Edging/orgasm control - what is your experience and tips?

[Ironfan]

Yeah, had a weekend before as punishment. Just brushing against my boxers/jeans was enough to make me hard

 

[DevotedHusband1]

I was edged this morning after I gave the OH an orgasm. Slowly stroked as she told me she loved the feel of big, heavy balls.

She told me I might get chance to cum before she goes away for the weekend but if not I'm not allowed to cum til she gets back.

Honestly I don't know which I want at this point.

Sounds awesome man. My wife is also into giving me this kind of positive reinforcement which I really enjoy. She will come up to me during the day (we both work from home) and squeeze my bulge and tell me how proud she is of my hard cock and my big, swollen balls. I mean, who doesn't want his woman saying something like that? I love being her strong stud with swollen male organs swinging between his legs...she deserves nothing less.

 

[Ironfan]

So I got drained last night. Having made my wife orgasm, she edged me with a hand/bj whilst trying to decide whether to leave me all weekend (as she is away) or let me cum.

She then said suddenly if I didn't cum in the 10 seconds I was going to be left hanging. I definitely came. After over a week it was glorious.

 

[SubJ_]

I had a sub some years ago, in real life, and trained her to cum as I slowly counted down from 10 to 0. If she didn’t make it in time she had to wait until the next time I allowed her to play……

Exactly the kind of thing that interests me! Thankyou for sharing this!

 

[Hornynipples61]

I'm single and do tease and denial and edging all the time. I love the way I feel when I'm so horny I'd be willing to do anything to cum. I'll play with doms online or read tease and denial stories on here. Right now I'm going on 5 weeks without cumming. I'm so wet...so horny...and I love it!

 

[Heyteach]

That’s pretty hot!!! Pm me!

 

[Older_Pervert]

I'm single and do tease and denial and edging all the time. I love the way I feel when I'm so horny I'd be willing to do anything to cum. I'll play with doms online or read tease and denial stories on here. Right now I'm going on 5 weeks without cumming. I'm so wet...so horny...and I love it!

Your orgasm, when it finally arrives, will be a thing to behold!

 

[slavemelanie]

I was with a dominant man several years back that would give me the length of a song to climax without touching after having my orgasms restricted for various lengths of time...the caveat was i was to place a wireless speaker against my pussy and clit and was allowed control of the volume as the music vibrated against me...needless to say He chose deep base pumping songs and rarely was i not writhing in ecstasy before the song concluded.

 

[Ironfan]

I was with a dominant man several years back that would give me the length of a song to climax without touching after having my orgasms restricted for various lengths of time...the caveat was i was to place a wireless speaker against my pussy and clit and was allowed control of the volume as the music vibrated against me...needless to say He chose deep base pumping songs and rarely was i not writhing in ecstasy before the song concluded.

That's an interesting way to do it. Bonus points as I bet hearing the song again in public had an effect too.

 

[Will527]

Part of the excitement of being edged is giving her total control, do decide if, when, or how she will give me release. But when she promises to let you but then holds off even longer, the end result is so intense that you want it more and more.

 

[Curious4more2020]

When doing this with a guy online .. I always start small and increase the times gradually

My favorite part is to have them stop after the time has expired and write an email to me of everything they were thinking of... and then they can start again and finish .. if they are allowed to finish

I just love being out with friends or maybe with a guy and that email comes in .. it makes me feel incredible

That email also gives me a lot of good info in which way to take things .. that allows me to tighten the screws on him

Sometimes I like to assign small times during the day .. like 5 mins in the bathroom at work ..then the hour long at night

I tell them to go really slow and stop and take breaks as needed

If they keep up with the assignments the relationship keeps growing

How do I sign up for this MissMandy? So intensely arousing this would be!!!

 

[DevotedHusband1]

I had an amazing denial experience with my queen recently. Shortly after Christmas she told me that I would be retaining until New Year's Eve so that I could have an extra big orgasm for her on that night. I prepared all week, hitting the gym hard and taking cold showers to boost my testosterone and make a nice big load. On NYE I was proud to service her with an absolutely insane erection. She loves it when it is so big and hard that it hurts a little. I made her come so hard that...she passed out immediately afterward. In this situation I am not to disturb her. I have never been so out of my mind with frustrated lust. I spent half an hour as she dozed just caressing and staring at her feet. Then I spent another hour and a half just wandering around the house drunk out of my mind on testosterone and dopamine. I stroked my cock and thought about her which I am allowed to do as long as I don't climax. I finally went to bed around 2am with my hard-on tenting the sheet while she slept peacefully.

The next day she didn't say anything about this, but when we had sex that night she stroked my shaft with her toes during foreplay. This is a treat for me and a way that she lets me know she is pleased with me. I then fucked her brains out again and was finally allowed to come. I shot two huge ropes followed by a steady lava flow and did plenty of the studly grunting and groaning that she likes. Afterwards she told me that she was so pleased with the sex we had during my week of denial that she is going to change my time between ejaculations from 3-4 days to 5-7 days. I started to beg her not to, but then she explained that my new year's resolution is to enthusiastically embrace the orgasm management program that she decides on. I got the picture: discussion closed. She says that my job is to embrace the new regime, so I am embracing the new regime. I am madly in love with this woman!

