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Do you ever just ASK to be gotten off?

you're talking bout every man's perfect dream girl,
but not everyone is lucky to get her. :-(
good luck
 
Hmm

I actually don't mind doing that at all.
I'm not all about being intense about getting off also.
I like being able to just help my man after a hard day.
Relax him, run a hot bath or shower for him, feed him a good dinner and then give him a mind-blowing orgasm.

It's all a part of a happy relationship. Give and take.
 
I wouldn't ask because a big part of what turns me on is to know I'm turning my partner on. I'd rather just do it myself if all I wanted was an orgasm. It's easier anyway! :)

But I wouldn't mind if my partner asked once in a while. He doesn't. But I'd probably find it kind of hot if he did and it would probably lead to sex.

But not if he did it all the time. Then it would get annoying.
 
I had an Italian GF once who told me to just let her know when I was horny so she could get me off. She followed through on her word... She even gave me oral while we were driving once...

Most of the time when I'd tell her I was feeling horny she would start out with a handjob or oral and intend for that to be it... But then she'd get turned on as well which usually meant vaginal sex with her on top... or anal.

Most other women I've been with would probably smack me if I asked them this though. Except maybe one other... ;)
 
My first real GF ask me for oral, then taught me how to do it right. A win-win!
 
With most women that isn't going to work exactly as described.

I dated a woman who was somewhat submissive sexually, and I could push her against a wall, holder her hands above her head, press myself against for for a moment and say, "Go down on me. Now."

Of course, that turned her on and we'd usually end up fooling around for a while. :)
 
Turnabout is fair play

Well the pendulum should swing both ways here. If my partner is willing to "drop and give me 20" so to speak with no quid-pro-quo, then she should equally be able to ask for the same. And neither one should abuse the privledge ;)
 
yeah except most women don't act like sex slaves who are sitting next to you while you are watching tv for the sole purpose of pleasuring you when you get hard.
 
Hot

To be asked to just suck the dick to get him off. Hot. I love it. Really.

In the right relationship, I see nothing wrong with it. It's HOT. I would definately do that. Yes I would.
 
My man doesn't like to ask me because he feels like he's using me in that particular situation. It's offensive to him. I wish he would ask because I would love to do it for him.

But the minute I even mention feeling frisky I quickly find myself being treated to mind blowing oral from him.

He's obsessed with licking me, not that I mind. But I would like to return the favor sometimes.

Though he does let me give him oral after he's satisfied me first. It's his golden sexual rule "The lady always cums first".
 
tenchikoi said:
My man doesn't like to ask me because he feels like he's using me in that particular situation. It's offensive to him. I wish he would ask because I would love to do it for him.

But the minute I even mention feeling frisky I quickly find myself being treated to mind blowing oral from him.

He's obsessed with licking me, not that I mind. But I would like to return the favor sometimes.

Though he does let me give him oral after he's satisfied me first. It's his golden sexual rule "The lady always cums first".
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:) you've got a keeper there
 
Wow... so many of the female posters here just reinforced why I've had to turn to the BDSM pool for dating. This is coming from women on an erotic forum even! You won't take care of your partners needs and desires? Even when they flat out ask you? Just...wow.

The last girl I was with, I had trained very well. If I took her hand and placed it in my lap, she knew what I needed and promptly took care of it. That's the kind of service that keeps a man loyal to you. It's a shame I had to move, I miss having that very much.
 
My relationship with my wife has grown to the point that yes, I can do this,and it actually happened just recently. She was in the midst of her period and I knew she wouldn't and didn't feel up to anything for her. I came home from the gym after work and was feeling extra horny and politely asked her if she would be willing to help me out with the situation. She gave me a great handjob with a lot of kissing and some nipple biting, and gave me a great orgasm. I think it's all about the communication and how you "present" it. We're not into BDSM so it was more just out of love and respect for the other person and wanting to make them feel good and being there for their needs. I would do the same for her in a second too if she ever asked. She knows I have a higher sex drive than she does so this is one way she likes to make me feel good, even if she's not in the mood for full blown sex. We've been married 20 years and it's taken a LONG time for us to grow to this point. I love her for it, she says she enjoys doing it for me, so as long as I'm there for her when she's in the mood, I don't think it's an unreasonable request. Before we talked about all of this I felt guilty asking, but she assured me she likes to do this for me, and if she's not in the mood to do it at the time of my request, I respect that too.
 
teemeup has it

We have been married long enough and dated long before that. I can look over too mrsK and say: you know what would me nice, one of your Awesome Blow-jobs. I sure wouldn't say....jack me off baby.....though when I know she is feeling frisky.....will say....would be nice watching you suck my cock.....hehe...:cool:
 
I do that for my partner. Sometimes a mind blowing orgasam is what he needs to take his mind off of a bad day. He has joked though that he has created a Pavlovian response in me to him being stressed.

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I had 1 g/f that would do this on request. Not realy a BDSM thing but more like she seemed to feel obliged when i asked her. Got to the point where Id just take it out without saying anything and she would go down. Didnt mater if it was while watching TV, in the car, or hanging out in the back yard (fenced in). Of course i did anything she asked of me but im sure it was 2 to 1 in my favor. Ah those were the days.
 
I think we're, as a culture, entirely too stuck up about sex. We should feel comfortable enough as to just ask for what we want, and to not mind giving what somebody else wants.

It's a shame most of us aren't like that, though.
 
Yes. Sometimes it'd obvious that she isn't interested, but I need it. So I tell her, and she does it because she loves me. :heart:
 
There have been plenty of mornings when my H wakes up with morning wood. If we have the time, say on a weekend, it's my ticket to heaven ;)
But, if I have to get the kids dressed, fed and off to school in an hour, I'll blow him and make him promise to do me later. He always keeps his promise :devil:

But I have to agree with some of the other (older) posts here: NEVER with the TV on. Unless, of course, it's porn ;)
 
I dunno ya'll. I can tell my wife I want a blowjob and she is quick to oblige. I mean sure there are time when she don't feel like it and I don't force her but most of the time if not right then, she will later that night. I think it is a matter of women trying to understand the man. Hell, if she asked me to do it for her I would do it without question. Even if she said something like "I don't feel like sex but,will you just suck my clit til my head caves in?"
 
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