Do you think there are more bisexual....

[Swuck]

From experience there are a lot of bi men.

 

[Wand3rlust]

I think there are far more men and women at different places along the spectrum than there are squarely at one end or the other.

I believe this to be true

 

[Dalelaw2164]

Yeah I do see a tendency for men to be fairly determined to want to make THEIR fantasy become YOURS rather than to be willing to give YOUR fantasy a shot now and then. The most persistent are guys who have a ‘thing’ about a woman’s FEET. I can’t get excited about a guy ‘worshipping my feet’ at all.

Maybe the feet thing is a safe way for a guy to relinquish the control he never had or really wanted in the first place. A guys brain is a complex mess- ego and “keeping up appearances” are always battling our true selves.
So yeah, I don’t get the foot worship thing either. I mean, I love a woman’s feet, but mainly I want them pressed firmly against my chest.
I didn’t get enough sleep and my coffee isn’t strong enough, so this is all gibberish.
Perhaps an obsessive foot worshipper is a guy who really wants to be dominated and placed in a submissive position but doesn’t have the balls to say so.

 

[phil97405]

Interesting thread. I have to idea what the answer to the question is. I think maybe preference/orientation is fluid for many, depending on where they are in life, situation, time and place, etc., etc. I also agree that it could very well be a spectrum for many folks, rather than a "yes" or "no," and that younger people are generally more open to it.

 

[Swuck]

For me being bi provides balance. In daily life I am an alpha. Choosing to be a submissive bottom brings balance to my daily life. It is a great release to submit to a masculine top and allow him to use me as he wishes.

 

[DaddysSissySlut24]

More bisexual men. I used to be bi, then I said "what the hell" and now I'm gay.

What do I base that on? Only the fact that men will fuck a dead tree if it has a hole in it at a convenient height (don't...don't ask me how I know that and DON'T JUDGE!)

 

[DaddysSissySlut24]

I think we're all bi..some just won't admit it...

I'm tri...I'll tri anything!

 

[DaddysSissySlut24]

I went back and changed that. I initially said more guys were bi than would admit. But I don’t know that that is true. That’s why I changed it to bi-curious or cock curious, because that part, I think, is true.

Actually, I don’t know if anything I say is true.

But I think the fascination with our own cocks lends itself to an eventual curiosity in other’s.

But most guys won’t admit it. I know I won’t.

Also, consider that the porn industry has mostly male consumers and that porn...and ftr I love porn...is kind of a gateway into that lifestyle. Nothing magical about it...just an example of the more common psychological phenomenon known as the "mere exposure effect".

 

[Lady2020]

Let's be honest. Who hasn't thought of going the other way when you get your fill of assholes of your required partner sex. The reality is that people are assholes. Choose what you want. Just be more discriminating.

 

[DaddysSissySlut24]

Maybe the feet thing is a safe way for a guy to relinquish the control he never had or really wanted in the first place. A guys brain is a complex mess- ego and “keeping up appearances” are always battling our true selves.
So yeah, I don’t get the foot worship thing either. I mean, I love a woman’s feet, but mainly I want them pressed firmly against my chest.
I didn’t get enough sleep and my coffee isn’t strong enough, so this is all gibberish.
Perhaps an obsessive foot worshipper is a guy who really wants to be dominated and placed in a submissive position but doesn’t have the balls to say so.

Not into it myself...every guy I knew into footworship ended up being quite the heel.

Yes...no, I...I can see myself out, thank you! (walks away, muttering...)

 

[Jeph77]

younger gals and older guys

 

[DaddysSissySlut24]

Let's be honest. Who hasn't thought of going the other way when you get your fill of assholes of your required partner sex. The reality is that people are assholes. Choose what you want. Just be more discriminating.

"People are assholes"...that is more true than the Bible! Of course, any given Stephen King book is more true than the Bible. I mean yeah, fiction is fiction, but...I think I know who wrote "It"! Although...I wasn't there. And I've taken the "discriminating" to heart...which is why I've been absolutely solitary for 7 years and going! Still, sometimes I even need to get away from ME! That...is where the drugs come in. Hey, I don't meth around! (Wait...was that a...Freudian slip? No...no, I think that was more of a Jungian slip).

 

[drobert44]

"People are assholes"...that is more true than the Bible! Of course, any given Stephen King book is more true than the Bible. I mean yeah, fiction is fiction, but...I think I know who wrote "It"! Although...I wasn't there. And I've taken the "discriminating" to heart...which is why I've been absolutely solitary for 7 years and going! Still, sometimes I even need to get away from ME! That...is where the drugs come in. Hey, I don't meth around! (Wait...was that a...Freudian slip? No...no, I think that was more of a Jungian slip).

Exactly, Lady2020..........I am so glad to be bi.

 

[Apisto42]

Let's be honest. Who hasn't thought of going the other way when you get your fill of assholes of your required partner sex. The reality is that people are assholes. Choose what you want. Just be more discriminating.

Ya know, if I go the other way, it’s just assholes.

 

[drobert44]

I'm bi... I've always believed most of us are. I think the newer generations are making it more and more acceptable to be genuine.


I used to have a sexy website (it's been shut down due to content) where there were members and I was the host. In public and private, several of the men told me they identified as bisexual. Out of about 300 Members total (99% male) I'd say 75% said they were bi.

And, why the hell not? Consenting adults.