 

[Hornynipples61]

I was with a dominant man several years back that would give me the length of a song to climax without touching after having my orgasms restricted for various lengths of time...the caveat was i was to place a wireless speaker against my pussy and clit and was allowed control of the volume as the music vibrated against me...needless to say He chose deep base pumping songs and rarely was i not writhing in ecstasy before the song concluded.

Oh I love this!!

 

[Hornynipples61]

Part of the excitement of being edged is giving her total control, do decide if, when, or how she will give me release. But when she promises to let you but then holds off even longer, the end result is so intense that you want it more and more.

Exactly! And with the promise of finally getting to cum, I'm always willing to do things I don't like. So hot and horny...it's especially fun for the sadists. "I'll let you cum if you let me crop your ass hole"

 

[Ironfan]

Stroked whilst watching TV last night, told I wasn't allowed to cum. Pleasured my OH with fingers and tongue before further edging.

Woke this morning to more edging with a slow hand/blowjob and told I might get to cum later.

My balls are still aching from it.

 

[bone251]

Exactly! And with the promise of finally getting to cum, I'm always willing to do things I don't like. So hot and horny...it's especially fun for the sadists. "I'll let you cum if you let me crop your ass hole"

I had a friend that kept me horny. She gave me a chance to cum. I minute of blowjob for every kick to the balls. I figured 10 minutes 10 kick would do it. I neglected to consider how much zing I would lose from the kicks. Had to do 20 kick the second try. 14 would have done it though. She enjoyed it a lot and I finally got to cum.

 

[NaughtyGeminiGirl96]

I'm going on 3 days of edging throughout the day but especially at night I'll edge until I can't take it any more and yearn to cum then I stop and go to bed. I wake up aching then start the process all over again. I was looking for a Dom who would allow me to cum but it's hard to find someone who instructs me the way I like so I'm edging until I find someone.

 

[J D Danger]

I'm going on 3 days of edging throughout the day but especially at night I'll edge until I can't take it any more and yearn to cum then I stop and go to bed. I wake up aching then start the process all over again. I was looking for a Dom who would allow me to cum but it's hard to find someone who instructs me the way I like so I'm edging until I find someone.

I love to edge DM me. we can talk and see if we click

 

[petes478]

Exactly the kind of thing that interests me! Thankyou for sharing this!

Pinning you down beneath me as I stuff your brown submissive pussy pounding you hard. Rough. Forcefully. Stretching your pussy as I ram it hard.

 

[N2outdoors]

Hell yes! This is spot on.

My wife did release me over the weekend (29 days wo cumming) She had me use a prostate massager and she masturbated me for two hours. It was fucking maddening, how many dry prostate orgasms I had.

After the two hour alarm went off, she was ready to let me go. She gave me a wet prostate orgasm and just gently tipped me over the edge w my massager still in me. Not a ton, but cum just oozed out. Maddening! Frustrating!

But I was still hard as hell, so she kept on jerking me off. It didn’t hurt (like no post orgasm torture) and she edged me for another 10 minutes. She brought me off with her hand and then took it off as I was just cumming. I must’ve shot 8-9 strong ropes with my cock flapping and moving involuntary.
I’m into orgasm control and I support this message!

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[N2outdoors]

I like to listen to erotic hypnosis videos through headphones while I chat or look at porn. It gets me pretty hot. There are enough varieties of erotic hypnosis topics that I can sort of regulate arousal follow along with some JOI, but stop before the order to cum, keep going. While I typically cum at least once a day, (Well, sometimes maybe other day, depending on life.) usually spending 15-20 minutes doin' the do, a couple few times a week, I like to spend a couple of hours on the above method. Crazy! KA-RAAAAZY! The final result is far more intense that the typical "Squick-Squick-Squick- SPLOOT!" Mmm.

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[Tallcajun]

I’m still interested too.
Link?

 

[Woolmohair]

Erotic hypnosis videos??? Oh my, ever heard of them. What site do you use for these?

https://hypnotube.com/ , https://spankbang.com/6mqww/video/sucking+cock ,

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... Just a few examples, and different types of hypno... and to aid it along, play this or something like it,

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, maybe that,

, or that.. let me know if you enjoy them...

 

[Wonderer67]

What kind of prostrate massager do you use? Do you recommend it?

I have an aneros vice. I am about to use it, since it’s too damn cold to work outside for a few hours.

I like it, I’ve only used it 2x and it’s a remote control vibrating version. I have another aneros but not vibrating.

Should be an interesting morning. My wife had me edge while she looked on, then had me full the bird feeders in the backyard, naked. (It’s 21° out). Now for some fun w aneros.

I am on a orgasm lockdown till whenever she sez…

 

[eric_erosfan]

I have sometimes dominated myself with orgasm denial, but I have found once I get up to a week of edging orgasm denial I get a persistent aching in my balls. And I am old enough now that anything that aches could be a sign of trouble. So I usually don't go more than 4 days of edging and then I will orgasm 2-3 times to really drain a lot of cum.