Do you have a fuck buddy?????

You too and while I am sad that Ivan had to strike anyone, I am glad that you were spared for the most part this time.
 
Hi MM and everyone

well..... I think I may have found my friend/lover. Actually, he found me ;) Since he contacted me, we've been keeping in touch via email, im's and phone, and he doesn't live too far from me.
He's a very sweet and compassionate man...and funny!
I think something could be happening here.... at least I'm hoping so.

*keeping my fingers crossed*
 
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Missingmeds said:
If it helps any, I will keep my fingers crossed for you too Babydoll.

thanks hun... I appreciate it!
mine have been and still are crossed for you too ;)
 
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great news

babydoll2u said:
Hi MM and everyone

well..... I think I may have found my friend/lover. Actually, he found me ;) Since he contacted me, we've been keeping in touch via email, im's and phone, and he doesn't live too far from me.
He's a very sweet and compassionate man...and funny!
I think something could be happening here.... at least I'm hoping so.

*keeping my fingers crossed*

Wish you the best of luck and tell him to join your thread so we can remind him how lucky he is. Be careful pretty lady

hugs, henry:rose:
 
Fuck buddies can be wonderful! As long as you both are in it for the same thing. No commitment. Someone to turn to when you need to have someone to hold and of course, the sex. Just make sure that one does not develop feelings for the other. It could be disastrous.
 
tonitits said:
Fuck buddies can be wonderful! As long as you both are in it for the same thing. No commitment. Someone to turn to when you need to have someone to hold and of course, the sex. Just make sure that one does not develop feelings for the other. It could be disastrous.


Yeah we've talked about this....I even sent him ToyDoc's description of the FB relationship and he completely agrees.


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....The cool thing about a FB is distance, time apart, and not a life partnership commitment, but a friendship that includes sex.

.....Just remember, there is going to be love involved to a degree. friendship is, after all, one of loves many facets.


This being said...I'm not afraid of the "feelings" that may develope. I do, after all, want a friend first....with the benefits ;)
 
babydoll2u said:
Yeah we've talked about this....I even sent him ToyDoc's description of the FB relationship and he completely agrees.


Here it is again, edited:


....The cool thing about a FB is distance, time apart, and not a life partnership commitment, but a friendship that includes sex.

.....Just remember, there is going to be love involved to a degree. friendship is, after all, one of loves many facets.


This being said...I'm not afraid of the "feelings" that may develope. I do, after all, want a friend first....with the benefits ;)

Well good. I have had one for 5 yrs. we work together and started out as friends/co workers and then he called me and asked if I wanted to be his fuck buddy. (After knowing each other for about 1.5 yrs) I didn't know what that was but knew that there was something that we both shared, a desire to get to know each other so I said yes. I started to fall for him but when I realized how it was supposed to be and that he would not return those feelings for me I backed off on my feelings. You really CAN do that! I didn't want to lose his friendship or the sex. We went from can't keep our hands off of each other to calmer, but just as good sex and then back to some really hot sex and times that we can hardly keep our hands off each other. But the funny thing is noone at works even knows or suspects that we have anything other than friendship at work. They do know that from time to time when I have been sick that he has called to see how I was doing, but so did other friends at work. I think when your fuck buddy is a co worker it is important to keep it out of the prying eyes at work. At times the relationship changed. But during difficult times like when my mom died he was a totally great friend and never expected anything from me, not even sex. He just let me talk and held me. And then when I got hurt, he was great friend and he has always considered my feelings and wanted to please me. I had a friend ask me if I wanted it to be more because I could make it happen. I told her I didn't know if I would ever want to have that kind of relationship with him but enjoy being able to turn to him when I need a friend and lover. Good luck. I hope that everything works out for you.
 
tonitits said:
Well good. I have had one for 5 yrs. we work together and started out as friends/co workers and then he called me and asked if I wanted to be his fuck buddy. (After knowing each other for about 1.5 yrs) I didn't know what that was but knew that there was something that we both shared, a desire to get to know each other so I said yes. I started to fall for him but when I realized how it was supposed to be and that he would not return those feelings for me I backed off on my feelings. You really CAN do that! I didn't want to lose his friendship or the sex. We went from can't keep our hands off of each other to calmer, but just as good sex and then back to some really hot sex and times that we can hardly keep our hands off each other. But the funny thing is noone at works even knows or suspects that we have anything other than friendship at work. They do know that from time to time when I have been sick that he has called to see how I was doing, but so did other friends at work. I think when your fuck buddy is a co worker it is important to keep it out of the prying eyes at work. At times the relationship changed. But during difficult times like when my mom died he was a totally great friend and never expected anything from me, not even sex. He just let me talk and held me. And then when I got hurt, he was great friend and he has always considered my feelings and wanted to please me. I had a friend ask me if I wanted it to be more because I could make it happen. I told her I didn't know if I would ever want to have that kind of relationship with him but enjoy being able to turn to him when I need a friend and lover. Good luck. I hope that everything works out for you.

that is so fantastic Toni.... a perfect example of what I need/want, and what my friend says he needs and wants. Just maybe.....
 
Missingmeds said:
Good afternoon everyone.

Babydoll, just know that I am pulling for you on this one.


thank you sweetie... I really appreciate it ;)


Good afternoon y'all
 
I get to see mine this Friday!!!:D

I think I may be a much nicer person by the ime next Sat rolls around...lol!
 
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