Edging/orgasm control - what is your experience and tips?

[staciedix]

are you suggesting a challenge ?

 

[staciedix]

The types of edging are endless as is the discipline attached to each session

Are you suggesting a challenge ?

 

[staciedix]

The types of edging are endless as is the discipline attached to each session

Yummy

 

[sweettalk4u]

Yummy

The more input you get the more you can fine tune the edging and permission they need to orgasm

 

[staciedix]

The more input you get the more you can fine tune the edging and permission they need to orgasm

Is begging allowed ?

 

[sweettalk4u]

Is begging allowed ?

Asking permission is

 

[Older_Pervert]

I use the videos where there is a timer to tell you how fast or slow you have to stroke.

Now I know that these videos are usually for men, but when there is a timer, I play with the clit in the same manner, on the counts of the beat in the video as I have no scenarios or significant other to communicate with and most of the times, it works fine.

I had a sub some years ago, in real life, and trained her to cum as I slowly counted down from 10 to 0. If she didn’t make it in time she had to wait until the next time I allowed her to play……

 

[InUorOnU]

It's a very submissive thing ..
So your a Dom but you could be broken with edging/orgasm control ??

I know I could be broken with edging/orgasm control…done right.

 

[mssweetangelina]

Such a powerful and enjoyable practice when the dominant 'fine tunes' the edging/denial/release specifically to a style that fits best for their partner. The acts are beautiful, of course, but it's even more rewarding when their partner learns to desire it more and more.

 

[InUorOnU]

Such a powerful and enjoyable practice when the dominant 'fine tunes' the edging/denial/release specifically to a style that fits best for their partner. The acts are beautiful, of course, but it's even more rewarding when their partner learns to desire it more and more.

Oh yes!

 

[ArabianNights]

I have been edging for many years, and have recently found a way to stroke right to the point of orgasm, stopping and slowing oozing cum. Its almost a ruined orgasm but not quite.

 

[sweettalk4u]

I have been edging for many years, and have recently found a way to stroke right to the point of orgasm, stopping and slowing oozing cum. Its almost a ruined orgasm but not quite.

Ever have someone control your edging?

 

[InUorOnU]

Ever have someone control your edging?

Starting to sound like you are eager to control a guy’s stroking.

 

[sweettalk4u]

Starting to sound like you are eager to control a guy’s stroking.

Love to mentor and train people about submission and yes it begins with controlling their orgasms in a way that keeps them aroused most of the time

 

[InUorOnU]

Love to mentor and train people about submission and yes it begins with controlling their orgasms in a way that keeps them aroused most of the time

Well I am very open you you trying that on me…although I have always had a bit of switch in me, this thread has been awaking the submissive side of things

 

[sweettalk4u]

Well I am very open you you trying that on me…although I have always had a bit of switch in me, this thread has been awaking the submissive side of things

Most of us have multiple sides that need attention from time to time. I’ll pm you

 

[mssweetangelina]

It's a very satisfying and powerful position to be in, to have the privilege of controlling how and when he orgasms

 

[sweettalk4u]

It's a very satisfying and powerful position to be in, to have the privilege of controlling how and when he orgasms

Nothing better! Is he caged?

 

[Ironfan]

Taken to the edge this morning and left after pleasing the wife this morning. Going to have a pleasant ache all day

 

[DevotedHusband1]

My queen is really big on orgasm control and it is an important aspect of our relationship. One thing I would say is that the best is denial combined with stimulation. I am allowed to come every 3-4 days, but madam expects to ride her bull at least once a day and often more than once. This means I experience a *lot* of stimulation even on days when I won't be ejaculating, which really builds the arousal and makes me even more focused and devoted in my service of her, both inside and outside the bedroom.

Sometimes, when it's been several days since my last orgasm, she will stroke me or have me edge myself for a long time - we're talking an hour or more - while promising me that I'll be allowed to come. Then suddenly she'll say "ok, let's put it away for now" and I need to accept the sudden change of plans. The cascade of emotions that I experience in this situation is unreal, as intense as any physical pleasure.

It makes sex much better for me. Being on the knife edge of orgasm the whole time I'm inside her is unreal. We often fuck in positions that allow me to have her foot in my face while I'm pounding her, which we both love. Having her foot in my face and her sacred yoni clutched around my cock while I'm trying to hold back an orgasm is more intense and pleasurable than any drug I've ever done, and I've done them all.

And for best results, there need to be consequences attached to the male's failure to follow the lady's semen retention rules -- otherwise he'll just come and then apologize, which kind of defeats the purpose. If I ejaculate without permission, my queen will often be cold to me the entire next day which I find psychologically unbearable. Usually she will also discipline my ass with her wooden hairbrush. These are very powerful incentives to comply with the rules.

The benefits for me are nice, but what matters is her pleasure. Retention means I can have sex longer and with more passion, it means I have bigger and harder erections, and it means I have a properly chivalrous and deferential attitude toward her throughout the day. It allows me to make her happy and to meet her standards for me, so I do it.

Have fun and let us know how it goes!

 

[sweettalk4u]

Totally awesome!

 

[Ironfan]

I was edged this morning after I gave the OH an orgasm. Slowly stroked as she told me she loved the feel of big, heavy balls.

She told me I might get chance to cum before she goes away for the weekend but if not I'm not allowed to cum til she gets back.

Honestly I don't know which I want at this point.

 

[sweettalk4u]

If you’re caged you have no choice

 

[Ironfan]

If you’re caged you have no choice

That is true. The OH knows i read lit and chat to people on line.

The threat is if I cum without her permission/engagement then it's a month of no touching or cumming. She given me enough rope to hang myself

 

[sweettalk4u]

No touching is tough