Lord Pmann Wants to Discuss Masturbation

[BongoGal]

I obviously never told her, and never told anyone (because why would I?) but I didn't comply. And while I never outright lied because she didn't ask me, I knew I was going against her wishes because she had told me how she felt. For some reason, we were both in our early 20s and I was young enough that it didn't make me feel guilty that I did it behind her back.

I still vividly remember a brief conversation we had before she left on a trip with her family.

"I give you permission to masturbate while I'm gone," she said.

I was shocked but didn't say anything.

When she returned home, she brought it up.

"Did you masturbate while I was gone?"

I told her yes. And she said, "You did?"

And then I got scared and told her I was just kidding. Even though she had given me permission, it didn't sound like she was going to be happy about what I did.

First of all, yikes.

Secondly, I think the best play would have been to say you did it while thinking about the two of you in some scenario she would find sexy and romantic.

 

[dontneedone]

First of all, yikes.

Secondly, I think the best play would have been to say you did it while thinking about the two of you in some scenario she would find sexy and romantic.

That's the thing. All these years later, I have no idea why I just never said to her that the only times I jerked off was thinking about her.

I mean, can somebody really get mad about that?

It's hard to explain, but I think I was too uncomfortable to speak up.

ETA: I'm pretty sure she was a dominatrix in the making but I was much too naive to know the signs. True story.

 

[Apisto42]

So, as I was perusing social media, this article came up.

Hot Girl From The Bachelor No Longer Masturbates

I’m not sure why my socials had stuff from The Bachelor on there.

Anyway…

It’s a tragic story about this really pretty girl who hasn’t masturbated in 10 years. It’s one of the saddest stories I’ve ever read in my life. Apparently, she used to be a chronic masturbator. But, she stopped.

Poor thing, I can’t imagine being totally paralyzed and not able to wank. I’m assuming that’s why she stopped.

Now, I’ve been free of masturbation for the last hour and a half. But, it’s pretty rare that I go very long without an orgasm.

The longest I’ve gone without an orgasm since my, uhm, “coming” of age is 4 days, I believe. And that’s when I had a vasectomy. I was very gingerly wanking for days later trying to make sure I didn’t damage my wounded junk.

Sounds about right, that first nut was a bit painful.

So, what’s the longest you’ve gone without an orgasm?

A week? Not counting sickness, high fever type of stuff.

Are you addicted to masturbating?

No, but it’s definitely a stress reliever.

Could you stop if you wanted?

Why would I want to?

How often do you do it?

When the mood strikes. Currently that’s hit or miss, life is really stressful and depressing a lot so not feeling overly sexual. But then randomly I get hit with “I’ve got to have an orgasm NOW”.

I routinely go weeks between orgasms

I'm an evolved being

That’s not evolved. It may be many things, but evolved it’s not. Is it the Birkenstocks? Are those limiting your sexy feelings?

There was an article?!

The articles are why I have a subscription right?

Okay, I mostly looked at the pictures.

I skimmed the article looking for the bikini pic, but I was disappointed. Not even a nipple poking through a blouse. Sad.

 

[aussiegeekygal]

One of my ex-girlfriends believed it was the same as cheating. She forbid me from doing it.

My husband struggled with the same feelings for a very long time

 

[BongoGal]

So, what’s the longest you’ve gone without an orgasm?

When I was nineteen, I ‘lost’* my virginity and knew that a visit to the gynecologist was in order. For reasons that now seem absurdly stupid, I decided to refrain from masturbating for a week prior to the exam. This was basically cold turkey after years of daily self-pleasuring. That was a big mistake.

Flash forward to 2015. I injured myself rather severely and in such a way that for weeks on end, I was physically unable to touch myself…down there. For the first few days, it didn’t matter because I was on lots of pain meds that made me not care about much at all. However, the meds were soon dropped to zero, and I became aware that I was stuck in bed, increasingly horny, and unable to do anything about it. I wasn’t at home, but my sex toys were. Access to the Magic Wand would have been awesome, but I would have been too mortified to ask anyone to get it for me. In retrospect, I probably could have convinced an ex-bf to visit me and give me a fingering for old times sake, but that, too, would have been fraught with complications. I ended up gritting my teeth and being frustrated. I had lots of alone time in bed, reading and watching TV. It was amazing how the most slightly sexy things I’d see or read would turn me on. Flirty glances by television characters would do it. Even chaste Hallmark kisses got me going. One particularly memorable incident during this period involved my becoming throbbingly aroused during a local news show’s weather segment. [eye roll emoji] I’m sure that this horniness was very much psychological, but I wonder if there is a physical component.

*Actually, I remember exactly where I left it.

