Down the rabbit hole

[Apisto42]

I swear, some days (okay most days) I’m really amazed that society functions as well as it does and we’re not all just dying in a mud puddle. Why a mother fucker can’t do their job correctly without someone standing over them is beyond me.

Rant off.

I know that people fuck up and don’t do shit correctly, but it really just makes me tired when their mistakes fuck me over because I didn’t have the time to double check their fucking job.

 

[hotoldrguy]

I swear, some days (okay most days) I’m really amazed that society functions as well as it does and we’re not all just dying in a mud puddle. Why a mother fucker can’t do their job correctly without someone standing over them is beyond me.

Rant off.

I know that people fuck up and don’t do shit correctly, but it really just makes me tired when their mistakes fuck me over because I didn’t have the time to double check their fucking job.

pretty much happens with all of us and yes it does suck

 

[Apisto42]

Going to pick up the death certificates today. Which means I can finally get going on the official stuff. Deeds, titles, banking, credit, you know, the fun stuff of dealing with red tape and government.

Might pick up the plumbing supplies to fix the water line to the outside spigot as well.

 

[PrettyLilPussy19]

Going to pick up the death certificates today. Which means I can finally get going on the official stuff. Deeds, titles, banking, credit, you know, the fun stuff of dealing with red tape and government.

Might pick up the plumbing supplies to fix the water line to the outside spigot as well.

Get yourself a sweet treat. It makes every hard thing a little easier.

 

[cheekygirl75]

Going to pick up the death certificates today. Which means I can finally get going on the official stuff. Deeds, titles, banking, credit, you know, the fun stuff of dealing with red tape and government.

Might pick up the plumbing supplies to fix the water line to the outside spigot as well.

Make it easy on yourself - do one a day or one every couple of days. It could be a lot of calling people and waiting on the phone, don’t try to do it all at once. Maybe make a list of what you need to do and if any of them have deadlines.

 

[Apisto42]

Get yourself a sweet treat. It makes every hard thing a little easier.

I would, but you’re too far away …

Make it easy on yourself - do one a day or one every couple of days. It could be a lot of calling people and waiting on the phone, don’t try to do it all at once. Maybe make a list of what you need to do and if any of them have deadlines.

Yeah, I’ve got a list. As I think of stuff it gets added to the list. I’ve had practice with this because my father-in-law and his dad died in 2021 and 2020 respectively.

If you’ve never had to be the executor before here’s a list to start you out:

Will to courthouse
Credit bureaus
Credit cards
Bank1
Bank2
Car & trailer titles
House deeds
Car insurance
Utilities
Phone
Health insurance
dental insurance
Life Insurance
Streaming services
Miscellaneous subscriptions
Socials
FB
INSTA
PINTREST
Emails

 

[mickyp123]

Sorry for the loss of your soulmate, what a journey you have both had to navigate, I hope her newly bestowed wings help to lighten not only her pain but also to help relieve the pain she knew you were suffering. My experience is the partner suffers more because they are unable to do anything apart from comfort and support. During these sad and dark times every time you manage to laugh and smile it will make her do the same. Just incase through the universe she is able to read this Blessed Be x

 

[hotoldrguy]

Going to pick up the death certificates today. Which means I can finally get going on the official stuff. Deeds, titles, banking, credit, you know, the fun stuff of dealing with red tape and government.

Might pick up the plumbing supplies to fix the water line to the outside spigot as well.

looks like a tough and busy day. There is always paperwork

 

[TongueLust]

I'm so sorry for your loss.🕯

 

[AmberLGreen]

I swear, some days (okay most days) I’m really amazed that society functions as well as it does and we’re not all just dying in a mud puddle. Why a mother fucker can’t do their job correctly without someone standing over them is beyond me.

Rant off.

I know that people fuck up and don’t do shit correctly, but it really just makes me tired when their mistakes fuck me over because I didn’t have the time to double check their fucking job.

Do you need to send me a hit list?

 

[Apisto42]

Do you need to send me a hit list?

Start at the top and work your way down.

 

[AmberLGreen]

Start at the top and work your way down.

That’s the kind of Hit List I like, my little bunny

 

[chame1eon]

Going to pick up the death certificates today. Which means I can finally get going on the official stuff. Deeds, titles, banking, credit, you know, the fun stuff of dealing with red tape and government.

Might pick up the plumbing supplies to fix the water line to the outside spigot as well.

Oh I know. There is so much to do and it just comes at you like a firehose when all you want is a little time to grieve.

 

[asian2015]

If you’ve never had to be the executor before here’s a list to start you out:

Will to courthouse
Credit bureaus
Credit cards
Bank1
Bank2
Car & trailer titles
House deeds
Car insurance
Utilities
Phone
Health insurance
dental insurance
Life Insurance
Streaming services
Miscellaneous subscriptions
Socials
FB
INSTA
PINTREST
Emails

There'll be lots of sub-items within some of those listed above.
Prioritize base on deadlines, if any.
Take it one item a day, don't rush through them or you'll crash.
Oh, itemize what item needs what document, and make extra copies of the necessary ones.
Most will require similar documents.

Sending good thoughts your way.
You've got this.

 

[Apisto42]

Off to the urologist this morning to find out why I haven’t passed this fucking kidney stone.

I did not know that stress can cause kidney stones.

I probably need some suction to help get it out…

 

[Qky75]

Off to the urologist this morning to find out why I haven’t passed this fucking kidney stone.

I did not know that stress can cause kidney stones.

I probably need some suction to help get it out…

Been there. Sorry man. No joke, beer or tea are good diuretics.

 

[morelikeasong]

Off to the urologist this morning to find out why I haven’t passed this fucking kidney stone.

I did not know that stress can cause kidney stones.

I probably need some suction to help get it out…

Need the doc to suck your cock? I think I’ve seen a movie about that before…


(Also I hope you feel better )

 

[Apisto42]

Need the doc to suck your cock? I think I’ve seen a movie about that before…


(Also I hope you feel better )

Not sure. I haven’t met him/her/zirt before. I’ll report back on their cock sucking attraction level.

 

[Apisto42]

Been there. Sorry man. No joke, beer or tea are good diuretics.

Yeah, I don’t normally drink beer often, but I’ve been having one or two at night lately.

 

[Apisto42]

Not sure. I haven’t met him/her/zirt before. I’ll report back on their cock sucking attraction level.

I’d totally let her apply suction. Could do with braces, but that doesn’t bother me.

Told me that it could be 6 weeks before I pass this fucking thing. And joy of joys, there’s another one hanging out in the same kidney.

And this sucked: had to fill out new patient forms and marked “widower” for the first time. Fucking weird shit.

 

[hotoldrguy]

Off to the urologist this morning to find out why I haven’t passed this fucking kidney stone.

I did not know that stress can cause kidney stones.

I probably need some suction to help get it out…

and not the good kind of suck ion

 

[cheekygirl75]

And this sucked: had to fill out new patient forms and marked “widower” for the first time. Fucking weird shit.

 

[peekingone]

Going to pick up the death certificates today. Which means I can finally get going on the official stuff. Deeds, titles, banking, credit, you know, the fun stuff of dealing with red tape and government.

Might pick up the plumbing supplies to fix the water line to the outside spigot as well.

this part is awful to go through. They look at you like what do you want us to do... Can't stand it as I did it for my dad when he passed. Good luck with it all. Keep your head up.

 

[Bloodandglitter]

I'm so sorry for you and your son's loss.

 

[Apisto42]

Going to bring her home today.

God, emotions are such a fickle thing. I’m a fucking mess just typing that.