I am not aroused.

I mean....it's still an erection. It will work as designed if needed. But I'm not waking up desiring sex. I am not horny. I don't want to jerk off. And if I try to it is not exciting at all.

That being said....I can still be turned on in the morning. If a woman wakes up next to me and starts touching me and kissing me I will get sexually aroused from that. And the morning wood boner will be fun.

But just waking up by myself hard.... nope. Not exciting. And it goes away by the time I walk to the bathroom and the blood starts going into my arms and legs.

Yes this sounds very much like how my husband explained it to me. (Also why I blow him instead of jerk him off when I really want sex) over the years we had to work on our dynamics as I am mostly horny in the morning and he is horny at night, so we both had to come to turns with not getting sex all the time when we want to, but also both had to learn to start having sex when we are not necessarily horny to start with. The good thing is that with good communication, these things sort themselves out nicely

 

[30bandits]

Yes I noticed that a well timed blow job usually increased my odds of getting lucky

is there ever a bad time for one ?

 

[Gamina]

is there ever a bad time for one ?

I have been told there indeed were bad times for it

 

[30bandits]

I have been told there indeed were bad times for it

church....definately in church...

 

[Gamina]

church....definately in church...

Not acknowledging I did this before. But no it was not then