 

[ScarletDaisy]

I broke a vertebra in my back a few years ago and had to have surgery. It's amazing how that will kill one's libido.

It took me a long time after that to be comfortable enough in my body to have an orgasm. Sex was terrifying (in that 'please don't break me for real' kind of way)... So I think it probably took me a little more than a year before I was able to chill out and trust my body enough to have an orgasm.

Under non-traumatic situations, if it's been more than a week or so, I'll eventually get to the point where that's all I'm thinking about and I need to get off.

 

[Apisto42]

My husband struggled with the same feelings for a very long time

Religion is such a mind fuck.

 

[nudeblaqgirl]

*CUMMMMS*​

 

[nudeblaqgirl]

Mmmmm

 

[velona]

I hope my earlier comments were not seen as endorsing purity culture in any way.

I’d like to be clear that I fully support masturbation. Everyone should know what gets them off, what they like or don’t like, etc.

So, what’s the longest you’ve gone without an orgasm?

No idea, I’ve never kept track, but I’m sure there were periods of a week or two here and there.

Are you addicted to masturbating?

Maybe?

Could you stop if you wanted?

Like, forever???

How often do you do it?

Ideally once a day, but life doesn’t always cooperate with that plan.

Also, I agree with @lavendersilk that hormones play a huge role. For me, stress does as well.

 

[LostHorizon]

I hope my earlier comments were not seen as endorsing purity culture in any way.

Whew! I was beginning to worry that you were an evangelical spy of some kind keeping tabs on the rest of us and not the stories.

You are after all a lurker

I’d like to be clear that I fully support masturbation. Everyone should know what gets them off, what they like or don’t like, etc.

You should run for office with a position like that. You would definitely win.

 

[Apisto42]

I hope my earlier comments were not seen as endorsing purity culture in any way.

Not at all. All of that religious shit about purity just pisses me right on off. It leads to a lot of torture (female circumcision) and fucked up people. Reaction emoji are a poor substitute for words sometimes and I apologize if I discombobulated you in any way.

I’d like to be clear that I fully support masturbation. Everyone should know what gets them off, what they like or don’t like, etc.

Yes. And if anyone is going on a journey of exploration, please follow @aussiegeekygal lead and document it here for us to cheer you on.

 

[kreemi_pi]

I masturbated once.

That kinda opened my floodgates so to speak

 

[dontneedone]

When I was nineteen, I ‘lost’* my virginity and knew that a visit to the gynecologist was in order. For reasons that now seem absurdly stupid, I decided to refrain from masturbating for a week prior to the exam. This was basically cold turkey after years of daily self-pleasuring. That was a big mistake.

Flash forward to 2015. I injured myself rather severely and in such a way that for weeks on end, I was physically unable to touch myself…down there. For the first few days, it didn’t matter because I was on lots of pain meds that made me not care about much at all. However, the meds were soon dropped to zero, and I became aware that I was stuck in bed, increasingly horny, and unable to do anything about it. I wasn’t at home, but my sex toys were. Access to the Magic Wand would have been awesome, but I would have been too mortified to ask anyone to get it for me. In retrospect, I probably could have convinced an ex-bf to visit me and give me a fingering for old times sake, but that, too, would have been fraught with complications. I ended up gritting my teeth and being frustrated. I had lots of alone time in bed, reading and watching TV. It was amazing how the most slightly sexy things I’d see or read would turn me on. Flirty glances by television characters would do it. Even chaste Hallmark kisses got me going. One particularly memorable incident during this period involved my becoming throbbingly aroused during a local news show’s weather segment. [eye roll emoji] I’m sure that this horniness was very much psychological, but I wonder if there is a physical component.

*Actually, I remember exactly where I left it.

Horny........during a weather forecast??? Like was turned on by approaching snow?

 

[BongoGal]

Horny........during a weather forecast??? Like was turned on by approaching snow?

Oh, it wasn’t the forecast itself. It was…quick version here: the pretty weather girl was halfway through her bit when she suddenly started to have slightly but quite noticeably pokey nips. I was, like, “We’ve all been there”, but then my mind went to the thought of how at that very moment there were surely dozens of guys home alone who were whipping it out to stroke themselves to the unexpected nipple show on the news. That’s what set me off.

 

[dontneedone]

Oh, it wasn’t the forecast itself. It was…quick version here: the pretty weather girl was halfway through her bit when she suddenly started to have slightly but quite noticeably pokey nips. I was, like, “We’ve all been there”, but then my mind went to the thought of how at that very moment there were surely dozens of guys home alone who were whipping it out to stroke themselves to the unexpected nipple show on the news. That’s what set me off.

Hahahaha. Did not see the story going there, but it all makes sense now.

Perhaps maybe even accurate, but boy, would they have to be quick.

 

[RozayTrell]

So, as I was perusing social media, this article came up.

Hot Girl From The Bachelor No Longer Masturbates

I’m not sure why my socials had stuff from The Bachelor on there.

Anyway…

It’s a tragic story about this really pretty girl who hasn’t masturbated in 10 years. It’s one of the saddest stories I’ve ever read in my life. Apparently, she used to be a chronic masturbator. But, she stopped.

Now, I’ve been free of masturbation for the last hour and a half. But, it’s pretty rare that I go very long without an orgasm.

The longest I’ve gone without an orgasm since my, uhm, “coming” of age is 4 days, I believe. And that’s when I had a vasectomy. I was very gingerly wanking for days later trying to make sure I didn’t damage my wounded junk.

So, what’s the longest you’ve gone without an orgasm? Are you addicted to masturbating? Could you stop if you wanted? How often do you do it?

I believe when it comes to masturbating or being horny it’s very mental as it is physical . For me I’ve gone months but that’s because of a job or other things being on my mind I don’t have time to fully just masturbate and cum as much as I want .
I used to masturbate all the time . Now I pick and choose , but I’m a believer in the fact that the more you orgasm the better off you are . Not just mentally but health as well

 

[Hornymwtxn]

So, as I was perusing social media, this article came up.

Hot Girl From The Bachelor No Longer Masturbates

I’m not sure why my socials had stuff from The Bachelor on there.

Anyway…

It’s a tragic story about this really pretty girl who hasn’t masturbated in 10 years. It’s one of the saddest stories I’ve ever read in my life. Apparently, she used to be a chronic masturbator. But, she stopped.

Now, I’ve been free of masturbation for the last hour and a half. But, it’s pretty rare that I go very long without an orgasm.

The longest I’ve gone without an orgasm since my, uhm, “coming” of age is 4 days, I believe. And that’s when I had a vasectomy. I was very gingerly wanking for days later trying to make sure I didn’t damage my wounded junk.

So, what’s the longest you’ve gone without an orgasm? Are you addicted to masturbating? Could you stop if you wanted? How often do you do it?

Longest span without an orgasm? 20 days maybe but that was after a life threatening stay in the hospital. 3 days tops excluding that.

Addicted? Sure

Stop if I wanted to? Sure but I don't wanna stop.

How often? I would say I avg 50 a month easy

 

[Apisto42]

It’s also really good for long term prostate health. So guys, if anyone tells you to stop, reply that it’s medically necessary.

 

[Endless_Night]

It’s also really good for long term prostate health. So guys, if anyone tells you to stop, reply that it’s medically necessary.

Is this really true?

Or is it one of those things people say, you know, like masturbation makes you go blind.

 

[BongoGal]

It’s also really good for long term prostate health. So guys, if anyone tells you to stop, reply that it’s medically necessary.

Is this really true?

According to real life scientific studies, it really is true. Look up ejaculation frequency and prostate cancer.

 

[BongoGal]

One thing that I was surprised to hear from two different guys over the years was that while masturbation relieves blue balls, the resulting orgasm isn’t as super great as I imagined. They both said (in their own ways) that while they were perfectly serviceable orgasms, they weren’t particularly explosive and that the sensation of blue balls still took a while to go away.

 

[dontneedone]

One thing that I was surprised to hear from two different guys over the years was that while masturbation relieves blue balls, the resulting orgasm isn’t as super great as I imagined. They both said (in their own ways) that while they were perfectly serviceable orgasms, they weren’t particularly explosive and that the sensation of blue balls still took a while to go away.

I can't speak for everyone as their experiences can be different, but what your two guys said is what I have felt each time.

The orgasm was certainly fine - most are - but it wasn't as if there was a lot more cum or the intensity felt any different.

My stomach/balls still feel achy for a bit afterward but it goes away much faster than not relieving the blue balls at all.

 

[Hornymwtxn]

One thing that I was surprised to hear from two different guys over the years was that while masturbation relieves blue balls, the resulting orgasm isn’t as super great as I imagined. They both said (in their own ways) that while they were perfectly serviceable orgasms, they weren’t particularly explosive and that the sensation of blue balls still took a while to go away.

Pretty much all my orgasms feel the same, awesome

 

[Ssbbw4u1974]

One of my ex-girlfriends believed it was the same as cheating. She forbid me from doing it.

When I was married, I caught him masturbating twice.. I was appalled!!
I found his porn twice, I was appalled...

Now that's all I want is to know a guy is masturbating to me..

(I wasn't the best sexually supportive wife..I wish I could go back and change a lot sexually with him)